Relationships are not easy, and marriage is even more difficult. Marriage is impermanent, love is uncertain, we must be cautious, practice through the five levels, enter the door of marriage, but also have to flow for a long time, in order to be together for a hundred years. But people's greed and hatred are often uncontrolled, even if you change your sincerity for sincerity and do enough work to keep it fresh, you can't avoid the other half of the heart mutation.
Especially when the whirlpool of derailment comes, you and I are powerless to resist. If the authorities are confused, the onlookers will cry out in vain.
When the string called responsibility breaks, when the thin paper called the bottom line is pierced, the marriage is like scattered sand, no matter how you hold it, you can only watch it slip through your fingers.
The human heart is unpredictable, and we should not be too harsh on it. But once you cheat, you should bear the corresponding responsibility, which is retribution.
Why can't anyone who cheats escape retribution?
Retribution, often thought of as Heavenly Principle or Heavenly Dao, seems to have some kind of moral stance, but it is not.
The heavenly way of retribution is the normal feeling of the human heart. You and I both know that only by cherishing the present can we have a future.
You and I both understand that only by giving can we reap. Plant melons and get melons, plant beans and get beans.
You hurt the people who love you, and you have the heart to leave, but you still have to rely on others. Then retribution will make you lose the harbor you can rely on, and let you wander.
We've all seen examples of this:
Zhang Zhifei was originally happy in "Wife's Lies", her husband Xiaolian not only had a successful career, but he was in love with her, but she had a bad heart, found an illegitimate child outside, and wanted to divorce and remarry with children.
It's a pity that she underestimated her husband's receptivity. Once the truth was revealed, Xiaolian resolutely filed for divorce. The husband, who could have relied on, was disillusioned all of a sudden.
Her illegitimate child was recognized by her original partner again, and she could only raise this child alone, with a bleak future.
Gu Xiaoyu has worked her husband Jiang Feng for many years, and she is meticulous. Jiang Feng relied on his wealth and power, and showed mercy everywhere.
One day, Gu Xiaoyu couldn't bear it anymore and scolded Jiang Feng, never wanting to live this angry life again. A partner who could once be relied on wholeheartedly also abandoned Jiang Feng.
Jiang Feng later fell ill and begged Gu Xiaoyu to change his mind, but Gu Xiaoyu sternly refused.
People are hard to guess and emotions are complicated, so we shouldn't be too others.
But cheating may bring a moment of freshness, but in the end, you will only find that the person you once relied on is no longer by your side.
This is the retribution of the cheater, and it is also the cycle of heaven.
The loneliness of the cheater stems from infidelity to feelings.
The loneliness of the cheater stems from infidelity to feelings.
Relationships need to be managed, and marriage also needs to be cared for.
You and I both understand that the most feared thing in feelings is time. The three-year itch and the seven-year itch are all tests of this feeling.
However, the trial of feelings needs to be faced by two people and solved together.
The problem of marriage also requires two hearts to communicate slowly and run in little by little.
Only when both parties tolerate each other and grow together can the tree of marriage thrive.
Once you choose to cheat and avoid the problem, not only will the problem not go away, but will slowly expand under the catalyst of time.
When you come back to your senses, you will find that the person you could have faced together is no longer by your side.
You are alone, helpless.
This is the retribution for emotional infidelity.
I once came across such an example:
When Elsa and her boyfriend first confirmed their relationship, the two were sweet and sweet, and they lived very affectionately. But after a long time, there was a problem with the run-in of life. Elsa wants her boyfriend to be in more company, and he thinks she's too clingy.
The two began to argue, and Elsa felt left out and met another boy on social media.
She shifted her attention to her new love and gradually distanced herself from her boyfriend.
Who knows, the new love is just having fun and doesn't want to develop a long-term relationship with her.
Elsa suddenly fell into the embarrassing situation of being empty, and her boyfriend, who could understand each other and face problems, had long been disheartened by her.
She faced the pain of losing two relationships alone, and it was too late to regret it.
A relationship is like a journey, and there will inevitably be bumps along the way. True companionship is to have a common heart and to get through the difficulties together.
If you escape, when you look back, you will find that the person you can rely on is actually no longer around.
This is retribution for emotional infidelity, and it is a lesson that each of us should learn.
The retribution of feelings is actually self-inflicted.
When retribution comes, many people often lament the injustice of heaven and the narrow path of wrongdoers.
Actually, we are just deluding ourselves. The coming of retribution is a step by step process that we ourselves have made.
Yu Yong changed his mind three or four times in "White Deer Plain", first falling in love with Shen Mengyao, and then empathizing with Huang Shilan. It wasn't until Huang Shilan married Bird Mao that he realized that he was stupid.
He would rather Huang Shilan still be single than see her marry someone else. Ironically, however, this was the result of his own work.
We often say that Meng's mother moved three times, which means a truth: abandon the old and seek the new, and in the end you have to return to the original point.
When Yu Yong was capricious, he was in Meng's mother's three moves. Turning around, what he lost was only his original feelings.
There is no right or wrong in feelings, but feelings need to be responsible. You can love him today and her tomorrow, but you need to be responsible for every relationship and give an explanation.
Otherwise, when you look back, you will find that the person who can open your heart to you is no longer with you.
Guo Tao loved Qin Lan deeply in the play, and the two were already engaged, but once they were in power, he empathized and turned his back on Qin Lan.
When he wanted to change his mind again, Qin Lan had already married a wife. He left behind an empty mansion and regretted his original melancholy.
Many times, we cry and complain about the injustice of fate, but in fact, we ignore one problem - we are just doing it ourselves.
If someone who can be put into practice breaks their hearts and hurts their feelings, there is no need to be surprised that retribution comes.
Because the retribution of feelings is so simple and straightforward. Those who hurt others will eventually be injured, and those who leave others will eventually be separated.
Only by operating with heart can we welcome the spring of feelings.
Many times, we are waiting for a spring, waiting for the spring when feelings bloom again.
As everyone knows, spring has no reason to come, reqiflower dedication to the country.
You have to use your own hands to water and care, so that this feeling can become more stable and sweet in the polishing of time.
In the face of the trivialities of married life, we need to learn to empathize and think from the other party's point of view;
In the face of the loneliness of separation, we need to learn to support each other, and let time and distance become the spice of feelings;
In the face of the run-in period of life, we need to resolve problems with tolerance, rather than choosing to escape;
In the face of the low point of the relationship, we need to connect with each other and tide over the difficulties.
Only when both parties work together and cross the ups and downs of the relationship again and again, can we continue to walk forward and welcome our own spring.
Lu Xiaofeng deeply admires Dong Xiaowan in "Flowers Are Not Flower Dew". But the relationship between the two was not smooth, and they even separated for a time.
However, they didn't give up, Lu Xiaofeng had a deep love for Dong Xiaowan, and Dong Xiaowan also opened her heart in front of him.
After time and running-in, they finally became married.
The same applies to you and me.
On the road of feelings, we must pay together in order to continue to move forward.
You come and go, warm each other; You open your heart, and I am faithful to you; In love, we can fulfill each other, so that we can grow old together.
Spring will come eventually, but it won't come easily.
We need to manage every relationship with our hearts, even if it is still winter, but as long as we take care of it together and irrigate it with our hearts, we will definitely be able to wait until the spring flowers bloom.
This is the attitude we should have and the meaning of life.
People's hearts are fickle, and we don't have to be harsh on them. But cheating or infidelity will eventually reap the consequences.
From now on, let us cherish the people in front of us more, manage the things in front of us, and treat every relationship with sincerity.
Time flies, life is impermanent. We are all looking for a trace of warmth in this long journey.
May you and I meet our soulmates and spend time together. No matter the wind and waves, never give up.
With a sincere heart, life will surely reap happiness.