When the name Ren Shuai is mentioned, everyone may feel very unfamiliar. However, counting the roles he has played, it can be said that each one is a classic, Zhen Sanjiang in "Crossing the Guandong", Liang Zi in "Mother's War", and Lao Ding in "Parents' Love".
In 2000, Ren Shuai had already appeared in front of the TV screen, but the audience's impression of him was quite vague, so that now, at the age of 51, he still has not become a celebrity, why is this?
However, in real life, Ren Shuai behaved very considerately, because a bottle of yogurt formed a fate with his wife, and since then a sweet love has begun.
Let me lead you today to explore Ren Shuai's colorful life and see the ups and downs he has experienced.
On May 16, 1970, an ordinary family in Harbin, Heilongjiang Province welcomed a boy, and his parents named him Ren Shuai. Ren Shuai is the eldest son in the family and has a lovely younger sister.
Although born in an ordinary family, his parents never relaxed the education of Ren Shuai and his younger sister. Ren Shuai excelled at a very young age, and his school grades were always excellent, and until he graduated from high school, Ren Shuai never worried his parents.
In his junior year of high school, Ren Shuai had grown to a big man with a height of 1.8 meters, standing in the crowd, his handsome and handsome appearance under the sun was unforgettable. Soon, Ren Shuai, who was only 20 years old, was successfully admitted to the Performance Department of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts and officially became associated with performance.
At that time, Ren Shuai was particularly eye-catching in the class with his handsome and upright appearance and figure, and his classmates at that time included Li Zhiqiang, Yan Ni and others.
The college years always pass in a hurry, and after a few years on campus, Ren Shuai successfully graduated. However, not everyone in the entertainment industry at that time had a play to play, and many actors even needed to play for several years or even more than ten years before they had the opportunity to play a formal role. Therefore, Ren Shuai was not in a hurry, but chose to go to a repertory troupe in the Lanzhou Military Region and started his acting career.
The repertory troupe is really a very workable place, and Ren Shuai's daily life is to trek through mountains and rivers with the troupe, running around Gansu to perform. Everywhere they went, it was all steep and difficult, but Ren Shuai was never afraid of hardships. He always devoted himself to the various tasks arranged by the regiment and completed them conscientiously, no matter how hard and tired he was, he never complained.
Over time, Ren Shuai was gradually promoted from a tricky actor to a starring actor, and even before long, the most important actor title in the repertory troupe fell to him.
Ren Shuai's family is in Harbin, but he works in Lanzhou, Gansu, as a drama actor, his allowance is pitiful, so although he returns to real life, he has a poor life.
Every year, on holidays, Ren Shuai is always unable to go home to reunite with his parents. He explained to his parents that he was too busy with work to return home, but the reality was that he could not afford to travel between Lanzhou and Harbin. It's a long journey, and you have to bear a huge amount of transportation costs every time you go home.
Since there was no direct train to Harbin in Lanzhou at that time, it could only pass through Baotou and then transfer to a train to Harbin.
Every Spring Festival, Ren Shuai does not hesitate to return to his hometown of Harbin, because he believes that accompanying his parents is also a crucial thing.
Every time Ren Shuai comes home, he will bring Lanzhou's local specialties to his parents to taste, and he never returns empty-handed. Sometimes he would use up the savings in his pocket, and then ask his comrades for help and borrow money to buy a ticket back to Lanzhou.
Although it is often said that a man stands at thirty, Ren Shuai has worked in the repertory troupe for seven years, but his career has not improved. What made his parents even more anxious was that his personal life was also confused. Even at that time, all the savings on Ren Shuai's body added up to less than 5,000 yuan.
In this case, his parents who were far away in Harbin were very anxious, so under their repeated urging, Ren Shuai also realized that he needed to think about major events in his life.
However, in the face of reality, marriage requires funds to maintain married life, so Ren Shuai has come up with many ways. In the end, he got permission from the leaders of the repertory troupe: as long as there is no drama performance arranged, and there are film and television dramas outside that need actors, he can go out to participate in the filming.
Ren Shuai, who graduated from a professional college, has performed in the repertory troupe for 7 years, and his acting skills have been honed very well, and going out to film is indeed a good choice for him. People often say that he is like gold, he can shine in **, and Ren Shuai is like this.
As soon as he left the repertory troupe, Ren Shuai received four TV series performance opportunities one after another, such as "General Deng Baoshan" and "Turning Back is Heaven", and so on. In these film and television works, Ren Shuai can be seen. Gradually, he gradually adapted to the rhythm of life in filming. Even though they only played small roles at first, who didn't start with such roles?
Because Ren Shuai has such a positive attitude, he was able to experience a love encounter in Shanghai in that bleak season in late autumn.
After a scene, Ren Shuai planned to rest for a while, but his colleagues in the crew were in high spirits and dragged him to the party. Although Ren Shuai was helpless, he had to follow and relax together.
When friends get together, new friends are often ushered in. At that time, the arrival of several amateur actors aroused Ren Shuai's great curiosity. One of the girls, named Xiaohong, has been busy serving everyone, never having time to relax herself, and has been taking care of everyone's food and drink.
It wasn't until a friend's introduction that Ren Shuai learned that Xiaohong was an amateur actor who usually worked in a cultural company and was from Shanghai. She was ordinary-looking, petite, and probably unaware of her presence at first glance.
It wasn't until near the end of the meeting that everyone was getting ready to leave. Just as he was leaving, Xiaohong suddenly ran to Ren Shuai's side and handed him a bottle of yogurt. Xiaohong's voice was very soft, "I saw that you drank a lot of wine at the party just now, and drinking a bottle of yogurt should make your stomach feel better." ”
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This was the first time Ren Shuai had been accosted by a girl, which made him feel a little embarrassed, and his face flushed. However, he also understands that important moments in his life require him to act.
The little red in front of him made Ren Shuai's heart move, so he successfully obtained Xiao Hong's ***, so the two began to communicate.
After Ren Shuai returned home, he couldn't help but miss Xiaohong at the party, and her gentle and careful image made him feel extremely warm.
In Ren Shuai's opinion, there are many beautiful girls, and as an actor, he has seen various types of beauties. However, it is not easy to find a partner who is truly suitable for a lifetime to spend together. Therefore, when Ren Shuai is looking for a girlfriend, the beauty of the appearance is not the most important thing, but the quality of good character and kindness is more important.
In order to further develop with Xiaohong, Ren Shuai took the initiative to pursue her and frequently asked her out to meet. This kind of day-to-day contact makes them have a good impression of each other, and Ren Shuai often filmed in the crew.
Whenever she has free time, Xiaohong will go to the crew to take care of Ren Shuai. Every time she arrives at Ren Shuai's place, she will wash all the clothes that Ren Shuai changed out of filming. Only by making sure that Ren Shuai wears clean clothes will Xiaohong feel at ease.
Ren Shuai noticed every detail of Xiaohong's actions, and he knew that this girl was single-minded and considerate and kind to him. So it wasn't long before they confirmed their relationship and became boyfriend and girlfriend.
The time between the two passed in a hurry, and in a blink of an eye, the filming was over, and Ren Shuai was about to return to Lanzhou. Xiaohong felt uneasy inside, in her opinion, Ren Shuai was not only handsome, but also an actor. She was worried that Ren Shuai would be separated from her after he went to Lanzhou, and whether there would be any changes.
Xiaohong even asked Ren Shuai directly when he left Shanghai: "How did you become interested in an ordinary girl like me?" ”
Shuai Ren suddenly laughed: "You are a kind girl and a person who knows how to live." ”
Xiaohong is still uneasy, she is worried that she will not find him once Ren Shuai leaves, but Ren Shuai promises her that she will take love seriously and never take it lightly.
After receiving Ren Shuai's assurance, Xiaohong's heart was no longer full of doubts. However, when Xiaohong's friends learned that she had found an actor to be her boyfriend, they expressed concern and persuaded her to give up. They thought that such a handsome boyfriend was elusive, and these words lingered in Xiaohong's ears, making her feel a little lost.
Xiaohong has a healthy mentality, even if Ren Shuai finds another partner, she will not blame him.
As the days passed, Xiaohong was always waiting for news from Ren Shuai, and Ren Shuai also began to take action. When he got home, he told his parents that he already had a girlfriend and that he was thinking about getting married. Hearing the good news of their son, Ren Shuai's parents were overjoyed and couldn't wait to marry Xiaohong into the house.
Xiaohong quickly agreed to Ren Shuai's marriage proposal, but the distance between Shanghai and Lanzhou made her feel a little apprehensive about living in Shanghai. After all, the two places are far apart, it is very inconvenient to go back and forth, and coupled with the cold winter in Gansu, it may take a while for Xiaohong to adapt.
Faced with his wife's worries, Ren Shuai made a change, and he decided to apply for a job change and work at the Harbin Repertory Theatre.
Ren Shuai married Xiaohong at the age of 31, after which he adapted to Xiaohong's lifestyle and chose to place their love nest in Shanghai.
Ren Shuai is not afraid of hard work, and he doesn't care about trouble. As long as the repertory troupe has a task schedule, he will return to Harbin; When he has no tasks, he stops in Shanghai to film. For more than 300 days a year, Ren Shuai shuttles back and forth between the two cities.
Shanghai is a fast-growing metropolis and has broad prospects in the field of film and television culture. Xiaohong knows that her husband Ren Shuai loves acting, so she supports his career very much. Therefore, in the years after they got married, they did not have children immediately, because Ren Shuai wanted to film more and work hard for a few more years.
In 2003, Ren Shuai's career reached its peak, and he was invited to star in five or six plays, and he was very busy. However, whether it is "Unprecedented", "Kanto Fisherman" or "Zhaojun Out of the Plug", Ren Shuai's performance failed to cause a trace of waves.
Xiaohong observed that her husband worked in the crew for a long time and rarely came home, and gradually, she began to worry as well. She understands the peculiarities of the actor industry and understands that marital breakdowns and unstable factors emerge one after another. Considering her general conditions, she was very worried that Ren Shuai would be subjected to external **.
After Ren Shuai realized his wife's concerns, he took the initiative to hand over the control of the family's finances to Xiaohong. Every time he starred in a play, all the remuneration was handled by Xiaohong. And after completing filming on the set every day, Ren Shuai would spontaneously report to his wife and share the interesting things he encountered during filming.
Ren Shuai has always been able to maintain an appropriate distance from the actress, he knows how to measure himself very well, and has never let the scandal involve him.
At the end of 2007, 37-year-old Ren Shuai ushered in the news that Xiaohong was pregnant with a baby.
However, problems followed, because Ren Shuai was usually filming, so there was no one to take care of his wife during pregnancy, and the child also needed to be taken care of after birth. Therefore, Ren Shuai and Xiaohong discussed and decided to return to Harbin together, so that their parents-in-law could help take care of the children, and at the same time, they could accompany their parents, which can be described as killing two birds with one stone.
Although Xiaohong knew that she couldn't adapt, out of deep love for her husband, she and Ren Shuai went to Harbin after the Spring Festival.
Ren Shuai and Xiaohong welcomed their son in July 2008, named Youyou. Ren Shuai was 38 years old at the time, and this was his first time as a father.
This child is like a lucky star in the family, and his arrival has made Ren Shuai's career flourish.
The TV series "Breaking through the Guandong" was broadcast that year, in which the role of ** Sanjiang was played by Ren Shuai. Therefore, Ren Shuai also began to be well-known and loved by the audience with this role.
In 2010, Ren Shuai participated in the family emotional drama "Mother's War", in which he played the role of Liang Zi and Zhang Shaohua, forming a mother-son relationship. With the completion of the TV series, the intimate relationship between Ren Shuai and Zhang Shaohua like mother and son has also continued to real life.
Zhang Shaohua admitted frankly in a show that Ren Shuai was his son and fed him personally, which shows that the relationship between the two is very close. This also shows that Ren Shuai is a much-loved and filial actor from another angle.
In 2012, 42-year-old Ren Shuai starred in the nostalgic period drama "Parents' Love", and his role as Lao Ding in the play left a deep impression on the audience.
Ren Shuai's superb acting skills undoubtedly injected a different kind of emotion into the role of Lao Ding, he vividly interpreted Lao Ding's personality charm and inner struggle, and showed the story of an ordinary man's emotional life vividly in his performance. His performance must be praised for making the role of Lao Ding more emotional.
Although the feelings of his parents burned like a fire, and everyone knew Lao Ding well, Ren Shuai was still a stranger.
Ren Shuai never cares about these trivial matters, for him, the most important thing is the steady development of his career and the happiness of his family.
In real life, his wife Xiaohong is like "Dehua" in the TV series, her husband goes out to work hard, and his wife is responsible for taking care of the family. After becoming a mother, Xiaohong did not continue to work on her own, but wholeheartedly took care of the child at home and raised him.
Fortunately, Xiaohong can rely on her mother-in-law at home, so that her burden is not so heavy. Since Ren Shuai is often filming outside, it is difficult to expect his help, but with the support of her mother-in-law, Xiaohong's pressure has been reduced a lot.
Xiaohong's mother-in-law, who married here from Shanghai, dotes on her very much, and will come to her son's house early every morning to prepare breakfast and wait for Xiaohong to get up and eat. When Xiaohong's child Youyou fell ill, her mother-in-law stayed at her daughter-in-law's house and took care of the child with her. has such a caring and understanding mother-in-law, Xiaohong also regards her as her biological parents.
Every time Xiaohong goes shopping, she always thinks of her mother-in-law, and doesn't forget to pick out some things for her. Such days have lasted for many years, there has never been a quarrel between Xiaohong and her mother-in-law, and the family lives together in harmony and happiness, which is the most important thing.
As the saying goes, a good partner can reduce your worries by half, and it's really lucky to have a wife like Xiaohong. There is no need to worry about big and small things at home, and Ren Shuai can focus on his career wholeheartedly. Every year that followed, he had a lot of drama appointments.
Ren Shuai has new works released almost every year, such as "Great Wall Red" in 2013, "Old Farmer" in 2014, "Xuanwu" in 2015, and "Lost Sheep" in 2016. However, he seems to have been in a state of being more popular than others.
Because Ren Shuai is low-key, he hardly accepts interviews except for filming. Even if he has to be interviewed, he will only talk about the scene seriously, and will not take the opportunity to hype. Therefore, Ren Shuai has shown that he is not popular in the entertainment industry, and it has continued to this day.
Ren Shuai is a powerful actor, and his fame is not proportional to his acting skills. However, Ren Shuai believes that the biggest gratitude is that there are scenes to film, and there are people who are willing to watch his performances.
Some people once wondered if Ren Shuai was losing money by choosing ordinary Xiaohong as his wife, but he directly retorted: "Xiaohong is very virtuous and kind, she not only takes care of her family, but it is precisely because of her that my career can flourish." I can't imagine what life would be like without her, so I'm willing to cherish Xiaohong for the rest of my life. ”
Marriage is two people living together, and only by supporting each other and making progress together can life become better. Views on marriage vary, with only husband and wife best knowing whether they are suitable for each other.
Ren Shuai is a good husband with a sense of responsibility and responsibility, and he is also a good son who is filial and grateful, and he is also a good actor who speaks with his acting strength.
Ren Shuai and his wife Xiaohong have been walking hand in hand for 20 years, and today. In the past 20 years, Ren Shuai has never been involved in scandals in the entertainment industry, and he can be described as a very spoiled wife and a good man.
Family and career are all happy, and this happiness may be more precious than fame and fortune.