As I came into contact with more and more people, I gradually found that human nature is not as beautiful as I ideal.
Sometimes the greater the expectations of humanity, the greater the disappointment in the end.
The wise man never expects to be comforted by human nature, but on the basis of seeing clearly, adapting to human nature and conforming to human nature.
1.After giving, don't expect to be rewarded
Not everyone knows how to be grateful, and they all know how to repay Entu, and your efforts may not necessarily be rewarded accordingly.
The story of the farmer and the snake does not only happen to animals, not only in fairy tales, but also in real-world human interactions.
Why do most people dare not step forward to help the old man who has fallen now, is it not that they are afraid that they will be blackmailed.
After paying, not only do you not get a return, but you have to bear the loss, which is more and more dark human nature.
And once the person receiving help forms a habit and dependence, and takes your contribution for granted, it is likely to become even worse.
When one day you stop helping, they will blame you and morals kidnap you.
When the time comes, not only will you suffer material losses, but you will also be hurt mentally, and no one will make decisions for you.
Therefore, when you give for others, be prepared to give in vain and don't expect much in return.
2.Don't expect someone to help you in times of adversity
When you're in adversity and at a low point in your life, don't expect someone to take the initiative to give you a hand.
At this time, you are a burden, and it is too late for others to hide from you, so how can they take the initiative to provoke you.
Although you may feel that you are a talent and will become a great tool one day, you are only frustrated for a while, and there will always be a time to make a comeback.
But why should others believe in you, in case you never recover, and you can't succeed?
Then they didn't help you in vain, and in the end, not only did they gain nothing, but they also put in a lot of material time and energy.
Hardly anyone is willing to take the risk of investing in you with a lot of uncertainty.
When you don't have the strength yourself, don't expect someone to help you, because you don't have the value to use.
At this time, you can only rely on yourself, because only you believe in yourself at this time.
3.After being developed, don't expect someone to bless you
For many people, whether they are doing well or not is not absolute, but relative.
Even if he doesn't have to worry about food and clothing, he has already exceeded the average and is much happier than most people.
But if the people around you are doing better than you, they will feel that they are not happy.
When you are developed, don't expect someone to sincerely bless you, at most everyone praises you on the surface, but in their hearts they are very unbalanced and unconvinced.
Because you are well, not only will they not be able to get the light up, but they will also seem to be inferior to you.
For them, strangers can be good, they can't see out of sight and don't get upset, but the people around them can't get better, which will cause their envy, jealousy and anxiety.
In addition to your parents, wife and children, they can share your wealth and honor, and they will sincerely want you to be prosperous.
So there is no need for you to show off at all, no one will really bless you, but you may be calculated by others and bring unwarranted disasters to yourself.