My mother was hospitalized, I spent 20,000 yuan on 10 days of care, my brother only sent porridge once, but my mother said that it was better for her son, and I woke up.
I am Li Tingting, 40 years old this year, and I have an older brother named Li Qiang, who is one year older than me. We grew up in an ordinary family, our father was a worker, and my mother was a housewife. My brother and I have very different personalities, I like to read quietly, and he likes to play lively. I always thought that one day I could be admitted to university and realize my dreams, and he always thought that one day I could make a lot of money and live a good life.
I have loved to study since I was a child, and I was the first in my class every time I took an exam. But my mother said that it was useless for girls to study, so I went to work in a garment factory after graduating from high school. I was very reluctant, and I felt that I had the ability to pursue a higher degree and a better job. But my mother didn't listen to my explanation, she said that I just need to find an honest man to marry, and don't trouble her.
Although my brother had poor grades, my mother enrolled him in a private university and got him a job in a bank. My mom said he was a boy who had to be productive and have to provide for his family. My brother doesn't know how to be grateful, he always spends extravagantly, buys famous brands, drives sports cars, and makes some bad friends. My mom turned a blind eye to his indulgence, saying that he was young, rich, and inevitably had some money.
After I got married, my mother didn't give me a penny for the dowry, saying that she wanted to buy a house for my brother, so I could only rent a cottage with my husband. My husband is a teacher and his income is not high, but he is very hardworking and considerate. Although we live a simple life, we are also very happy. We.
We have a lovely daughter, we named her Xiao Yun, she is our heart. We raised her to be a smart, kind, confident girl and we are so proud of her. We also often take her on trips to see the outside world and broaden her horizons.
My mother was sick and hospitalized, and my brother and sister-in-law said that they were busy and asked me to take care of her, so I had to take a leave of absence and run to the hospital every day. My mom had liver cancer and the doctor said she was in a serious condition and needed surgery as soon as possible. My mom didn't want to, she said she didn't want to spend that much money, so she should leave it to my brother. I advised her not to think so, her life was the most important thing. My mother said I didn't understand, she said that her whole life was for my brother, and she only wanted him to be happy.
My mother's concern and expectation of my brother, and her indifference and pickiness towards me, made me very sad, and I felt that she was unfair. She always said that my brother was her pride, her hope, and her everything. She always said that I was a burden to her, a burden to her, and a uselessness to her. I don't understand why I can't get a little bit of love, a little affirmation, a little respect from her.
After my mother was discharged from the hospital, my brother came to pick her up, and my mother asked me and my brother to pay half of the hospitalization fee, and I reluctantly agreed. My brother said he didn't have any money and asked me to pay it back, and he said he would pay it back to me. I knew he was lying to me, and he never paid me back. My mom believed him, she said he was an honest person and wouldn't lie to her. I was speechless, I could only silently pull out my savings and pay the bills.
After my mom came home, it didn't take long for her to go to my brother's house, saying that she was going to cook for them and help them with the children. My brother has two sons, both mischievous little devils, who often bully my mother and treat her like a servant. My sister-in-law doesn't care, she just dresses up, goes shopping, and often quarrels with my brother. My mother didn't dare to say anything, she said that she was for the sake of maintaining the harmony of the family, and she said that she was for the happiness of her grandson.
My dad told me that my mom had given him back half of my brother's money, saying that it was not easy for him to earn money and that he should save more. I cried, I felt that my mother was so unfair, why should she be so partial, so partial. My dad said he couldn't help it, he said he was also helpless, and he said he felt sorry for me too. I asked him why he didn't talk to my mom, and he said he was afraid of making her angry, and he said he didn't want to fall out with her.
I called my brother and wanted to ask him why he did this to my mother, but he said that they were all happy and asked me not to meddle with things. He said he has his life, I have mine, and we don't interfere with each other. He said he didn't owe me anything, and I don't expect anything from him. He said he was my mother's son, I was just her daughter, and we were not in the same position. He said he hung up, so he hung up the **.
I decided not to pay attention to my mother's affairs, I quit my job, took my husband and children abroad, and started a new life. I got a teaching job abroad, I loved it, and I feel like I've finally found my worth. My husband and children are also very supportive, they give me a lot of love and encouragement, and I feel very happy. I occasionally get letters from my dad saying that my mom's health is getting worse and worse, and my brother and sister-in-law don't care much about her, and he is worried. I feel a little sad in my heart, but there is nothing I can do, I can only bless them and hope that they can be happy.