I've been married for three years and had a daughter two years ago. My mother-in-law is a bit patriarchal, and I am afraid that she will not like my baby. However, she behaved very well, taking care of me during confinement and helping to watch the children. Later, I found out that she was actually quite easy to get along with, maybe I thought too much.
When my daughter was 1 year old, my mother-in-law asked me to ask for another one, saying that I would have a companion so that she would not be too lonely. I had a caesarean section, and the doctor suggested that I have another one in three years, and I discussed it with my mother-in-law and agreed to have another one, but I plan to take a few more years, because my body has to be raised first. The two of us plan to let the two dolls be 3-5 years old, and it will be easier to take the children at that time.
Then, something happened that left me speechless. My mother-in-law and husband are very adamant that I should have another one as soon as possible, on the grounds that it is beneficial to the growth of the child. At first, I didn't agree, but I didn't expect my mother-in-law to deliberately alienate me later, and my husband began to be confused. Then I realized that my mother-in-law was still a bit patriarchal, but she just wanted me to have a second child. I used to be nice to me just to achieve her purpose, and I didn't tell the truth at all.
Even though I wasn't overwhelmed by them, I got pregnant unexpectedly. As a result, my mother-in-law died happily. When I was four months old, my mother-in-law showed me my gender, and when I learned that it was a girl, my face immediately changed. When I got home, I was told to beat the child out and have another boy. It's really dizzy, I asked my mother-in-law, what if I was pregnant with a girl? The mother-in-law did not answer, but bit the bullet and said that she wanted a boy. When my husband came back, I told him about it, but I didn't expect him to support my mother-in-law's point of view. It seems that I was wrong, and the fault was that I married into his family.
So I filed for divorce and took my daughter away, and I couldn't beat it off in my belly. The mother-in-law was reluctant at all, and said that she would not give living expenses, and she didn't even care about the child in her belly. Now that I'm divorced, I don't want to worry about that much money. The point is that my mother-in-law and husband also forced me to write a notarial deed, and only promised to help me raise my daughter, and they didn't care about the work in the belly. I just want to get away with them, it's disgusting.
I put my eldest daughter at my mother's house to take care of my mother, and then hurried back to work until I had my second child. Actually, I don't favor boys and girls, but when I gave birth to my son, I really felt much more comfortable, as if I had taken revenge on someone else. Come to think of it, my ex-husband's family should have repented by now, right? Forget it, stop thinking about the past, now I just want to raise my two children well.
Six months later, I left my two children with my mom and went back to work after my maternity leave. One day, when I went home, I met my ex-father-in-law and ex-husband in a group, and it turned out that they were here to get back together. I thought, "Cut, think beautifully, you have taken advantage of all the beautiful things, and now I have a boy and I think of me." "I refused mercilessly, and said that if they dared to harass me again, I would go straight to court, after all, I had the divorce certificate and the notarial certificate of the notary public in hand.
Although I kept telling myself not to take it to heart and that I could take care of my two children, when I could really let go, it was the disgusting faces that made me feel very happy. It feels so good to finally be able to start a new life without them!