The "sao operation" of a college cafeteria sparked a discussion that I am poor, but it does not mean that I have no self-esteem
China's education system focuses on benefiting the people, and the tuition fees of public schools are generally reasonable. For students whose families are in financial difficulty, they have the opportunity to apply for financial assistance such as student loans, student scholarships, etc., to tide over the difficulties.
Looking back on my own experience when I was in school, I remember that my class voted to decide which families were more in need, and then allocated bursaries according to the number of places. At the time, I didn't feel the significance of it, but in retrospect, this link may have left a stinging memory in the hearts of many poor students, just like the situation in the school cafeteria.
In a 985 university, some decisions in the canteen have caused controversy recently. There have been reports of poor students being disqualified by their schools for using their bursaries to buy expensive sneakers. Some students believe that since money is given, the cost should be decided by the students themselves, and the school has too much control;However, there are also questions about whether the people who spend the money in this way are really poor students, because the really poor people will use the funds more carefully.
A student from Northeastern University was impressed while eating in the cafeteria. Faced with a dazzling array of dishes, he chose the ** dish window, which was specially prepared for students with difficulties in life. The dishes here don't cost more than a dollar, and despite being simple and mediocre, they choose to spend their money on something more practical. This scene is reminiscent of the scene where voting was once distributed for poor students.
Some netizens expressed discomfort with Northeastern University's approach, believing that it was obviously an attack on students' self-esteem. This has sparked a discussion about how poor students should be treated in the education system, and how the lifestyle of poor students should be defined and respected, has become the focus of social attention.
Ordinary students choose to buy lunch at the normal window, but I can only go to the ** food window. Once I went, it seemed to announce to the people around me that my life was not going well, and I couldn't hide my predicament. I have good intentions, but is there something wrong with this choice?
The school's good deeds were called "riot operations", which caused dissatisfaction among some netizens. Many students feel inferior due to their family situation. Such a window seems to keep reminding them to be more frustrated.
There is some truth to this argument, and schools can actually take some ways to take care of students without making them feel inferior. Maybe you can integrate the **dish into the ordinary dish window and keep it low, so that you don't need to deliberately go to the **dish window to look so special.
However, I don't think such an approach will solve the problem. There are many people at the window of ordinary dishes, and even if there are no other students, the staff at the window will notice. The best way to solve the problem is to adjust your mindset and get rid of your low self-esteem. Birth family is not something we can choose, there is no fault, there is no need to feel inferior. If low self-esteem persists, it can manifest itself not only in the school cafeteria window, but also in other occasions, such as when shopping, at social gatherings, or even when the phone is not advanced enough.
Poverty is not the fault of students and should not be allowed to excuse low self-esteem. Even though the school may adjust the management model and change the cafeteria window settings according to the students' suggestions, the low self-esteem will not improve in front of strangers, colleagues and companies. Adjusting our mindset is the key to solving the problem, otherwise the inferiority complex will accompany us wherever we are. We cannot always use poverty as an excuse to expect special care from others.
It is the confident and generous personality that exudes charm, and the school is already working hard to cultivate this aspect. A dinner costs only about 2 yuan to get enough to eat, which is already quite good, and you shouldn't be fussy about the details.
Author's Message: Negative emotions such as low self-esteem, sensitivity, suspiciousness, and irritability are completely dominated by the students themselves. If you can't control these emotions at school, it's unrealistic to expect tolerance and adjustment.
There is nothing wrong with poor students, the fault is that this should not be overemphasized. As long as you don't see poverty as a burden and live a normal life, other people don't actually pay much attention to it.
The most worrying thing is that the students themselves may constantly exaggerate negative emotions or conditions for some reason. Just like a person who exudes resentment all the time, the classmates around you may stay away from you.
Adjust your personal mentality, generously go to the first dish window to eat, eat calmly, greet your classmates happily, establish self-confidence, and concentrate on reading, this is the best way to progress.
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