Alyssa Jia, a Taiwanese actress born in 1974, debuted as an idol drama star at the age of 16 and has been in the entertainment industry for nearly 30 years. She is beautiful and moving, with superb acting skills, and has twice won the championship of the world's top 100 beauties in Asia, and is the goddess in the hearts of many men.
However, her emotional journey was not smooth. She devoted herself to her acting career at a young age, and while pursuing fame and fortune, she also experienced many ups and downs. She always seems to be unable to resist the ** of love, but the result of the relationship breaks her heart again and again. In her thirties, she had already been through several relationships, but she was still alone.
It wasn't until she was 45 years old that Alyssa Jia really met someone who could accompany her for the rest of her life. This marriage, introduced by a friend, has made her a happy family of five.
However, before this, what kind of emotional twists and turns did Alyssa Jia go through?Her emotional path is tortuous and bizarre, which makes people sigh.
In 1990, Alyssa Jia made her debut by taking on food commercials.
In 1994, 20-year-old Alyssa Jia was already a well-known child star and children's program host. In that year, she starred in the first drama "Forensic Strange Case", and had many rival scenes with the actor Huang Jianqun.
Huang Jianqun is 4 years older than Jia Jingwen and is a well-known and powerful actor in the crew. The two gradually fell in love during the shooting, and Alyssa Jia tasted the sweetness and bitterness of love for the first time.
Jingwen was still very innocent at that time, she loved Brother Jianqun wholeheartedly, and never considered the fact that he was married. Xiao Zhang, the costume designer of the crew, said, "After work every day, Jingwen always has to chat with Brother Jianqun. Once I saw her secretly giving Brother Jianqun a birthday gift, which was very throbbing. ”
However, this youthful ambiguous relationship will inevitably escape doom after all. Towards the end of the filming, there was a scandal between the two of them. At that time, Huang Jianqun's wife Wang Baiyu was pregnant, and this ** sex news was tantamount to a bolt from the blue.
Wang Baiyu was furious and drove straight to the crew to confront Alyssa Jia. When she saw the two of them getting out of the car, she rushed forward and slapped Huang Jianqun twice mercilessly.
Wang Baiyu came very suddenly that day, and everyone was stunned. Xiao Zhang said, "Jingwen was so scared that she stood aside and kept crying, and Brother Jianqun was at a loss. I could see that Jingwen really loved him, and she didn't expect that her actions would bring such consequences to Brother Jianqun. ”
This sudden blow coupled with the change in her physical condition during pregnancy, Wang Baiyu was born prematurely the next day, and almost had a difficult birth. Huang Jianqun was woken up by this existential crisis of household registration and never contacted Jia Jingwen again.
I can understand Brother Jianqun's choice. Director Ling, the producer of the crew, said, "He just became a father, and he can't help but think about his family." As for Jingwen, she is still young, which is just a regret on her way to growth. ”
Indeed, in life, it is inevitable to experience some accidents. But this bumpy first love also made 20-year-old Alyssa Jia mature, making her realize that her future still has a long way to go.
In 1997, Alyssa Jia won the Best Newcomer Award at the Taiwan TV Golden Bell Awards for the family drama "Four Thousand Gold".
In 1998, Alyssa Jia met the popular idol drama actor Ma Jingtao. Ma Jingtao, known as the "Roaring Emperor", has a handsome and extraordinary appearance and exciting acting skills, and is sought after by countless girls. And Alyssa Jia also fell under his spell.
I remember that at that time, Miss Jia stared at Brother Ma's poster in a daze every day, with a silly smile on her face. Alyssa Jia's assistant Xiao Li recalled with a smile.
However, Ma Jingtao and actress Yu Li had been in love for many years at that time, and the relationship between the two was very good, and they even planned to get married.
But this did not stop Jia Jingwen from pursuing Ma Jingtao. Maybe it was because Ma Jingtao's boyfriend was too strong, or maybe Alyssa Jia wanted to get rid of the shadow of being abandoned before, she finally succeeded in making Ma Jingtao empathize and break up with Yu Li.
However, this victory of fame and fortune did not last long. Ma Jingtao's machismo style soon became unbearable for Jia Jingwen.
Jia Jingwen still failed to marry Ma Jingtao after all. She was unwilling to just be a foil behind him, so she chose to break up with him.
Miss Jia was crying very sadly, but I knew she was right. Xiao Li said.
Out of this frustrated love, 24-year-old Alyssa Jia has become more mature and wise. She will never easily pay too much for love again, and since then she has become more and more stable on the road of affection.
In 2002, 28-year-old Jia Jingwen moved to Chinese mainland and quickly became popular with "Relying on the Sky and Slaying the Dragon". Two years later, she met Sun Zhihao, the rich second generation, and fell in love at first sight.
Sun Zhihao is the only son of the chairman of a chaebol, and his family is extremely wealthy. He is a suave person and likes to live a life of drunken money. Because of the cooperation of "Supreme Red Face", he was attracted by Alyssa Jia's beauty and charm, and took the initiative to pursue her.
At that time, Young Master Sun simply chartered our company. Alyssa Jia's agent Xiao Liu said, "The box at the top was booked, covered with rose petals, and Miss Jia's favorite desserts and champagne were specially placed." The scene was shocking, and Miss Jia couldn't refuse. ”
However, the wealthy family couldn't withstand this turmoil, and soon broke the scandal between Sun Zhihao and Jia Jingwen, who is also a mainland actress, and said that Jia Jingwen was pregnant. This matter reached the ears of the old man of the Sun family, and in a fit of anger, he ordered someone to take Jia Jingwen to the hospital for pregnancy tests and DNA tests, for fear that his baby son would be planted in the hands of a woman.
I also went to the hospital. Xiao Liu recalled, "At that time, the Sun family sent a lot of bodyguards to watch, and Miss Jia was frightened. Even the child in her womb may not be biological, let alone test DNA. Fortunately, the pressure was high, so I didn't do it. ”
In the end, under the pressure of Sun Zhihao's parents, they could only get married in a flash. However, soon after marriage, Sun Zhihao, who was inseparable in nature, continued to indulge in gambling and fooling around. He relied on the money in his family, but he still did not restrain himself in the slightest.
I went to visit Miss Jia, and she lost a lot of weight. Xiao Liu sighed, "It is very difficult for a woman to desperately want to change a man, and after all, she is a foreigner girl who has stepped into a wealthy family, and she can endure it if she can." ”
In the end, it fell short, Sun Zhihao was bumped into by Jia Jingwen when he played cards outside and didn't return home, and she was excited to give birth prematurely under the quarrel. After that, there was a rift in the relationship between the two, and finally they had to go to divorce.
I feel sorry for Miss Jia. Xiao Liu said, "She gave so much, but she couldn't wait for it to be reciprocated." However, I believe that God will favor those who work hard, and I believe that Miss Jia will eventually meet true love. ”
She grew up to be a generation of goddesses, but her feelings were full of fragments. It wasn't until that year that Lady Luck really favored her wavering heart.
In 2014, 40-year-old Jia Jingwen was introduced to 31-year-old Xiu Jiekai.
Xiu Jiekai is the president of an investment company with a gentle and introverted personality. He looks Sven and has a steady and mature demeanor, which is different from the *** who pursued Jia Jingwen before, giving her an unprecedented sense of security.
The day I first met Jie Kai, I thought he was different from other boys. Xiao Li recalled, "He was very gentle with Miss Jia, and his eyes were very sincere. I believe that love at first sight is not groundless, and they should be the right people. ”
However, society is still not optimistic about such a nine-year age difference. There are even remarks speculating that Xiu Jiekai is just Tujia Jingwen's beauty.
Miss Jia was also confused. She was afraid it was just a whim and asked me if I could accept it. "But I trust her judgment." She's 40 years old and well-informed, and it's time to meet someone who really treats her. ”
Under Xiu Jiekai's careful care, Jia Jingwen gradually relieved her defense. Xiu Jiekai doesn't mind that she is already a mother, and he cares for her daughter even moreHe is busy with work, but he always finds time to spend time with her and cares about her troubles at workEvery time she has a birthday, she always prepares a surprise. Such sincere love made her heart move.
In 2015, she was happy to be a mother again. came to the recording site of the well-known variety show "Mom is Superman", and she was five months pregnant.
Jie Kai also came to the scene that day. Xiao Liu said, "I saw him touching Miss Jia's belly and talking to the baby very dotingly." Miss Jia was very happy, her whole body was glowing, and she was so beautiful that she looked like a girl. Although this is her second marriage, I dare say she has never been so happy. ”
Today, Alyssa Jia is a mother of three sons and two daughters. She has a successful career, a happy family, and a husband who is patient and giving. After going through ups and downs, she finally became a truly happy woman.
Alyssa Jia's emotional road was full of ups and downs, and she went through thousands of sails before she finally waited for the destined true love.
The mistakes she made when she was young, the tears of abandonment and heartbreak, have become an indispensable scenery on her way to growth. It is precisely because she understands the past that she cherishes the people in front of her even more.
Life is impermanent, and so is love. When we meet sincerely, we can resist the wind and rain and work together to make a white head.
May all of you and I be able to keep the clouds open and see the moon, and meet the person who really understands you and loves you.