At a recent event, Wu Zongxian was once again in the spotlight because he was questioned.
Once again, Wu Zongxian has attracted public attention for his misconduct. This incident was a scandal in which he violated his daughter in public, and although his daughter Wu Shanru was dissatisfied with it, he still committed such an act in front of the camera.
However, are these behaviors really just a lack of a sense of boundaries? Celebrity parents excessively ** their children's private photos and raise their children as lovers, and the bottomless behavior between them is shocking and suffocating.
Let's think about how to express love in a healthier and more appropriate way.
With the strange phenomenon of domestic entertainment stars, the traditional concept of "children avoid their mothers, and women avoid their fathers" is being challenged. This shift may be having a profound impact on the values and ideas of modern society.
Driven by ideological progress, the stars in the spotlight have also undergone ideological changes, and their relationship with their children has gone beyond ordinary family affection, and there have even been jaw-dropping behaviors like Wu Zongxian kissing his daughter and hugging his salty pig hands.
Such a situation makes people wonder, as a parent, how many secrets are hidden behind him that we don't know?
At his daughter's event, Wu Zongxian wore a mask after the dental implant operation, and his face was a little swollen, but he still insisted on coming to the scene. However, during the show, he suddenly ignored his toothache and put his arms around his daughter Wu Shanru's waist and asked for a kiss.
This made Wu Shanru, who was already an adult, feel very embarrassed, and her first reaction was to lean back, trying to avoid his kiss. However, Wu Zongxian did not pay attention to his daughter's resistance, but forcibly kissed him in public, showing an intoxicated expression, and made a ** sound.
Wu Shanru's expression was extremely embarrassed, as if she wanted to find a hole to get into. What is even more unacceptable is that after Wu Zongxian forcibly kissed, he began to use foul language.
Kiss your sister"Wu Shanru looked at her father in surprise, worried that her father would say something embarrassing to her. But the father reacted immediately and said wittily"It's my sister! "
This kind of scene made netizens feel uncomfortable, criticizing Wu Zongxian for having no bottom line and no sense of proportion in front of his adult daughter. You must know that Wu Shanru is naturally beautiful and talented, and she is a famous host on the island.
Wu Shanru was pursued by her senior sister when she was in junior high school, and in order to avoid her troubles, she chose to go to the United States to study and work part-time. With her strong self-learning ability, she completed all of her senior year courses and credits early in her sophomore year.
In 2012, she graduated early with honors and returned to Taiwan to become an English teacher. A year later, with the help of her father Wu Zongxian, Wu Shanru successfully debuted in the entertainment industry and became a high-profile host with her unique hosting style.
With her excellent hosting skills, she won the Golden Bell Award for Host Award. However, after becoming famous, she also experienced trouble, because Wu Zongxian "violated" her in public many times, which made her feel very distressed.
Wu Zongxian forcibly kissed Wu Shanru in public many times, and joked on the show that she was the only female artist who could be touched, which made Wu Shanru deeply ashamed.
In the face of her father's behavior, she could only use jokes to get her father to restrain him. Many believe that Mr. Wu's actions crossed the line, especially when his daughter was married and had a family of her own.
Even if it is a loved one, we should take into account each other's fame and sense of boundaries. Shouldn't there be no sense of boundaries between relatives?
Wu Shanru gave birth to her son peacefully on March 21 and was successfully promoted to mother. Only two months later, she returned to the host stage to show everyone that she had recovered very well after giving birth.
In an interview, when asked by a reporter about her postpartum weight changes, Wu Shanru said that she didn't care about the numbers. However, when Wu Zongxian heard the question about his daughter's figure, he enthusiastically praised his daughter's postpartum body for being extremely hot, especially the breasts that were already plump to the extreme!
Wu Zongxian mercilessly ridiculed his daughter in public, which made many netizens feel uncomfortable and accused him of being too obscene. When asked about this, Wu Zongxian's daughter Wu Shanru was full of disgust and angrily responded that her father's behavior was **.
However, even when he was opposed by his daughter, Wu Zongxian did not restrain himself, but instead intensified his claim that his daughter's figure had become better after giving birth.
Wu Zongxian's overly intimate behavior with his daughter has long been common in front of the public, and he can be called a "habitual offender". In front of the camera, he can always find various reasons to take advantage of his daughter, and these behaviors make people feel greasy and obscene.
One of the most shocking is that when they walked hand in hand on the red carpet and walked in front of the screen, Wu Zongxian suddenly made a jaw-dropping move. may be worried that his daughter's evening dress will be **, or he may want to use his vulgar humor to attract attention, he dragged the evening dress on his daughter's chest in front of many reporters and cameras, and desperately dragged it up.
Some fathers will respect their daughter's face and wait for permission before making a move, but Wu Zongxian is different, his behavior always surprises Wu Shanru, but she seems to have gotten used to it, and this behavior may be beyond correction. "
Some believe that there is a problem with Wu Zongxian's parenting style, which may cause his daughter to misunderstand the sexes; But there are also those who think that it is a pampering and love for his daughter, but there are many ways to express love, and it is best to avoid this way that may violate the ethical red line.
In the entertainment industry, there are many celebrity parents who also have similar behaviors, and some even more excessive behaviors than this.
Taiwanese actress Di Ying's education method has once again sparked heated discussions, and her decision to let her son sleep alone at the age of four has sparked a discussion about the correct gender consciousness guidance.
Di Ying's love for her son is greater than her love for her husband and mother. In her opinion, her son was the flesh and blood that she had worked so hard to get, so she decided to breastfeed him.
This doting made her deeply uneasy about the milk powder with additives on the market, and insisted that her son eat only breast milk until he was 12 years old.
For twelve years, Di Ying has always insisted on sleeping with her child until her son's first male reaction. The son only learned to sleep and bathe himself at the age of 15.
Despite this, Di Ying did not relax her vigilance against her children, and arranged all the activities of her children every day, from what should and should not be done, to her son's words and deeds, all of which must be strictly in accordance with her requirements.
When his son was 5 years old, Di Ying once took him to a couple kiss competition. During the match, they kissed wildly for 3 hours, and even though her son was asleep due to exhaustion, she was still kissing him.
At the age of 18, Di Ying endured the pain of cutting her love and sent her son to the United States to study. However, the son got tired of going to class and threatened to blow up the school. As a result, a large number of *** were found at home, and even alarmed the United States**.
It was Di Ying's excessive pampering and abnormal maternal love that made her son go down the wrong path. In the interview, she once confessed that she has special feelings for her son.
In the entertainment industry, we often see the intimate behavior of some celebrities and their children, causing controversy. For example, Li Jiaxin generously displayed intimate photos of herself and her son on social platforms, including mouth-to-mouth kisses.
The well-known actor Dong Jie took his divorced son to take wedding photos, and guided his son to express his desire to marry to satisfy his selfishness. Whether these behaviors are distorted human nature or moral degradation has caused people to ponder.
Dong Jie said that the way she gets along with her son is like a woman in love, and she kisses her son 100 times a day. After taking wedding photos with her son, she decided to keep these **, and when her son got married, she showed them to her daughter-in-law to compare who was more beautiful.
As uncomfortable as this way of expressing love can be, it's also important to realize that no matter how close the blood relationship is, there should be proportions and respect for each other's boundaries.
However, the actions of Le Jia and Wu Zongxian clearly crossed this boundary.
Lejia has publicly stated that he and his daughter have a very close relationship, falling asleep together every day and hugging and kissing every morning. He even openly declared that he would marry his daughter in the rest of his life.
However, his remarks made many people feel uncomfortable, because in the process of raising his daughter, he often called his daughter a lover, a girlfriend, and even gave people a sense of déjà vu as a couple.
As public figures, we need to be careful about our words and deeds, and not to easily expose our private lives to the public.
Hu Jun's kissing behavior of his daughter sparked heated discussions among netizens. In the ** posted by Hu Jun's daughter on her 14th birthday, he and his wife kissed their two children respectively, and even kissed their 14-year-old daughter mouth-to-mouth, and drank a glass of wine together.
Some people think that Hu Jun's family behavior has crossed the line, but Hu Jun doesn't care about the opinions of netizens, he said that his wife and he don't care, if netizens can't get used to it, then let them see it.
Although they insist that it is family affection and a way to express love, the public is increasingly skeptical of them. Repeated cross-scaling behavior is deeply uncomfortable, and this kind of education also raises concerns that problems may arise.
In this regard, Zeng Shiqiang, a master of Chinese culture, once clearly pointed out that only husbands and wives can kiss between men and women, fathers can only kiss daughters' foreheads, and daughters can only kiss father's cheeks, and cultivating a healthy parent-child relationship is the most important.
If there is too much interference in a child's development, it can have a negative impact on their gender identity. If this continues, the child may lack the necessary sense of precaution and even go down the wrong path in adulthood.