The topic of boys finding foreign girlfriends has sparked heated discussions and controversies. On the one hand, many Chinese boys support and agree with this, believing that it is a diversified choice that is conducive to improving their international vision and communication skills. But on the other hand, there are also many Chinese girls who are angry and dissatisfied with this, and they directly spray, smear and even slander Chinese boys. I was deeply shocked and helpless by this.
From the rhetoric of these girls, we can see their attitude towards Chinese boys and foreign girlsBoard size。They say that Chinese boys and foreign girls are too low-quality, poor, not good enough, and so on, and the bad words make people shudder. However, I believe that the low quality is not a one-sided problem, but a responsibility that both sides should bear. If you blindly rely on taking, only care about your own needs and do not pay, should girls also reflect on whether they are really richer? At the same time, as women, do they have enough independence and ability to choose their own way of life?
In addition, some girls even refer to the hometown of foreign girls as "that kind of place", which gives people a sense of insult and discrimination. However, in fact, foreign girls often have the characteristics of simplicity, kindness and hard work, and can be said to be more excellent than some girls with material pursuits. What's even more unbelievable is that some girls directly call the development level of foreign regions backward, and this kind of beating the whole region to death with a stick is really ignoring and indifferent to the facts. We should know that the level of development of a region is closely related to the efforts of each individual and the national environment, and that the entire region and population cannot be discriminated against because of individual cases.
In addition, some girls said that they could not understand why Chinese boys were looking for foreign girlfriends, and they thought that this was the result of being forced by girls to be helpless. However, I think this is a distortion and bias against the boys' choices. Why do boys choose foreign girlfriends is not just because of material factors, but more because of the pursuit of a plain and down-to-earth lifestyle. For some boys, they may value inner qualities and pleasure more than just physical appearance or economic conditions. Therefore, attribute their choice to going abroadA sense of accomplishmentIt is also an incomplete understanding.
Seeing the comments on this issue on the Internet, I was even more surprised by the strong opposition, criticism and slander from women. They responded with all kinds of bad words, and some even used swear words to express their dissatisfaction with the boys. Such verbal attacks and derogations not only do not solve the problem, but only exacerbate the antagonism between the sexesSocialContradiction. As women, we should be more rational and objective about boys' choices, exchanging tolerance and understanding for harmony and communion. Otherwise, we will only lose the recognition and sincerity of boys more and more.
Finally, for female friends, I hope that you will reflect on your own attitudes and show sincerity and tolerance. After all, a good relationship requires mutual understanding and respect from both parties. Instead of being arrogant and demanding of boys, we should respect boys' right to choose and embrace diversitySocial。Let go of prejudices and prejudices, keep an open mind and accept choices that are in line with China's national conditions and the actual situation of Chinese families. Heaven doesn't require us to choose a local girlCriticalIt is to find the other half who is truly suitable for you and live a happy life. We should work together to create a harmonious, inclusive and pluralistic communitySocialEnvironment.