In the drama "Thirty Only", the heroine Gu Jia does take care of her family. Away from home, she is a good advisor to help her husband with advice. At home, she is a good wife who takes care of her husband and son.
Graduated from 985 University, she has otherworldly thoughts. There is also the desire of most mothers to hope for their son Jackie Chan. To this end, they invested 10 million yuan and spent 20 million yuan to buy a river-view house in Junyue Mansion. Just because there is the best bilingual kindergarten in the local area, she plans to go abroad in the future, so she doesn't have to take the English test alone. When they moved into a mansion of 30 million, everything was ready, and they took their son to the kindergarten for an interview, Xu Ziyan performed well at first. In the end, because the interview teacher asked a question, "Where is the capital?" The conventional answer to interviews with teachers and parents is "Beijing". But Xu Ziyan heard it as "all hands are **? So he replied on his arm. Under the persecution of everyone, Xu Ziyan answered several "on the arm" one after another, and finally bit the interviewer's arm, and was regarded as a problem child by the kindergarten teacher. Therefore, the interview is in vain.
The mansion was bought, and his son couldn't get into kindergarten, so of course Gu Jia was unwilling. Through the help and recommendation of her best friend Zhong Xiaoqin, she found Mrs. Wang for help. Who knows that rich people spend too much work, and in Mrs. Wang's place, Gu Jia took a lot of trouble and went around a big circle before her son entered the kindergarten again.
But the additional price of entering the kindergarten is that the kindergarten is given a free fireworks every year, and this fireworks cost 500,000 yuan. That is to say, for his son to enter this kindergarten, he first spent 30 million yuan to buy a mansion, and then he needed to spend an additional 500,000 yuan every year. Unexpectedly, on the first day of sending my son to kindergarten, I met Muzi's mother, the president of the parent committee of her son's class. The tradition is that on the first day of kindergarten, each child in the class is made a cupcake.
As soon as Gu Jia heard that this was her strong point, she immediately went home and sent it away, and Muzi's mother was very satisfied with it. I also heard that Gu Jia lived in the wealthy area of Junyue Mansion, so I warmly invited Gu Jia to participate in the food party in a few days and help her. Gu Jia agreed, and made a lot of cakes that were pinched into **villains that day, which was warmly welcomed and appreciated by children and parents. Even the kindergarten principal praised Gu Jia, but he never thought that at this moment, a child named Nan Nan had a seizure and scared many children into crying.
Gu Jia, who returned home, first chatted with Xu Huanshan for a while, and said that after Nan Nan had epilepsy, parents led by Muzi's mother felt that Nan Nan's continued stay in the kindergarten would affect their children. In this regard, Xu Huanshan and Gu Jia have the same opinion, and feel that children cannot be deprived of their qualifications for education because of this. Gu Jia was worried that her son was afraid to sleep, so she communicated with her son.
She asked her son if Xu Ziyan was afraid? She said to her son seriously and patiently: "Do you know why Nan Nan is like that today? That's because Nan Nan is sick. Nan Nan, this disease is special because he has a special function, just like your Ultraman. He had a small electric rod in his head, and sometimes he would be electrocuted for some reason, and then he would faint. Just like today, he didn't know what was going on. When he faints again, don't touch him, remove the toys beside him, let his head turn sideways, and he will be fine himself. ”
After Gu Jia finished speaking, Xu Ziyan seemed to understand whether he understood or not, but his mood had become very good, and he also accepted Nan Nan's illness.
So Gu Jia sent the following text message in the group of teachers and parents: "On behalf of the whole family, I hope Nan Nan will stay." Because his own child was frightened and cried by the disease, he deprived the other child of the right to receive a normal education. This discriminatory notion should not be implanted in children's minds from the kindergarten stage. This is more negative than any negative effects. Gu Jia's words were like throwing a stone into the calm water, which caused a big sensation. It has been praised by many parents who originally supported Muzi's mother. After careful consideration, the director of the kindergarten adhered to their purpose of teaching and educating people, and let Nan Nan continue to stay in the kindergarten. and praised Gu Jia's messages and suggestions, and sincerely invited Gu Jia to serve as the head of the kindergarten parent committee, but Gu Jia shirked it.
It is often said that the mother is the feng shui of the family. A mother's education will affect a child's life. So what is the connotation of mother's education? I believe that mother's education has the following characteristics: 1. Mother's education is a child's meta-education, and it is one of the earliest and most basic forms of children's education. 2. Mother's education takes place in the family, which is life-oriented education, an important part of family education, and the most influential and inspiring education in family education. 3. Mother's education is the extension and expansion of social education in family life, and for children, any other form of education is irreplaceable. 4. Mother's education also covers the mother's own education.
This shows how important a mother's own education is. According to one survey, 29 percent of the experience of raising and nurturing children is passed on by elders2%。Introductions by others account for 256%。40 percent learn from books5%。Only 47%。It can be seen that the quality of the mother herself is related to the level of healthy growth of the child and the quality of family life. Seeing this episode, I am also full of praise for Gu Jia's approach! I was deeply touched. In fact, Gu Jia did everything possible to spend 30 million yuan to buy a mansion and spend 500,000 yuan to set off fireworks, which is not as important as her correct three views on her son's guidance. Longteng New Year film recommendation