Since ancient times, loyalty and love cannot be both. Choosing love or loyalty is a difficult choice. However, in the era of war, giving up a small family for everyone has become the faith of every soldier. Even when I gave up my small home, it was very painful. But the country is not at peace every day, and it is difficult for his family to live. In 1950, the founding lieutenant general Deng Yifan rushed to Vietnam to fight, and his wife was unwilling to file for divorce alone, what was the end?
In 1912, Deng Yifan was born in Ning County, Guangdong, when he was young, Deng Yifan's family was poor, because his father did not manage well, and the family did not have a good time. But his parents still wanted Deng Yifan to read some books, so they let Deng Yifan go to school. It was on the way to study that he came into contact with revolutionary ideas, which also planted a seed for him to join the revolutionary ranks later.
Because when he was in school, Deng Yifan was very active in participating in revolutionary activities and resisting oppression. Therefore, he was also wanted by the reactionaries, and Deng Yifan had to suspend his studies and run to a safe place to hide for a while. He came to a blacksmith shop, but the owner of this blacksmith shop did not have a very good attitude towards Deng Yifan, and often bullied him when he was young.
It is common to deduct wages and work longer hours. At that time, Deng Yifan felt aggrieved, but his family was not around, so he had to endure his grievances and continue to do it. It was only in 1930 that he left and joined the ranks of the Red Army. In the team, because Deng Yifan was literate, he helped his superiors write some orders, and was later promoted to propagandist. Although Deng Yifan was in politics in the army at the beginning, he did not flinch when he was required to do manual work.
When the Red Army carried out the anti-encirclement and suppression, he was responsible for counting the material situation in the team, and as a troop statistician, he often had to carry a lot of things in his backpack. So on the way to counter the encirclement and suppression, Deng Yifan proposed that he didn't need to hold a gun. However, his superiors misunderstood that Deng Yifan wanted to be a deserter, so they sent someone to monitor him. But in the end, it was the one who became a deserter.
And Deng Yifan is doing his own job well and doing things diligently. During the revolutionary period, Deng Yifan's contribution was also seen by his superiors, so after the founding of New China, when the Korean War broke out, he was also appointed as the second deputy head of the military advisory group in Vietnam.
But when he was going to fight in Vietnam, there was one person who objected, and that was his wife. The wife has been unhappy for many years because her husband is not around. His wife complained that Deng Yifan was away from home all the year round, and even when the country was stable, he had to rush to North Korea to fight. But Deng Yifan couldn't help but go, and the orders of his superiors had to be obeyed. Besides, he knows that in front of the country and his small family, he will choose the country, even if he is still very painful in his heart.
It can be said that the wife was also angry with her husband like this, and finally filed for divorce. She didn't want to go home again, and she lived like this all the time. And Deng Yifan also understood his wife's pain and agreed to her request. Deng Yifan was also very sad when he went to fight in North Korea, but he knew that loyalty and love were in dilemma. Later, after his wife remarried, she lived a good life, and Deng Yifan also felt relieved and blessed after hearing it. And he himself married a woman under the introduction of others, and the two lived a good life. Deng Yifan devoted his life to the revolution, and the founding lieutenant general lived a dull life in his later years, until he died of a serious illness in 2004 at the age of 93.