There are six unspoken rules to keep in mind during the Spring Festival, although no one says them explicitly, but they are extremely important
Although Chinese New Year is a wonderful time for the whole family to reunite, it can also be a headache at times. For example, during the Spring Festival, many people say: dealing with people is a laborious thing. In front of different people, you have to say different things, think carefully before speaking, and if you are not careful, you will fall into the pit. To avoid this, we also need to understand the unspoken rules of Chinese New Year socializing.
1) Meet three times without asking questions.
During the holidays, we often meet relatives of different identities. If you want to make a good impression on your relatives when you meet them, keep them in mind"Three don'ts"。People who go to school should not take the initiative to ask about your academic performance, if the grades are good, it is understandable, if the grades are not good, taking the initiative to ask the other party may lead to an embarrassing situation.
People don't ask about salary, and for the vast majority of office workers, the salary is barely enough to make ends meet, and they are reluctant to talk about labor and management with others during the New Year's holidays. For entrepreneurs, you can't take the initiative to ask about their income, because the business itself has profits and losses, you can't make money all the time, and whoever loses money is in a bad mood. If you take the initiative to ask, it will make you feel even more lost.
2) No inappropriate jokes.
During the Chinese New Year, we should also pay attention to our words and deeds, and never make inappropriate jokes. You know, there is a limit to jokes, and only what others find funny is funny. If others don't find it funny, you'll just put yourself in an embarrassing situation and even be perceived as offensive by others.
3) Don't meddle when others make fun of you.
It is inevitable that there will be all kinds of parties during the Spring Festival, and there are always some people who like to make some jokes during the festival. In order to liven up the party, they will also take the initiative to mention their past troubles or shortcomings. But no matter what others say, we shouldn't go along with it. The ridicule of others is a kind of debasement of one's own posture, and you can't really despise it, after all, no one likes to be denied their feelings.
4) Sincere praise from the heart.
In the festive New Year, you will also spend a lot of time meeting with friends and family, and in the presence of these people, we must learn to praise them. After all, everyone has vanity, and when we praise them, they also unconsciously reinforce our good judgments. But there is also skill in complimenting others, it must be sincere praise, praise from the heart, and you can't say a few words that don't fit the boundary, which will make others think that you are particularly fake.
5) Don't impose the light on others.
At the Spring Festival wine party, there is always a group of people who come over, and they use their own experience to persuade you, such as persuading you to invest in financial management, and not to be leeks. Or, they advise you not to be so picky, just find someone to marry, after all, life is so short, it is good to live a good life. But they are also only giving you advice and do not know your real situation, so in this case, you still have to have your own opinions.
6) Don't disturb the happiness of others.
Everyone has their own happiness, what we have to do is not to be easily disturbed, and we do not speculate on the happiness of others with our own thoughts. After all, everyone has different criteria for judging happiness, and what you think of as happiness is not necessarily what others want.