Osamu Dazai writes in the book "The Setting Sun":
I pretend to be old, and everyone rumors that I am old.
I pretended to be a lazy person, and everyone rumored that I was a lazy worm. I'm broad, and everyone thinks I'm broad.
I pretended to be cold, and everyone called me a ruthless guy.
However, when I was really in pain and couldn't help moaning, everyone thought I was moaning without illness. ”
The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same
You have ten thousand arrows through the heart, you are in pain, and it is only your own business, others may sympathize, they may sigh, but they will never know to what extent your wounds have festered.
The vast majority of what happens to you is meaningless to others;
No matter how earth-shattering the injuries are to you, they are just dust brushed away by others.
Because, apart from me, there are only a million you in this world.
There is no empathy,OnlyJoy and sorrow
In the world, no two leaves are exactly the same, and no two people have experienced exactly the same. Everyone is from a different perspective, and their views on the same thing are naturally different.
The so-called empathy is only a little resonant at most.
Everyone has a story in their hearts that they can't tell, so they can only wet their pillows with tears in the middle of the night, and bear and digest it alone.
Our hearts, our flesh grow on each person's body, the ups and downs, the taste of our own taste is only understood by ourselves, don't pin your hopes on others, don't ask others to understand your feelings, no matter how loud you shout, it is in vain.
The world of adults is an emotional breakdown a thousand times, and they can only choose to pick themselves up from the abyss a thousand and one times.
That feeling of isolation and powerlessness is to let you know that no one can help you, and you have to be strong and pull yourself along, otherwise you will only sink deeper and deeper in the muddy swamp.
Because we understand, we are compassionate
Some people live in high-rise buildings, and some people are in deep ditches. Some people are bare, some people are rusty.
When you want others to put yourself in your shoes, you have to learn to put yourself and others first.
No one is an island, and getting along with others is the proximity of hearts to each other, warmth to each other, and the proximity of hearts to hearts is indispensable for empathy.
In this world, there has never been real empathy, only you are your strong backing.
Although the future is unknown, it is also moving forward with a heavy load.