Recently, Dongying, Shandong. Mr. Gao, who lives in Wenhui Street, encountered an annoying incident: his new car parked in the community was scratched many times for no reason and was seriously damaged. Mr. Gao said that a few days after picking up the new car, it was sent for repair because the surface of the car was scratched, and it was parked in the public parking space of the community a few days after the repair was completed again.
In order to find out the truth, Mr. Gao chose to call the police. Mr. Gao reported to the police that the new car he recently bought had been scratched many times, the scratches extended from the front to the rear of the car, and the car watch was seriously damaged. The police of the local police station immediately rushed to the scene after receiving the police, and learned through the visit that other vehicles in the community were not damagedThe suspect's crime is highly targeted.
After a lot of investigation, ** finally locked a suspicious person through the surveillance screen at 12 a.m. at the entrance of the community. At 10 p.m. on January 27, the police found the suspect Li Mouchao (male, 33 years old, from Daqing, Heilongjiang) in a shop. According to Mr. Gao, the two are also familiar with each other, and there is usually no conflict, but they have not been in contact since they bought a new car.
In the interrogation room, Li Mouchao talked about why he had repeatedly drawn Mr. Gao's new car: "I'm also a ghost."He bought a new car and wanted to make him uncomfortableIt's a bit cautious indeed. Li Mouchao confessed to his criminal behavior of damaging other people's vehicles many times, and sincerely apologized to Mr. Gao after the police criticized and educated, and has now been criminally detained by the Dongying Public Security Bureau in accordance with the law on suspicion of picking quarrels and provoking trouble.
In this example, Li Mouchao just bought a new car out of an acquaintance, and he was psychologically uncomfortable, so he wanted to make the other party uncomfortable, so he carried out the behavior of rowing the car many times. For this incident, first of all, we should condemn the actions of this acquaintance, which is not only illegal to deliberately damage other people's property, but alsoAnd it also violates social morality and moral standards.
Second, we should recognize that the root cause of this behavior is red-eyed and jealousy. This acquaintance was psychologically unbalanced when he saw that Mr. Gao had bought a new car, and he became jealous, and then took the excesses of rowing the car. On the one hand, this behavior shows that Li Mouchao's emotional control ability is poor, and on the other hand, it also shows itIt is small-minded and has a small pattern.
We should condemn such acts, and at the same time, we need to take effective measures to prevent and resolve similar problems in order to maintain social harmony and stability and public order and good customs. Back to Li Mouchao's motive, he just committed a crime out of the psychology of "red-eyed", and the consequences and costs are really not worth it!
The development of redness psychology is related to a variety of factors, including:Envy, jealousy, social comparison, lack of self-worth, psychological imbalance, and lack of emotional controlWait. So, how should we eliminate and prevent our own redness in real life?
First,Raise self-awareness. Understanding one's own emotions and psychological state, and being aware of one's own red-eyed psychology and its causes, is the prerequisite for eliminating this mentality. Self-awareness can be recognized and improved through self-reflection, psychological testing, psychological counseling, etc.
Second,Boost self-confidence. Self-confidence is the key to eliminating redness. Through a positive attitude, continuous efforts and accumulation of experience, you can improve your ability and self-confidence, and you can reduce the redness caused by envy of others.
Third,Learn to control your emotions. The ability to control emotions is one of the necessary conditions for a mature personality. You can learn to control your emotions through relaxation training, emotion regulation, meditation, etc., and avoid red-eyed psychology due to mood swings.
Fourth,Build healthy relationships. Building healthy relationships with others and enhancing mutual understanding and respect can reduce the redness that can arise from comparison and jealousy. Healthy interpersonal relationships can be built through communication, expanding social circles, and improving social skills.
Fifth,Look for positive alternative behaviors. When there is a red-eyed mentality, you can take some positive alternative behaviors, such as learning new knowledge, listening**, exercising, volunteering, etc., to divert attention and alleviate the red-eyed psychology.
In conclusion, eliminating eye redness requires a number of aspects, including:Improve self-awareness, boost self-confidence, learn to control emotions, build healthy relationships, and look for positive alternative behaviorsWait. Through continuous hard work and practice, we can gradually overcome the red-eyed mentality and maintain a healthy mindset and a positive attitude towards life. The man was rowed many times by acquaintances when he liked to carry a new car