The growth of a boy to a man will go through a lot, and as the years go by, as you get older, your views on love and women will continue to change.
The following three movies are not only excellent ** movies, but also reflect the psychological process from boys to men, and deeply excavate the complexity of human nature.
Beautiful legends of Sicily
Douban 1 million people hit 9A high score of 0, this is by no means just a score for the beauty and ** of the heroine.
On that day in the late spring of 1941, Reinado met her for the first time, and Mussolini declared war on Britain and France. **Marlena, with wavy black hair, wearing the most fashionable short skirt and**, stepping on high heels full of ***, came to the quiet sunny town of Sicily. Her every move is eye-catching and reverie, and her smile teaches men to be intoxicated and women to be envious. Like a goddess, she conquered this paradise by the sea.
At the age of thirteen, Reinado also involuntarily fell into the whirlpool set off by Marlena, who rode his bicycle through all corners of the town, searching for Marlena's alluring beauty and style, and quietly became her unwitting little follower, following the prison and peeping into her life.
Her swaying shadow, the ** she listened to, and her close-fitting clothes have all become the most real and beautiful ** fantasies of this teenager who is overwhelmed by hormones.
The Beautiful Legend of Sicily tells a story of growing up, lust and war through the eyes of a 13-year-old boy, Reinado. In the movie, Reinado goes through a series of psychological processes.
Ignorant sexual arousal: Reinaldo begins to develop a curiosity about sex, which is a normal part of his adolescence. He began to take an interest in the women around him, especially Malena.
Obsession and Fantasy: Reinaldo has a strong crush on Marlena. Due to his age and limited experience, this fascination manifests itself more as fantasy and idealization.
Jealousy vs. Possessiveness: When other men begin to pursue Marlena, Reinaldo shows obvious jealousy. He sees Marlena as his "exclusive" and does not want other men to intervene.
Powerlessness and Frustration: Reinado feels powerless and frustrated as he tries to get closer to Marlena. He was frustrated that he couldn't have a relationship with Marlena like an adult male.
The cruelty of war and the ruthlessness of reality: With the advent of war, Reinado gradually realizes the cruelty of the world and the ruthlessness of reality. He saw the dark side of humanity and the injustice suffered by Marlena.
Growth & Understanding: While Reinaldo's emotional experiences were filled with pain and struggle, these experiences pushed him to grow gradually. He begins to understand that the world is not what he imagined, and begins to learn to face reality and accept the imperfections of life.
The Beautiful Legend of Sicily shows how a boy grows from innocence to a mature man through Reinado's psychological process. The process is fraught with confusion, challenges, and pain, but it is also a necessary path.
Bitter Moon
To put it simply, this is a movie where married people want to divorce, couples don't dare to get married, and singles don't want to fall in love anymore.
Bitter Moon is a romance film directed by Roman Polanski, who grew up in a Nazi concentration camp and whose films produce a compelling view of the male world: when your woman needs your help, do you protect yourself wisely, or bravely face the ordeal. His works are among the best in world cinema with the smell of blood and romance.
"Bitter Moon" describes a romantic and amorous American writer Oscar who comes to France and meets the beautiful French girl Mimi, who can't help but fall into it.
The two love each other to death, and the ** fire burns until they are exhausted.
However, Mimi's stunning charm only fascinated Oscar for a short time.
Soon, he began to get tired and couldn't find any passion, and even left Mimi behind after Mimi had an abortion for him, and redevoted himself to the search for flowers and willows, completely demonstrating the selfishness and meanness of a man.
After a car accident, Oscar, who was lying in the hospital and no one cared about him, found Mimi standing in front of his hospital bed. When he was relieved that someone had finally come to visit him, Mimi, who was originally smiling, suddenly dragged him out of the hospital bed, causing Oscar to be disabled for life.
Mimi took over Oscar's life, how much love and madness she used to have, and how cruel and abusive she is now. Mimi even takes men and women to an extreme in front of Oscar, who is already incapable.
The extreme personalities of two people love and kill each other between love and hate.
In the movie "Bitter Moon", the psychological process of the male protagonist Oscar is complex and changeable, the initial Oscar's attraction to the heroine Mimi is irresistible, and their love becomes extremely romantic because of **, but this extreme emotional experience also planted the seeds of destruction.
Emotional dependence, the pursuit of desire, and the ultimate self-destruction, this process is not only a profound analysis of personal psychology, but also a deep ** and reflection on human nature. I must have watched this movie, and it will take a long time to digest the extreme.
American beauty
If "The Beautiful Legend of Sicily" is about a boy who is just beginning to fall in love with his ignorance, and "Bitter Moon" is about a profligate man's admiration for nature, then "American Beauty" can reflect the midlife crisis of many ordinary middle-class men.
The movie American Beauty tells the story of a middle-aged man, Lester Birneham.
The story revolves around Lester's emotional crisis and self-exploration.
Lester is a dispensable presence in the company and is disliked by his wife and 13-year-old daughter Jenny at home. He felt labeled as a "loser" and unable to hold his head up in any area of life, turning into a soulless walking corpse.
But everything changes when Lester sees his daughter's classmate in the cheerleading team, the youthful and energetic Angela. Lester was caught in Angela's youthful and vivid breath, and his lifeless state of mind burned with a burning feeling.
He began to re-examine his life and tried to break free and pursue the true passion and freedom within him. Angela becomes the object of his sexual fantasies, and he seems to have regained his former passion and vitality.
He learned from the young man to fire the boss and went back to work at the burger restaurant like he did when he was younger, and he didn't even care about his wife's cheating, and practiced his muscles and figure in the underground garage all day.
Finally one day, Angela came to their house for the night, because Angela and Jenny had an argument, and Lester comforted Angela, who was crying, and took her to her bed.
American Beauty won a Golden Globe and an Academy Award. This is not only an inexpressible film about a midlife crisis, but also a more profound reflection of the questioning of social expectations and material pursuits, and topics such as children neglected by parents, domestic violence, and same-sex repression are all hinting at the illusion and deception of the American dream.
The film shows love, **and**personality from an unconventional perspective, and at the same time profoundly ** the loneliness of life and the estrangement and alienation between people.
If a man can't understand these truths by the age of 40 and can't accept the reality of his gradual decline, it is recommended to watch this movie.