Hello everyone, I'm Cotton Sauce, a 96-year-old girl who loves to save money! We have to admit that money is a big issue in marriage.
No one can deny that money has a direct impact on the stability and happiness of a marriage.
So, don't think it's a cheesy thing to talk about money, it's actually a very important thing.
A good marriage is one who dares to talk about money and can spend it.
A good marriage is to dare to spend your husband's money!
1.Common Financial Goals:Marriage is a partnership in which couples should work together to set financial goals and share responsibilities. Spending your husband's money can help achieve the family's common financial goals, such as buying a house, investing in education, etc.
2.Share Resources:In marriage, couples should share resources and share living expenses. The husband's money is also the family's money, and it is normal to use it to meet the needs of the family. 3.Building Trust:Daring to spend your husband's money shows that there is mutual trust and support between husband and wife. Trust between husband and wife is one of the foundations of a stable marriage, and there should be mutual respect and understanding when spending money.
4.Strengthen the emotional connection:By spending your husband's money to meet some personal or family needs, you can strengthen the emotional bond between couples. Supporting and caring for each other financially can enhance the emotional connection between couples.
5.Lighten the load:Financially in the family, the financial support of the husband can reduce the financial pressure on the wife and make her live more freely and comfortably. Such an arrangement can allow couples to achieve a better balance between family and career, and promote family happiness and stability.
It's like our girlfriends are supporting each other.
My good friend Xiao Ling and her husband Xiao Ming, they have always been a tacit couple. Recently, Xiaoling wanted to open a small café because she has always had a strong love for coffee. However, the reality is that Xiaoling's café project requires a significant amount of start-up capital, and her current income is not enough to support this dream.
As a result, Xiao Ming became Xiao Ling's "backing" to realize her dream. He knows Xiaoling's enthusiasm and ability, and he is also willing to support her ideals. Although their income is mainly maintained by Xiao Ming, he does not regard this money as "his own", but as "family's". So, Xiao Ming did not hesitate to support Xiao Ling's café project, willing to use some of his savings to help her realize this dream.
As a result, Xiaoling's café opened, and business was not bad. And in this process, Xiao Ming did not feel any "grievances", but felt very happy to be able to witness Xiao Ling's dream come true. They take risks together and share joy together, and this tacit understanding and support is the best way to get married.
[Summary].
Dare to spend your husband's money, not to "take advantage" or "wronged yourself", but to support and achieve each other on the road of pursuing a better life together.
Just like between our girlfriends, each other is willing to work hard for each other's dreams, which is true happiness!
I am cotton sauce, a Guangpiao who is not willing to accept the status quo, I like to share some savings experience, welcome to pay attentionThank you for reading, remember to like, favorite, **Oh, I wish you a lot of wealth!