People always have a variety of good wishes, each wish is closely related to the word "shun", such as: smooth sailing, everything goes smoothly, the wind and rain are smooth, and so on.
In fact, nine or eight times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory, adversity is the normal state of life, how can you tell outsiders! If it is just some trivial troubles, Shi Tiesheng's unsatisfactory is related to life, and if it is a test of heaven, then these tests are too heavy.
Shi Tiesheng's strong will and cheerful personality have won him fame and applause, and his life's painful experience has been used as a positive teaching material to teach students to learn to fight against fate and face setbacks bravely in the face of adversity.
But Shi Tiesheng's pain is real, and no one can really empathize.
The first time many people know Shi Tiesheng is from an article he once published "Autumn Remembrance", due to the paralysis of his legs, his temper became angry, depressed and complained, only knew that he was in great pain, but ignored that his family was also silently wiping tears in the invisible corner, when his mother died suddenly due to liver disease, he realized the meaning of life, to live well.
Shi Tiesheng was born on January 4, 1951, and his parents are local intellectuals, and their income is not badHe may have been nurtured by his parents since he was a child, and he is quite talented in literature.
But he was not very good when he was young, he liked sports in elementary school, especially running, and he would win the first place in every running competition, but he also injured his joints because of too much exercise. After graduating from junior high school, he caught up with the activity of "going to the mountains and going to the countryside", and Shi Tiesheng, who has always liked manual labor, took the initiative to sign up and go to the rural areas of Yan'an to join the queue.
The first time he came to the difficult rural area, he could only temporarily live in the cave, it was autumn and winter, the night was extremely cold, Shi Tiesheng was not in good health, and he couldn't adapt to the harsh environment, and it didn't take long for him to frostbite, so he could only go back to Beijing to accept **.
Shi Tiesheng, who returned to Beijing, still missed the land where he had worked, and as soon as his body recovered, he went to Yan'an again to cut the queue, and the people in the team knew that he was weak and gave special careLet him do the easier work of herding cattle and feeding them.
At that time, feeding cattle was an important job, cattle were the primary labor force of the production team, such as ploughing the land, pulling the heavy work of the plough had to depend on it, if the cattle feeder was lazy and did not let the cattle eat, it would definitely affect the work progress of the production team. Shi Tiesheng was able to be assigned this job, and it was also because the elders in the team trusted him.
Shi Tiesheng really did not live up to their trust, whether it was night or day, he would feed the cattle on time, feeding the cattle is a fine job, to soak until the black beans are soft and sprinkled in the cattle feed, because no one in the production team to do this kind of meticulous inspection, many people who feed the cattle will cut corners, but Shi Tiesheng did not!
Even in the middle of the night, he got up as usual to add grass to feed the cattle, and the wind was strong in winter, especially in the middle of the night, the cowshed would be ventilated on all sides, and Shi Tiesheng, who was feeding the cattle, was frozen and shivered. After feeding the cows, he will take the initiative to clean up the cowshed and then go back to make up for sleep, the sleep time is not long, but together is the most energetic!
Fortunately, the cattle did not live up to Shi Tiesheng's hard feeding, each one grew strong and strong, and every time he compared it with the cattle of other production teams, the cattle he fed always did more work than the cattle of other production teams.
However, the unfortunate thing still came, that day he went to the mountains to graze cattle as usual, a sudden rainstorm made him suffer from a cold, the original small illness made him have a high fever for several days, and the waist injury did not get a good ** in time and became more serious. Eventually, he was wheeled out of the hospital in a wheelchair and doctors declared him paralyzed in both legs. That year, he was just 21 years old.
For any person, paralysis of both legs is a very heavy blow, not to mention that Shi Tiesheng was only 21 years old at that time, there are countless possibilities in life, and life has just begun. It's just that before he had time to shine, his wings were broken by fate.
In fact, at the beginning, Shi Tiesheng was not as strong and meaningless as everyone thought, this kind of life made him feel suffocated, he had attempted suicide three times, his sister Shi Lan once revealed that she saw Shi Tiesheng swallow the whole bottle of medicine into his stomach, and then turned over in pain on the bed, then she knew what real despair was, her brother really wanted to die, and he had no pursuit of life.
Fortunately, with the encouragement of his mother and sister, Stetson accepted the fact that his limbs were paralyzed, and his life was back on track. In 1974, he was assigned to work as an antique painter in a factory in Beijing, and at the same time began his writing career. In 1981, he was diagnosed with kidney disease, so he had to go home to recuperate and concentrate on writing.
Shi Tiesheng integrated his own experience and life feelings into his pen, and wrote profound and philosophical articles, many readers were impressed by his words, and slowly, his readers became more and more, and his creations began to be officially recognized. Shi Tiesheng has won heavyweight awards such as the National Outstanding Short Story Award, the Writer of the Year Literary Award, and the first Lu Xun Literature AwardAfter that, he was also invited to join the Chinese Writers Association.
In 1989, Shi Tiesheng met the love of his life, Chen Ximi.
In fact, the first time they communicated in the form of a letter was in 1979, when Chen Ximi, who was the editor of a magazine and was a loyal reader of Shi Tiesheng, and the two of them sent letters back and forth for 10 years before they finally met him.
The first time he saw Chen Ximi, Shi Tiesheng felt that she was a Venus who had fallen into the mortal world, and her mutilated body did not affect her beauty at all, she was so beautiful and moving, like a light that warmed his heart!
Chen Ximi is also a disabled person, and he has the same experience, the two are so similar and know each other so well.
Shi Tiesheng once said that meeting Chen Ximi was the greatest luck in his life, and every day with her was happy.
That year, they got married, and their friends were very pleased that Shi Tiesheng could have a girl with a bright smile in his later life, and the appearance of this woman just added a touch of color to his gloomy life.
The two did a lot of things that Shi Tiesheng didn't dare to do before, they traveled all over the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, and took pictures everywhere they went. The couple in ** have been smiling at each other all the time, and the thin one** carries the sweet memories that the two of them can't forget.
Literature and a happy family give him a lot of positive energy, and when he thinks he is finally going to get rid of the shadow of misfortune, God plays a joke on him again, he is diagnosed with uremia and must rely on dialysis three times a week to survive. The ** process of hemodialysis is painful and expensiveFortunately, Beijing** and the Chinese Writers Association covered most of Shi Tiesheng's expenses, so that he could rely on writing to heal his illness and support his family.
Shi Tiesheng's will is very strong, and ordinary people would have been devastated by the blow of paralysis of both legs, not to mention suffering from a serious disease such as uremia, not to mention the pain of the dialysis process, this disease can also take people's lives at any time.
On the other hand, Shi Tiesheng, after a series of changes, his mentality is not as irritable as before, in other words, he feels that it doesn't matter. He has brushed shoulders with death several times, and he is no longer afraid of death, he will come if he wants to, after all, it can't be stopped, Shi Tiesheng also used a humorous tone to tell his friend how he was about to die, and his friend was so angry that he scolded him loudly, but he laughed indifferently.
I have to say that Shi Tiesheng is really a miracle of life, he has done a lot of things that normal people with good health and flexible limbs can't do, he no longer cares about the length of life, only pursues the width of life, and strives to make his life wonderful.
Even though he is suffering from illness all the time, he can still write excellent articles such as "Me and the Altar of Earth", "Broken Pen in the Gap of Illness", "My Journey to Ding Yi" and "The Rest of My Life is Long, Don't Panic, Don't Be Disappointed".
Since Shi Tiesheng was diagnosed with uremia, he knew that his life was short, but he was unwilling to leave this world like this. At least before leaving, contribute the last bit of residual heat.
After thinking about it, he was afraid that day would come unprepared, so he decided to inform his wife Chen Ximi of his last wish: not to hold a funeral, but to donate organs to medical research or people in need.
I didn't expect this day to come soon.
On December 31, 2010, 59-year-old Shi Tiesheng was paralyzed in a hospital bed and dying, he felt extremely uncomfortable, the pain hit his brain like a spinal cord, and it seemed that he would not survive the next day.
His wife, Chen Ximi, looked at Shi Tiesheng, who was moaning in pain on the bed, and couldn't bear it, and couldn't wait to pull out the oxygen tube directly to prevent him from enduring inhuman torture.
Now in this situation, she just wants to quietly accompany him to the last journey of her life. Recently, she took care of her husband who was seriously ill and bedridden, she hadn't rested for a long time, her body was weak and haggard, and her eyes had big dark circles, but she couldn't go, she knew that her husband needed her company.
Stetson once said,As long as Chen Ximi is here, he has hope of living, why doesn't Chen Ximi regard him as his own salvation?
Along the way, she knows how long Shi Tiesheng has fought against an unfair fate, he lost the ability to walk at the age of 21, and later suffered from kidney disease and developed severe uremia, relying on dialysis three times a week to maintain his life, how painful dialysis is, everyone who knows must know, but he is still tenaciously alive.
Shi Tiesheng is now 59 years old, and he looks down on his life, rather than living the sickbed, it is better to die and get out of the sea of suffering. It's just that the thought of a patient waiting for his liver to save his life in Tianjin is far away, and he can't die easily immediately.
In 2010, very few people were willing to donate their bodies after death, and in the eyes of people, even if they died, they had to be dignified, and the act of donating a body was great, but once the organs were donated, it was a dead body. At the time, this was a very unfortunate thing that everyone thought was a bad thing, and it was enough to see how much courage it took for Stetson to make this decision!
But even if he wants to transplant organs to save people, the patient is in Tianjin, and he is far away in Beijing for medical treatment, the distance is a problem. You must know that once a person dies, the organ will slowly become ischemia, and if the organ transplant cannot be completed in a short time, then the organ will be discarded.
At this time, Shi Tiesheng had fallen into a deep coma due to cerebral hemorrhage, with a high fever, his face was extremely red, his breathing was intermittent, and he couldn't even control his body well, so he endured his last breath, just to wait for the arrival of the doctor.
This kind of pain is extremely painful just to endure for a quarter of an hour, and Shi Tiesheng persevered for 9 hours, and experienced the fatigue of transferring to the hospital in the middle, all just to save another person's life. He knew that illness and death could break the last nerve of a person, and after being diagnosed with uremia, he watched the important people around him boil red eyes one by one, and naturally he didn't want to see another family suffer the same pain as himIt was as if his hope was perpetuated in others.
In the early morning of December 31, 2010, Shi Tiesheng passed away in Beijing. He exhaled his last breath and was finally freed from a life of pain. Thankfully, he did it and successfully transplanted his liver to the patient in Tianjin.
The young man doesn't know the taste of sorrow, and he is worried about the new words.
Today's young people are impetuous, exaggerating to 10 points as long as they encounter the slightest difficulty, and insisting on giving themselves all kinds of excuses and psychological hints. When we understand Shi Tiesheng, we will find that there are people in this world who can live so transparently.
For ordinary people, paralysis of both legs is an insurmountable hurdle, but Shi Tiesheng has suffered from paralysis of both legs, kidney disease, uremia and other changes, and has not lost his love for life. He is using his life to teach us to learn to cherish life and the people around us.
Shi Tiesheng once joked that his profession is illness, and his side business is writing.
He left the deepest impression on everyone is his smile as bright as the sun in winter and a pair of clear and clear eyes like a child, he gave all the warmth to others, and the pain was borne by himself, and his optimistic attitude towards life penetrated into his words, constituting the support of the context of the article.
Shi Tiesheng's life is undoubtedly full of disasters, and as a person, he is really great! Some people think that Stetson is great only because of his sufferings, and his works have depth because of these tribulations.
But the truth is that there have been many people who have suffered throughout the ages, but they have not turned their suffering into motivation, just because it is a real pain. There is only one Shi Tiesheng, and it has never been hardships that have made him, but just himself.
Shi Tiesheng used his own personal experience to warn every young person who is growing up that even if the road ahead is temporarily directionless, he cannot lose his vision of a better life.
The rest of your life is very long, as long as you keep moving forward, you will definitely be able to find another way.
No one's life can always be in a good situation, encountering difficulties and obstacles is the normal state of life, when facing difficulties and tests, you might as well look back at Shi Tiesheng's life. You will find that God does not shut all the doors, hope is always in the cracks of the doors.
Imperfect life is real, live in the present, no matter when and where, in good times or bad, you must not forget your original intention like Shi Tiesheng, have a strong will, and then you will be able to pursue a better future.