Introduction: Everyone has their own girlfriends, which is one of the important roles in our lives. But what do we do when our best friend has a lover? This is a thought-provoking question. Liu FangAnd her best friend, fromUniversityThe times began to know each other, between themFriendshipIt seems to be very stable, but in fact, there are some hidden things in the girlfriendHypocrisyside. Liu FangI kept my independence and felt that it was the right choice. What made her such a decision? Let's take a look at her story.
Liu FangAnd her best friend isUniversityClassmates, girlfriends have always been on top, rightLiu FangThere are obviously some words and deedsSuperiority。WhileLiu FangShe understands her best friend's attitude, she understands that her best friend is not bad, but she has always been spoiled by the superior conditions of the family, and likes to be held and coaxed. AlthoughLiu FangThe results are better than that of her best friend, and she still keeps a low profile and is silent. UniversityAfter graduation,Liu Fanghas been trying hard to find a job, but her girlfriend has been arranged to work and live early. Liu FangShe doesn't feel unbalanced about this, she believes that with hard work, everything will be there, it's just a matter of time.
Expansion: Everyone should insist on their independence and hard work, and not have unbalanced emotions because of comparison with others. Everyone's life path is different, we just need to focus on our own struggles, believe in our talents and efforts, and we will definitely be able to achieve our goals.
AlthoughLiu Fangand girlfriends'EconomyThere is a big gap in conditions, but this does not hinder themFriendshipLiu FangOnce I went to my best friend's house, I saw the luxury of her best friend's life, but she never changed her attitude towards her best friend because of this, and they still maintained a good relationship. Even ifLiu FangI can only afford to buy it for about ten yuanBeer, girlfriends never dislike it, and will bring more valuable ones themselvesRed wineEconomyThe gap on them did not change theirsFriendshipThey still support and care for each other as usual.
Expansion: Friendship shouldn't be becauseEconomyThe gap in conditions has changed. TrueFriendshipIt is based on mutual understanding and respect, not material conditions. WhateverEconomyWhat is the condition,CriticalIt's about supporting and understanding each other in times of difficulty.
Five years later, the girlfriend's family situation has changed dramatically. Her husband's cheating was discovered, and her father-in-law was investigated, and her own parents have suffered some misfortunes. Her best friend's life has become much worse than before, but she still feels that she has an advantage. The girlfriend's behavior has also changed, and she letLiu FangHide her relationship with her lover for her. Liu FangConfused about this, and asked my girlfriend why. The best friend thinks she has the right to cheat because her husband has also cheated on her. Liu FangDisagreeing with her best friend's thoughts, she thinks that women should be inMarriageto remain loyal and principled.
Expansion: Everyone has different values and perceptions to treatMarriageThere is also a different attitude to the issue of cheating. However, keep itMarriageSolidity and loyalty are important foundations for maintaining a happy family. For the problem of cheating, it should be dealt with through communication and problem solving, not cheating.
Liu FangThe choice is correct. She chooses to remain independent and alienate herself from her best friend because she does not agree with her best friend's actions and thoughts. Everyone has different values and perceptionsCriticalIt's about keeping your own independent thinking and making the right choices. Always stick to your principles and choose to be in the company of people with positive energy so that you can maintain your happiness and peace of mind.