We often say that women are used to duplicity, saying no if they want, and asking for what they don't. But that's a kind of coquettish rolling when the relationship is good, and it's also a kind of fun. Family marital affection
So, how can you tell if your wife really wants a divorce? When the wife really wants to divorce, or even is ready for the divorce, she will often have the following behaviors:
First, your wife no longer asks of you and no longer cares about you.
No more requests means that she is starting to expect from you anymore. In the past, she may have expected you to raise a family and take care of the children, and spend more time with her. But now she won't be at all, even if you go out fishing, play cards, or drink with friends until midnight, she won't give you a **, won't nag you, and won't complain about you. She no longer cares about her family. During the holidays, if you don't give her a gift, she won't feel lost.
When a woman is no longer dependent on a man and no longer expects anything from him, it is not that she has become accessible, but that the man has become sober and she realizes that this man is unreliable.
Second, your wife is no longer so good to you, and she no longer puts you first in everything.
Women begin to have reservations about the family and your contributions, and no longer put all their minds on the whole family, only caring about themselves and their children. I have seen many women who live wholeheartedly after marriage, and are reluctant to spend money on good things for themselves, such as cosmetics, clothes and bags, but they will buy good and expensive things for their husbands and children. Even when cooking, most of them cook dishes that their husbands and children like.
But now you find out that she doesn't buy you clothes anymore, even if your ** and socks are torn, she doesn't care anymore, which means that her mind is no longer on you.
If she starts dressing herself up and buying herself beautiful clothes, it really means that she is ready to leave you inside.
Third, your wife is becoming more and more silent and no longer takes the initiative to communicate with you.
Women are naturally better at speech than men, and studies have shown that women are more gifted in language. According to the average statistics, women speak 20,000 words a day, while men only speak about 7,000 words a day on average.
Therefore, if a woman becomes silent at home, no longer confides in you about family trivialities as often as before, and no longer talks to you, it is mostly because her heart has become cold, and you feel that no matter how much more she says, you will not understand her thoughts and care. Believe her, her heart has cooled and may leave.
Fourth, the wife became more and more independent and proposed to go out to work
In the past, she couldn't do without you and needed your company, but now she has become a loner, she can go wherever she wants, handle all the big and small things by herself, carry the hard and weak things by herself, and even go out to find a job.
Fifth, the frequency of my wife's complaints has increased significantly, and she often has an impatient expression
In marriage, a woman who wants to divorce will definitely have obvious behaviors, that is, all kinds of complaints to her husband, confiding in her grievances, and mentioning the pain and grievances she has endured over the years.
Usually, the wife wants to influence the man and see the man's attitude by doing this. If the husband is unwilling to change, or continues to be disappointed, he will become more determined in his decision to divorce.
Sixth, your wife begins to deliberately or unconsciously show rejection and indifference to you, and rejects married life
After indifference and silence, the wife will not even be able to maintain daily friendliness, and will directly treat her husband with an indifferent attitude, especially after another quarrel, no longer care about your cold war, and refuse to live as a couple.
If the husband wants to continue to maintain this marriage, it is necessary to have in-depth communication, and adjust the mode of getting along with the two in a planned way, otherwise the marriage will only come to an end.