It is said that before and after the Spring Festival, it is a season of joy and good things. But in this festive atmosphere, recently, there was a couple who had been in love for eight years, and they broke up unhappily because of the bride price. What's going on here? Listen to me slowly.
In this couple, the woman's family is quite wealthy, and the man is an ordinary family. The two have gone from youth to the present, and they have a deep relationship, thinking that they are a match made in heaven. But who would have thought that at the critical moment of talking about marriage, it was because of 18The bride price of 80,000 yuan made a lot of trouble.
The woman said that the bride price and dowry would be brought to the new home, and even a car would be accompanied. But the man feels that his parents are under pressure and hopes that the woman can be more considerate. This came and went, both sides refused to give in, and in the end they could only end up breaking up.
As soon as this incident came out, netizens exploded. Some people say that the woman is too realistic, and some people say that the man is not cherished enough. But this matter is really not something that can be explained clearly in a few words.
Let's talk about the bride price first. In traditional Chinese customs, the bride price is a symbol of the man's respect for the woman and his commitment to the future marriage. However, with the development of the times, the nature of the bride price has slowly changed. It is no longer just a symbol, but a real burden. Especially in some places, the bride price is getting higher and higher, even to the point where it is unbearable.
Let's talk about the couple. The eight-year relationship was broken because of the bride price. It's a pity. But then again, if the man really cherishes this relationship, why not work hard to fight for it? Even if you communicate well with the woman, maybe things will take a turn for the better. But he chose to give up, which may indicate that he is not so firm in this relationship.
And what about the woman? She insisted on this 18The bride price of 80,000 yuan, is it because of her material? I don't think so. She may just want a guarantee, a promise for the future of her life. After all, marriage is not child's play, it needs to be carefully considered.
Therefore, the love and practical problems behind this bride price are really emotional. We can't simply judge who is right and who is wrong, because there are so many factors behind it. But one thing is certain: if both parties could think a little more for each other, pay a little more, and communicate more, maybe there would not be such an ending.
Ladies and gentlemen, this love and marriage need to be managed. We cannot focus only on the immediate benefits and ignore the long-term happiness. I hope everyone can cherish the fate around them!