Characteristics of high-demand babies compared to whether your baby is a high-demand baby?
1. It is difficult to fall asleep, easy to wake up, it is difficult to fall asleep by yourself, I like to be held to sleep or sleep with milk, the nap time is very short, about 30 minutes to an hour, and I cry when I wake up.
Second, the number of times is large, and the demand for milk is large.
Third, the need for physical contact is large, and parents need to spend more energy and time to comfort and care.
Fourth, extremely active, energetic, very active, very enthusiastic when laughing, unusually high-pitched when crying, and there is no quiet time.
Fifth, there are many requirements, and the needs are constant, and they must be met immediately.
6. Doesn't soothe itself and is extremely clingy. Many babies can play with small toys by themselves to meet him, but high-demand babies cannot, they are not interested in toys, and their favorite is to be surrounded by adults.
It's not anyone's fault that having a high-needs baby is, and to some extent, all children are high-needs and need to be raised more intimately. Many people think that it is the mother's habit, and even question the mother's ability to take care of the baby. But it's not!
A child who is emotionally charged and sensitive will be more likely to connect emotionally with others and will also bring more confidence and security to themselves.
Relax, it's not that your baby is difficult to bring! He's just in high demand!
Some ** words, with mothers to encourage:
The baby will eventually be weaned, and one day he will sleep through the night, and this high-demand parenting phase will soon pass.
The time the baby is in your bed, the time in your arms, and the time of ** are very short in a person's life, but those memories of love and trust will last a lifetime.
Being a parent is never easy! Since you are born, you must accept him and love him well. Give your high-demand baby some time and be patient with him as he grows up
Don't compare yourself to those angel babies, the more you doubt yourself. Try to manage your emotions well, although you give more to others, you will not gain less than others. Come on!