Kindergarten "unspoken rules" teachers prefer these types of children? Look at your baby, right?
The neighbor's child, Yangyang, has spent more than two months in kindergarten and has already adapted to this novel life, but Yangyang's mother seems to be still in the stage of "separation anxiety". That's right, this mom's anxiety is particularly strong!
Whenever she talked about her child's situation in kindergarten, she complained: every time she asked about her child's situation at school, or asked the teacher to take a few more ** photos, they were always slow to respond, and it took half a day to reply with a short message. Is this an expression of dissatisfaction with my child? Is it because I didn't give a gift to the teacher?
Pity the hearts of parents all over the world! As an experienced parent, I deeply understand the anxiety of Yangyang's mother. After all, the child is still very young and has left his parents, and we are always worried about whether he eats well in kindergarten, whether he drinks enough water, whether he has been bullied or wronged, and so on.
In fact, many parents want to be able to build a good relationship with their child's teachers. After all, children will spend three years here, and they may spend more time with teachers every day than with their parents, so we always want teachers to take more care of our children.
However, even then, gift-giving is not the most appropriate way. Because teachers have strict professional norms, it may be considered inappropriate for a teacher of integrity to accept gifts. As the saying goes, "eat people with soft mouths, take people with short hands", any form of gift-giving may carry improper intentions, and sometimes even violate morality and professional ethics.
I have several relatives in my family who work in education, and the youngest cousin of my generation is a kindergarten teacher. Although she is a post-95 generation and usually has an open-minded and easy-going personality, at work, she shows a "maturity" and sense of responsibility that does not match her actual age.
Kindergarten"Unspoken rules": Teachers are more inclined to these three types of children.
To be honest, as a teacher, it is not easy to achieve complete "equal treatment". My cousin admits that some children are indeed more likeable, and she has some "partiality" towards several children in the class. These children usually have one of the following characteristics:
Children with strong self-care skills.
In the eyes of teachers, children with strong self-care skills are definitely the most popular! Because most children who have just entered kindergarten are not good at basic life skills such as eating independently and going to the toilet. Although teachers will try their best to help, after all, it is difficult for one teacher to take care of all the children in the face of many children.
Therefore, those children with strong self-care skills are particularly advantageous! Not only are they able to complete these tasks independently, but they can also become the teacher's "little assistants", helping the teacher to deal with some things that are within their ability, and even assisting children who are not able to take care of themselves.
Children with good presentation skills.
Teachers prefer children who can speak and express their needs accurately than those who can only cry. Every child has unique needs and ideas, and if they can't express them effectively, it's hard for teachers to meet their needs!
Therefore, children who are good at expressing themselves and can speak freely are more likely to attract the attention of teachers. Children who are actively engaged and active in class tend to receive more attention. In some public performances or activities, it is easier for teachers to choose such children to participate.
Children with a warm heart.
Some children are naturally warm-hearted and particularly observant. For example, at the end of the game, they will take the initiative to help the teacher organize the teaching aids and toys; After reading the picture book, I will take the initiative to put the book back in its place and tidy up the tables and chairs ......
When they see other children crying, they will quickly comfort them; When you find someone in trouble, you will be willing to lend a helping hand. Obviously he is still a baby, but like a little adult, he thinks about others in everything, not only is he kind and cute, but he also acts quickly and is enthusiastic to help others!
Therefore, how can such a warm-hearted child not be liked? It makes sense that they will be able to win more attention and favor from their teachers!
Normally, a good child in the teacher's mind includes self-care ability, emotional intelligence, personality and living habits, which is inseparable from the careful teaching and patient cultivation of parents!
In the daily work of the kindergarten, the teachers are often confronted with a group of innocent children, which makes them feel very happy. However, my cousin revealed that most of her worries at work were with her parents. Many times, some of the parents' practices are difficult to refuse, and it is difficult to refuse, which makes her feel quite uncomfortable.
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