Not every true love can be exchanged for another true love.
There are always people who are hurting, betraying, and letting down.
Between two people, one person does his best, is very good to the other person, especially desperate, and plans for each other's future, but the other person may not be sincere, always cheating, ambiguous with others, and full of calculations.
When you meet such a person, when you are in the middle of it and happen to be hurt by the other person, of course you will be sad.
will want to retaliate, but will not want to take advantage of themselves, feel that it is not worth it.
However, if you simply don't do anything, you will be very unwilling and feel that you should not let the other party go like this.
So, you will think that if you are not serious about your feelings, play with your feelings, and give hurt to the person, it would be good if you could have some retribution, and let the other person taste the pain you have suffered, feel the pain, but you are not sure whether there is such retribution.
If you look at it for a short time, you can't see it.
A girl, in love for the first time, after she fell in love with a man, she was very good to each other, often considerate of each other's difficulties, reluctant to spend each other's money, just her own various expenses, and wanted to take out the best everything.
She wants to use such sincerity to prove her sincerity, to prove that she doesn't want anything, to prove that she wants to have the determination to have the future, thinking that if she doesn't care about the return, the other party will be very moved and very good to herself.
However, the other party often doesn't care about her emotions, doesn't take her efforts seriously, just coaxes her in various ways, never does anything for her, and never even tells her about getting married.
Later, she was directly with another person, and after she found out, the other party didn't have any apologies, but simply broke up, and the other woman was sweet and sweet, looking so unhappy.
Seeing that the other party was doing well, she was very unhappy, and she didn't understand why a person who was so bad to herself and so disloyal to her feelings could be so happy, but she was so sad.
Many people seem to be in such a situation, feeling that everything is so unfair, but in fact, whether a person is sorry for you, or is not serious about feelings, when you are deeply grieving, the other person may not really feel anything.
Instead, I'm just feeling my own life, maybe even happier than before.
In a relatively short period of time, a few months, even a few years, you really won't see anything, because you don't feel guilty, because you haven't realized the problem yet, because you haven't come to the day of the result.
A lot of things, for a certain period of time, won't be too different, and you won't know what you've lost.
In the long run, there must be cause and effect.
It's still that girl, and the first love hit her hard, but fortunately, she sank for a while, and gradually came out. After that, she no longer pays attention to that man, but keeps improving herself, perfecting herself, and loving herself.
I also began to learn how to recognize people and how to love them better.
Later, as she got better and better, she started a relationship again, and this time all her efforts were reciprocated, the other party cherished her very much, treated her very well, and the two of them had a good life after getting married.
She rarely thinks about the hurt that hurt her, but one day, she received a message from the man who added her as a friend, and said that he missed her very much, still thought she was the best, and wanted to start over with her or something.
She didn't pay attention to this, she had long forgotten about this person, but she cherished the current day very much, and the person in front of her, directly deleted the other party's application for addition, and blocked the other party, refused to receive another application, and didn't bother to say anything to the other party.
One day after that, I happened to hear someone talk about it, it turned out that the man at the beginning, he had been constantly changing girlfriends, and he was never willing to stop, and he was indeed happy for several years, but in the end, he was still alone.
Not only did no one stay by his side, but in order to cling to a woman with good conditions, he also took all the money, and directly began to become very embarrassed, and the whole person was also very hurt, and began to doubt what he had done.
In life, there may not be retribution, but everything has a cause and effect, and what you plant will often get what kind of effect.
When the time is long enough, what you do often costs you, and no one can replace you for everything, you can only bear it yourself.
Whether there is retribution in the relationship or not, many times, you don't have to worry about this problem all the time.
Just don't deliberately hurt others, and don't let others down easily.
Do your best, do what you should do, let yourself have a clear conscience, and you can be relatively calm.
And when you are the one who is hurt by others, you don't have to keep thinking about it, you don't have to keep obsessing with giving the other party retribution, you don't have to pay attention to the other party all the time, find that the other party is not worth it, recognize it early, and leave early, isn't it a good thing.
So as not to delay a lot of time, only then can I have the opportunity to find a future that truly belongs to me.
After leaving, just forget about the other party, let go of this past, and go to your own future, so that your future can be very good. The person who is sorry for you will naturally have cause and effect, and how that person is doing is no longer your business.
Don't look back, just focus on yourself, be happy, be well-being, live your life to the fullest, better than before, more important than anything.
Text: Tan Meng.
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