"Is the 200,000 bride price a waste"? Huangshi, Hubei, after a man fell in love with his girlfriend for 2 years, he spent 200,000 bride price to get married, but after 4 years of marriage, his wife was unwilling to live or die, and the husband asked for a return of all the bride price, but the wife refused to return the money: You pay me for my car and youth! What the hell is going on?
A few days ago, his wife ran away from home after a big quarrel with Guo Bin, not only blocking his WeChat and **, but also clamoring for a divorce, but when asked about the reason for the quarrel, Guo Bin said that it was difficult to speak.
It turned out that 4 years ago, Guo Bin and Ms. Tan were introduced to each other, and after the Guo family paid the Tan family more than 100,000 dowry, the two entered the marriage hall, but Ms. Tan refused her husband on the grounds that she was not feeling well.
At first, Guo Bin thought that his wife was not ready and did not take the matter to heart, but he did not expect that in the 4 years after marriage, Ms. Tan not only did not want to **, but even did not agree to register and obtain the certificate.
In the past 4 years of marriage, the two have only been husband and wife, but they have never been husband and wife, and to this day, they are just holding hands, so since Ms. Tan resists Guo Bin so much, why did she marry him 4 years ago?
Subsequently, Guo Bin brought his mother to his wife's mother's house, and when she saw the Guo family coming to the door, Ms. Tan was very disgusted and did not agree to go home, nor did she want to look at her husband more.
Guo's mother said that her son Guo Bin is 36 years old, and Ms. Tan is also 35 years old.
Unexpectedly, Ms. Tan's words and deeds are inconsistent, and she has been receiving 4,000 yuan of living expenses per month, but she still doesn't want to make any progress with Guo Bin, which makes everyone in the Guo family almost angry!
Ms. Tan either dislikes her husband for being smelly and dirty, or disgusted with her husband sleeping and snoring, from Ms. Tan's hysterical abuse, anyone with a discerning eye can see that she has no love for her husband, let alone tolerance between husband and wife.
But for Ms. Tan's words, Guo's mother disagreed, and bluntly said that she was making excuses for herself, and then Guo's mother directly showed everyone a **, which was some pictures of Ms. Tan's life.
Guo's mother told everyone that since Ms. Tan married into their family, she has never worked, and in the past 4 years, she has been lazy to do every day, and has never done housework.
The daughter-in-law kept saying that she disliked her son for being dirty and smelly, but in fact, the most unhygienic person in the family was Ms. Tan, and Guo's mother also said that the reason why Ms. Tan was unwilling to perform her duties as a wife was probably because Ms. Tan had hidden secrets in her body.
So, will Guo's mother's suspicions be true?
In the face of the mediator's questioning, Ms. Tan was silent, but Ms. Tan's eldest sister couldn't sit still, and bluntly said that her sister was a normal person.
It turned out that when the young couple got married, seeing that the two had not made any progress, Ms. Tan's mother's family was also heartbroken, and even they themselves didn't understand why Ms. Tan clearly agreed to get married, but she never accepted each other after getting married.
Because Ms. Tan is already old, for the marriage of the two, their mother's family is also very anxious, on the one hand, to educate and persuade Ms. Tan, and on the other hand, to give advice to Guo Bin.
But perhaps because of his personality, Guo Bin, who has always been honest and honest, did not dare to use any tough way at all, but Guo Bin and Guo's mother said that it was easier said than done.
It turned out that after receiving 4,000 yuan per month from Ms. Tan but unwilling to have children, Guo Bin was completely angry and decided to listen to Sister Tan's words and adopt a tough way, but when he got a little closer to Ms. Tan, he was beaten and had a nosebleed.
As for the question of how to get Ms. Tan to accept her husband, the two families fought over each other, but from beginning to end, Ms. Tan kept her head down and played with her mobile phone as if it was none of her business, and she didn't even want to look up.
At this time, Ms. Tan coldly told everyone that her husband Guo Bin had no money and no ability, and he was a failure, and he could not even guarantee her monthly living expenses of 4,000 yuan.
As soon as he heard this, Guo Bin almost fainted, since Ms. Tan married into the Guo family, she has never worked again, she is supported by the Guo family, and the living expenses are also given by the Guo family.
Guo Bin is a circuit engineer with a monthly salary of four or five thousand, and the Guo family's parents are retired workers with a monthly pension of several thousand yuan, but despite this, Ms. Tan is still not satisfied, feeling that the Guo family is too poor to support her, let alone raise children.
Hearing his wife say this, Guo Bin also felt very uncomfortable, he said that he has been studying all these years and has been working silently, and the many certificates in front of him are the result of his struggle.
Guo Bin believes that the salary of four or five thousand is only temporary, and he will definitely achieve a career in the future, but his wife only looks at the present and does not look at the long-term, and insists that he is a failure, so she looks down on him in her heart and rejects him in every way.
So now, where should the couple go?
Guo's father said that he spent hundreds of thousands of yuan to marry his daughter-in-law, but his daughter-in-law did not get a license and did not have children, and she often cried and mourned.
When the two parties met again, Ms. Tan agreed to the request to withdraw from the marriage, but the premise was that the Guo family would lose money first, especially the 150,000 yuan car and 4 years of youth when she was married.
It turned out that when the two got married, the bride price and red envelopes given by the Guo family added up to 200,000 yuan, and at that time, in order to express their hearts, the Tan family also married Ms. Tan with a car of 150,000 yuan.
Unexpectedly, because of the discord between the husband and wife, after Ms. Tan got married, she hid the car keys, this car Guo Bin has never driven so far, and now Guo Bin promised to return the car, but Ms. Tan said that she didn't want the car.
Because the car has been depreciated and only 50,000 yuan is left, Ms. Tan asked the Guo family to compensate her according to the original price of the car, and she will return the bride price.
In the end, the two sides broke up unhappily, and the Guo family could only seek justice for themselves through legal channels. What do you think about this? Knowledge Creation Challenge