In the finale of "South to North", what made me feel uneasy the most was the reunion of Niu Dali and Yao Yuling. Once, Yao Yuling was a glamorous flower hanging high on the branches, Niu Dali was a "leper **" who wanted to eat swan meat, in order to be able to move forward side by side with her, Niu Dali spent a year's salary to buy a TV, quit the iron rice bowl to pour swill, even if Yao Yuling got married and had children, he still missed her. Today, Yao Yuling has become a barbecue stall owner with an oily face and a bloated body, while Niu Dali is a rich boss wearing a leather coat and marrying a beautiful wife who is 20 years younger. With such an upside-down change, it is difficult for anyone to stabilize their minds, not to mention that Yao Yuling has always been high in front of Niu Dali, enjoying his praise and praise. So, when Yao Yuling recognized that the guest who ordered 20 skewers of mutton skewers turned out to be Niu Dali, she lowered her head in embarrassment, quickly wiped the tears from the corners of her eyes, and even the number of skewers was uncountable. After her son came over to help, Yao Yuling turned around and left, without saying a word to Niu Dali. What to say? Could it be that after Jia Jinlong was arrested, how difficult it was for Yao Yuling to take the child alone? Could it be that Niu Dali has developed and asked Niu Dali for economic help? 
Although Yao Yuling is down, she is still very proud in her bones, and she can't do anything like borrowing old feelings to beg and wagging her tail to the rich and begging. However, Yao Yuling's few actions after turning around still revealed what she wanted to say to Niu Dali in her heart. She raised her hand and pulled her hair to make it less messy, and then pulled down the bloated padded jacket to make herself look more upright. She also picked up an unburned fairy stick on the ground, waved it slowly, and continued to walk forward. Yao Yuling wanted to tell Niu Dali, "Although I am having a hard time now, I am also trying to support myself and my son with my hands, I think it's good." "Don't sympathize with me, don't recognize me anymore, just let Niu Dali and Yao Yuling's past scatter with the wind, you are fine, and I will be fine." Judging from Niu Dali's next move, he understood what Yao Yuling meant, so he didn't stop her, nor did he tell his wife about his past with Yao Yuling, but silently put a gold ring by the barbecue grill. 
That ring was a gift that Niu Dali wanted to give to Yao Yuling when he came back for the first time after resigning. At that time, Yao Yuling had already made a love affair with Jia Jinlong, so she returned the ring to Niu Dali on the spot. This ring, which was never given away, became Niu Dali's heart knot that Yao Yuling would never forget. Even though he got married and took his new wife back to his hometown for a visit, he still carried the ring with him. Now, he gave the ring to Yao Yuling again, because he wanted to give Yao Yuling some help in his own way (gold rings can be sold for money), and he also wanted to put an end to the past of the two. Niu Dali was finally able to let go of the relationship that he couldn't ask for and welcome his new life. After reading this paragraph, many people will think that Yao Yuling's ending is too miserable, but I think that although Yao Yuling has become poor, her heart has been reborn. It turned out that although she was brightly dressed and had a bright face, she was bent on looking for a man with good conditions, so that she could pin the rest of her life on him. Now she is a little sloppy and no longer beautiful, but she is making money with her own ability to support the family. 
Two details are used in the play to illustrate Yao Yuling's excellence. Yao Yuling's grilled mutton skewers taste very good, and she has been praised by Niu Dali's wife again and again, which shows that she has always been learning, starting from 0, and mastering the unique skill of barbecue. In time, Yao Yuling may also open a barbecue restaurant and make her career bigger and bigger. In addition, Yao Yuling's son is dressed very cleanly, and he also knows how to feel sorry for his mother, and he can take over the barbecue stall independently, which means that Yao Yuling has educated her son very well and made him independent and strong since he was a child. The best thing is the shot of Yao Yuling waving fireworks. The glow of the fireworks illuminated Yao Yuling's face, and the tears in her eyes were not yet dry, but a smile was already blooming on her face. She was not defeated by the sudden change of fate and the ups and downs of life, but was able to enjoy the bitterness and savor every little happiness in life. This just confirms Lin Qingxuan's words, "Being alive itself is painful." But after deducting the unsatisfactory success, at least there are satisfactory and gratifying things. If we want to live a happy life, we must always think about what is going to happen. ”
What do you think about this?