Those little things in love
It is said that thirty is standing, forty is not confused, but I, who has just entered my thirties, why do I feel that love is becoming more and more incomprehensible? It's not that I said, this love, sometimes it's really harder than the aunt's bargain in the vegetable market! But then again, it is precisely because of these "difficult things" that our lives have a little more different colors.
I think back then, when I first met the one in my family, it was called a sweetness! It's Valentine's Day every day, and you can squeeze out honey when you look at each other's eyes. But now, after a long time, life tends to be dull. But you know what? It was in this blandness that I found another look of love.
One night, I worked late and didn't come home until late. As soon as you enter, you will see a bowl of steaming noodles and an omelette on the table. The guy in my family was sitting on the sofa watching TV, and when he saw me coming back, he casually said, "Come back, hurry up and eat noodles, it's cold." "To be honest, my heart warmed a little at the time. These seemingly simple actions and words made me feel the warmth of home and the long-term flow of love.
Another time, we got into an argument over a trivial matter. I was so angry that I simply went to a friend's house to hide in the quiet. But it didn't take long for the phone to ring. At first glance, it was a message from him: "Wife, I was wrong, come back." I bought you your favorite durian. "Hey, you say this man, sometimes it's really love-hate-hate. But on second thought, isn't this the truest form of love? There are quarrels, there are compromises, there is tolerance, and there is understanding.
Actually, love is not as complicated as we think. It doesn't need too many sweet words and vows, it just needs two people to support each other and understand each other. As the song goes, "The most romantic thing I can think of is to grow old with you." "Isn't that what we want in the end?
So, friends over thirty, stop complaining about unsatisfactory love. Cherish the people in front of you, cherish the things in front of you! Because in this world, it is really not easy to meet someone who is willing to accompany you through ups and downs and grow old together. Let's all learn to cherish it!
Finally, I would like to say: I hope that every friend over the age of 30 can have a sincere and long-lasting love! Because love, it is never the whole of life, but life without love must be incomplete.