In today's increasingly diversified aesthetic context, the ideal height of women has become an interesting topic.
Some people are obsessed with the petite and lovely 1.58 meter "Little Bean Ding", and some people are obsessed with the slender and straight 1.7 meter "long-legged goddess". As the saying goes, turnip greens have their own love and goodness, and women of different heights also have their own charm and attractiveness, and they should be praised and accepted.
However, everything in the world has a degree, and so does height. When the height of girls has sprung up, approaching or exceeding the "high line" in ordinary people's perception, parents' worries also follow.
A netizen from Henan shared the story of his daughter: The daughter who is in the prime of her life has grown to a proud 1.8 meters in high school, even surpassing the boys in the class.
Parents are worried that if her height continues to grow unrestrained, she may reach 1.9 or even 2 meters in the future, which will not only cause inconvenience to her daily life, but also may bring challenges to her future marriage and love.
In the picture, the tall and outstanding girl is the center of attention, and she interprets her unique beauty in a way that stands out from the crowd.
In this society where appearance is paramount, body and appearance are undoubtedly an important part of personal advantages, and they can give people a head start in many occasions such as job hunting and social interaction.
Parents were originally pleased that their daughter was beautiful and moving, but they never expected that height would become a new annoyance, after all, women who are too tall may affect their marriage and work.
The mother said with emotion that although there is a son who is also more than 1.8 meters tall at home, the son's height is regarded as an advantage among children of the same age, and the same height falls on the daughter, which has become a new problem for the family.
Every festive season, seeing that her daughter's clothes do not fit well due to the change in her body and shoes are difficult to find, the mother can't help but regret: "Such a wonderful appearance, it would be nice to be matched with a more 'suitable' height." ”
Many parents with similar experiences also spoke out in the comment area, revealing that their daughters are also growing taller rapidly during adolescence, facing the trouble of buying clothes and shoes, and even the whole family hopes that their daughters will not continue to grow taller, so as not to discourage potential suitors because of their unusual height, or cause their daughters to have inferiority complex.
However, I think these concerns of parents may be too conservative. With the progress of the times, people's understanding and appreciation of beauty are also changing, and height is no longer the only criterion that determines women's charm and happiness.
The stereotype that a woman is too tall is not good for marriage is fading, and nowadays, more and more short boys are willing to choose tall girls in order to optimize the genes of their offspring.
The important thing is that girls have a good heart, a good personality and a confident temperament, which is the key to their happiness.
As a parent, you should avoid sending negative hints to your child that "if you grow tall, you will have low self-esteem", so as not to leave a psychological shadow in your child's growth.
In this era, talented and confident women can be the center of attention, regardless of their height, and their marriage market value is not limited, but can shine in industries such as modeling, athletes, etc., or occupy a place in a specific career field by virtue of their height.
Finally, we need to understand that no matter what body shape, girls should be self-reliant, confident and optimistic. Height is only one of the external characteristics of a person, and it does not determine a person's worth and future.
We should focus on cultivating children's inner qualities and abilities, so that they can become thoughtful, talented, and confident women in the new era. Such a girl will be welcomed and respected no matter where she goes.