In fact, these details are enough to show that the love that men want is really realistic, and women

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The love that a man wants is not the same as the love that a woman wants.

A woman, from beginning to end, wants to be loved.

Men, the last choice is always the feeling of value!

If a woman uses her own imagination to define the love that a man needs, then she will definitely lose badly!

Differentiation is the most obvious manifestation of men and women in the face of relationship choices!

This difference gives us a deeper understanding of the diversity of human nature.

In terms of emotional choice, some details of men's performance are the best highlights of human nature! It is also a place where women are needed to learn intellectually!

In fact, these details are enough to show that the love that men want is really realistic, and women need to understand

For most men, the key to emotional choices is to focus on the connection with real life and what kind of worthwhile experience they can bring to themselves when dealing with reality.

If, when it is worth experiencing better, the man will provide material and financial support to the woman to express his inner identification of the relationship to ensure the stable development of the relationship.

But this does not mean that men will really go to the end with women by doing this!

Often in the worthwhile experience that women bring to men, the value of existence plays a decisive role in the relationship!

If a woman's existence is worth enough, a man will choose to combine with it. Moreover, as the irreplaceable value of women continues to be maintained or improved, it will stimulate the motivation of men to work hard for the family.

Therefore, there is no need to compare with other women, thinking that other women can enjoy the love and care of men, in fact, men's care and care are conditional!

Men crave to be understood and accepted by others, and they want someone to praise and affirm their efforts and achievements.

Especially, when facing a relationship, if the woman in front of him gives himself a denial or disapproval, or the suggestion he makes is a commanding tone, then he probably thinks:

In a woman's heart, she is terrible! In this case, it is better to let it go, or it is better to find a lover to prove your "good"!

This is also one of the reasons why after men pursue success in their careers, once their wives bring them insufficient value and a bad experience of being recognized, they will betray them.

Most men want to prove their worth by achieving certain achievements, so as to gain the recognition and praise of others.

This hope embodies men's need for self-affirmation and fulfillment.

When a woman assures the value of her existence and gives men sincere affirmation, praise and appreciation, men will "change their minds" to a large extent.

Although men are often marked by rationality and calmness, deep down they also crave emotional support and listening.

Men also face troubles and pressures in life, and they also need someone who can listen to their worries and confusions, and a positive lover who can share emotions and burdens with them.

When a woman ignores a man's need for emotional support, the man will be very disappointed and question the current relationship!

In the meantime, the man will release some signals to make the woman "correct", which may be an emotional outburst, cold violence, or harsh ......

In short, in this case, if the woman insists on ignoring the man's emotional support needs, the man will isolate the woman in his heart!

Some women may say that the man in front of them is selfish, does not have empathy, but always cares about his own feelings. In fact, this is exactly when men face emotional choices, and the reality of human nature is highlighted!

Women will never have the reality of men, and they will never understand how worthwhile they should consider the relationship from a realistic point of view like men.

Therefore, most women are easily hurt in their relationships!

But just because men want love differently than women doesn't mean that men don't care about love, romance, and emotional communication.

On the contrary, men also have a gentle, romantic, and emotional side.

When it comes to relationships between men and women, women need to understand and respect the different needs of men in relationships.

Two people together:

It is through communication and understanding that truly strong and healthy relationships can be built.

Through mutual understanding and understanding, men and women can work together to create a harmonious, stable, and loving relationship that truly achieves each other's happiness and growth.

I'm a high-quality affective writer who has provided valuable and meaningful help to many counselors. I have rich experience in marriage, relationships, interpersonal relationships, etc., if you have any emotional confusion, please feel free to consult me.

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Negative emotions are common to all, and when you are willing to put them aside, you can not be bound by them. Ultimately, it's up to you to do that!