I don't know if it's because of age or what, there are very few people who show affection in the circle of friends on Valentine's Day this year.
In real life, the only couple I find particularly sweet has also entered the stage of a bloody plot.
The man cheated on a younger woman, and it is not clear whether the woman knows about it, and it seems to be calm at the moment.
Love, which is laborious and difficult to please, is becoming less and less attractive.
I often think that I have to like someone to be willing to take care of their emotions when I am tired.
You have to like someone to be willing to spend your life with each other, even if there is less and less love, and there is not much left.
When I was young, I felt that liking was liking, and there were no fixed requirements or anything, but now I finally found that love not only needs conditions, but also many conditions.
As soon as I started work, I was stuck with several holiday scripts.
After a short period of adaptation, it seems to be back in the original loop.
It's a busy day, but it's always changing in the same place.
One day after work, sitting in the subway and looking at people's numb faces, I suddenly understood.
Why are people nowadays less in love, very cautious in getting married, and even more cautious and cautious in having children.
Because life is really too tired, the energy left outside of making a living is only enough to mend yourself, and you don't have the extra strength to love others.
Of course, no matter what kind of environment or what kind of family, there are still people who are willing to get married, have children, and live happily.
I think that's also good, they probably belong to the more energetic people, and they have a lot of energy that can't be used up.
And I'm the one with limited energy, and I have to love very much to do something for each other.
Everything else depends on the mood, and there is no internal friction at all because I want someone to love me.
When I have a tendency to think about what others are thinking, I will tell myself that you don't like him, and the world will become clear in an instant.
It's a good feeling, you can control your mood, although, unfortunately, you can't control your life right now.
There is nothing wrong with being realistic, life is originally realistic, to earn three meals a day, to worry about illness and pension, it is already very tiring.
The moment I really realized that life was difficult, I had already changed my attitude towards love.
It's beautiful, but it can't offset the suffering of the world.
It also has to take on some role, just as you have to have a role to play for the person you love.
I haven't watched Jia Ling's movie yet, but today I suddenly thought of a very interesting point, that is, what can girls rely on to work hard in this world.
Jia Ling must have relied on talent and emotional intelligence before, but in this movie, Jia Ling is actually trying to rely on beauty.
She captures the pain point of women, that is, to love herself and want to be beautiful.
That's why the box office of this movie is so high, and as for the depth, it's actually nothing.
Cinema gives the impression that it conveys a certain value and tells a certain story, but in fact, its essence is also business.
So the emotions it expresses, with a certain inflammatory part.
It tries to tell you that it's good to lose weight, it's good to look good, and it's good to love yourself.
Turn the truth that everyone understands into a mediocre story, and then sell it to you in the form of a movie.
It's true, but the real change, the real change, the real change, can only be up to you.
Choose talent, you have to work hard, and you have to swallow some pain in order to have some gains.
If you choose to be interesting, you have to have a strong inner support, because the world itself and human beings are really not very interesting.
If you choose to be good-looking, you have to be self-disciplined and smart, otherwise beauty will become a misfortune.
You can look like anything, as long as you like, the most and the most impossible is bland, it is useless.
You have to have your own strength, and you can make sure that you can live well on your own.
When I left home after the Chinese New Year, I often thought of the scene where the little prince said goodbye to the roses when he left the planet.
I will also think of the statement when the little prince met a lot of roses:
Little Prince: "You are beautiful. ”
He continued: "But it is empty, and no one will die for you, yes, the average passer-by may think that my rose is very much like yours, but she only needs one flower to outshine you all, for she is the rose I irrigate; She was the rose that I had put under the glass cover to protect me from the wind, and to kill the caterpillar for her; For she is the rose that I am willing to listen to her whining and boasting and even silence; Because, she is my rose. ”
There is actually no difference between people and between themselves.
What makes everything different is who you have spent your energy and heart on.
If you put all of this, or most of it, in yourself, you will also gain a sense of security.
We need others, but we don't need them as much as we think.
When you can't protect yourself, it's best to take care of yourself first, and the second thing is secondary.
When did you feel empowered? It's not the time to be loved, or to love.
And in every moment when you feel that you can fully believe in yourself, and when you gradually develop strength.
Relationships are a mirror, and when you always want to reach out for help, or want someone to pull you along, you have to realize that you are just running away from you, not solving the problem.
You're running away from your own problems, you don't dare or don't want to take responsibility for your life, you want to go down the path that seems easy.
It's just that the result of this will not be liberation, let alone happiness, but to a deeper and endless abyss, which is equivalent to giving up the initiative of your life to others.
In this world, everything and any relationship has a price, no matter how it is paid.
When you encounter pain, don't dodge, get through it, and only then can you grow and gain.
Loving yourself is not to let yourself fall, but to work customer gravity, love yourself at any time, let yourself continue to grow should be your plan a!
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