I remember when I first worked, I met a colleague, because she was of the same age, after work, she ate and went shopping together, she never bought expensive things, but chose more suitable ones.
Once her friend was going to celebrate her birthday, let me accompany her to choose a gift, I thought she would choose a more ordinary gift, but she took me into a famous store, picked a leather bag of more than 1000 yuan as a gift, I was a little surprised, because at that time our salary was more than 1000, she usually spent on her own things are not more than 200 yuan, the gifts to friends are all so expensive, I can't help but sigh and say: "It's good to be your friend, you can receive such an expensive gift for your birthday." ”
She said to me when the salesman was wrapping gifts: "Don't worry too much about friends, I treat her like this, she will naturally not be very bad to me, you must know that I was downcast to live in her house that year, she gave me a place to live, and lent me 10,000 yuan afterwards, you must know that the 10,000 yuan may be all her savings at that time, I will not forget this, she will not forget, although I later returned the money to him, but the love between friends is not clear." ”
And another person I know, just the opposite of her, in that era of micro-business popularity, I also sent bags in the circle of friends, sold bags, and many people I knew said to me: "Support, remember to give friendship price if I fancy it." Only this person tentatively asked, "Can you give me one?" I have a crush on one, send a bag between friends, you won't mind, right? ”
I explained to her: "The bag is not mine, I also got the goods from the previous house, and I don't have any stock in my hand, I also have to go to the online order, buy it back and give it to you, or I will go to your house to pick up a pair of shoes, and you will also give them to me." Friends don't mind, do they? She sneered, "It's ...... so stingy."
In fact, when I said that I asked her to give me shoes, I didn't really want her shoes, I just wanted her to be considerate of me, but she really wanted me to give her a bag, because she usually took advantage of her friends at every turn, and for this reason, there were few people around to play with her.
Later, there was a period of time when my bags were selling well, and she wanted to come and sell bags to me, but I refused, and she went around saying bad things about me, saying that I was narrow-minded, small-minded, and that business would definitely not ......be good for long
It doesn't matter if you don't bless others when you see others, don't really go bad, because this can only slow down your pace, you can't take away other people's things, and what you have, others can't get it, so it's better to look farther and think about how to catch up with others.