Wow! Someone shared a very emotional sentence on the Internet: "Big brothers, you have to be responsible, you must be able to withstand the wind and rain, and bravely shoulder the heavy responsibility of the family." Even if you feel tired, you must give your beloved woman a warm quilt, a warm haven for your baby, and a promise to your father and mother without regrets. This is not only a responsibility brought to you by love, but also an obligation that you must bear when you reach your age! "However, not all big brothers can fully fulfill this responsibility. Whenever the family needs them, they realize that they are not capable enough to cope perfectly. This kind of frustration that has nothing to do is really heartbreaking! Alas, I really feel sorry for those iron-clad men who have to give in to reality because they don't have enough money, and they silently bow their heads, willing to bear this taste of being untouched. Most of the bitter humiliation of middle-aged old men starts with an empty wallet.
Don't look at the big men who are usually tough and stronger than women, but when it comes to digging into their pockets, it's like a deflated ball. They may not be able to fulfill their sweetheart's wishes because of their deflated wallets, and they can't help but feel guilty when they look at their aging wives, lamenting that life is not easy but there is nothing to be done. Then, taking one puff after another, the smoke can dissipate some of the deep pain. Alas, only cigarettes can understand their sadness!
You see, the girl was finally admitted to the school of her dreams through hard work, and went home full of joy to report the good news, but found that there was no joy in the eyes of her parents, and she could only helplessly tell herself that life was so cruel. Actually, this is also because I don't have enough money, so I can't afford to pay the tuition of that expensive girls' school.
I remember a singer who sang a song called "The Pig Who Lost Happiness", which was really tear-jerking. The lyrics read, "I can't give you the happiness you want, so I choose to let go." Because I love you, I want you to find your own happiness. "When I was young, there was a man who didn't want to find a girl who made his heart move, wanted to be with her through this life, and tried his best to protect her, but in the end, he could only let go painfully, because he was too shy to create the living conditions she wanted. Without money, it really makes people feel powerless, and their self-confidence will drop to the bottom.
Also, if a person doesn't have the money, they can't send their children to the school they want. The saying "all roads lead to Rome" doesn't apply to everyone. You think we are all equal, but there are still quite a few people who struggle at a distant starting point. The disparity is due to their parents' financial situation. Children from wealthy families can go to all kinds of colleges they want, while children from poor families can only face the dilemma of losing the opportunity to learn because they have no money. It's really heart-wrenching!
In general, the bitterness and helplessness of middle-aged men are not understood by everyone. And this helplessness often starts from a lack of money. When they need to pay for their families, they can only sigh because their wallets are empty. When their families need them, they can only cheer themselves up, hoping that they can do more and better.
Alas, I hope that every middle-aged man can bravely face the challenges of life and persist in fighting for the sake of his family.