In this complex society, how to "do your best" is a topic worthy of our in-depth study. We often get lost in the evaluations and expectations of others and forget how to listen to our own inner voice. So, what exactly does it mean to be "yourself"?
First and foremost, it is crucial to know yourself and maintain unity of heart and behavior. We should always pay attention to our inner feelings and understand our values and pursuits. Only by truly knowing ourselves can we be clear about our direction and goals, so that we can maintain inner alignment in our actions. This is exactly the wisdom of "the unity of knowledge and action" that Mr. Yang Ming said.
Second, being yourself means focusing on what you're passionate about and working on it. When we are passionate about something, we are self-motivated, and we are willing to do it even if the salary is not high. Conversely, if we don't like it, no amount of salary will motivate us to accomplish it. Therefore, choosing what you are passionate about and pursuing it consistently is the key to achieving self-worth and improving your sense of well-being.
At the same time, doing oneself well also means constantly improving one's abilities and qualities. Through continuous learning and practice, we can improve our professional quality and comprehensive ability, so as to better cope with the challenges and opportunities in life. This process of self-improvement not only contributes to personal growth, but also creates more value for society.
In addition, being yourself also means being selective about socializing. Instead of over-indulging in ineffective social situations and meaningless drinking parties, we should devote our time and energy to more meaningful and valuable relationships. Growing up and making progress with like-minded people is the true way to socialize.
Finally, we need to learn not to argue or be friends with people who know differently. Everyone has their own perceptions and values, and we can't change others, but we can choose who we associate with. Arguing or befriending someone who knows differently is not only a waste of time and energy, but can also lead to unnecessary conflicts and conflicts. Therefore, being rational, respectful of others, and not arguing or being friends with people who know different things is one of the important principles of being yourself.
In short, "being yourself" is a life attitude and philosophy of life. By knowing ourselves, pursuing passions, constantly improving, socializing selectively, and not arguing or befriending people who don't perceive otherwise, we can better achieve self-worth and well-being. In this rapidly changing society, we must always keep a clear mind and firm beliefs, follow our inner voice, transcend the limitations of cognition, and truly "do our best".