Two days ago, I happened to see a new **boss of the post-95 generation on a certain sound**, talking about how ordinary people cross classes. Originally, I thought it was probably just a bowl of chicken soup that couldn't kill people, but while listening to it, I saw that it was really like that in combination with the people and things around me. After reading it twice, I made a simple note of the keywords, which is as follows:
I used to think that I was a little white-collar worker, but after a closer look at this note, I suddenly understood that I was a little reluctant to say that I was an intellectual. Looking down, if you want to climb up, which way can you go?
People who are over forty years old, marriage, education, and public examinations are absolutely impossible, starting a business, and I have the courage to tell myself: You are not worthy! After thinking about it for a while, I feel that I really have nothing to do in my life, so let's honestly move bricks and raise flowers!
Although I don't want to be motivated, there are still thousands of aspiring young people who want to go up. I would like to talk about the main essence of this ** from the perspective of a person who has come before. In case it is seen by someone in need, you can also refer to it.
First of all, let's talk about my understanding and perception of the road of "marriage" jump.
Sometimes, when the time, place, and people are right, they can naturally promote a good marriage. When you reach the age of talking about marriage, there happens to be such a person of the opposite sex who has good conditions in all aspects, and you and him (her) fall in love at first sight, and a good couple is natural. Such a good relationship depends on luck, not everyone has it. There are two of them around me.
I was a classmate in middle school, and because I didn't live on campus, I didn't have much contact with her at that time. I have the impression that she is tall, with big watery eyes, ** very white. At that time, I felt that she didn't talk much, and her academic performance was always at the upper middle level. After graduating, I didn't see her again for many years, only that she applied for the kindergarten teacher's exam.
In 2006, I attended the wedding of a classmate who was somewhat related. It just so happened that classmate was also there, and after not seeing her for many years, she was already like the country girl at the beginning. Dressed luxuriously and fashionably, the speech and demeanor during the banquet are generous. During the conversation, I learned that she was married, her husband's family conditions were very good, and her father-in-law seemed to be a civil servant and a cadre. She ran a kindergarten with her husband, but ended her business due to the impact of SARS, and later started other businesses through her father-in-law's relationship. No wonder she has changed so much, after all, she is the one who is the boss.
Later, my classmate divorced, but she took part of her previous business. We've had meetings every year over the years, and we know that her business is getting bigger and bigger, and she's already a multimillionaire.
I have a cousin who, when he was twenty-five years old, met a girl at my uncle's restaurant and fell in love with her at first sight. Later, I heard my uncle tell me what happened. The girl was a teacher at an elementary school in a suburban county, and she was eating at my uncle's restaurant when my cousin went to have a meeting in the district that day. My cousin took a look at the girl and thought it was a good girl, and with the help of my uncle and aunt, he went on the offensive, and the girl became my cousin.
My cousin was just a small clerk in the gas company at the time, but my cousin was appointed to the district building. It didn't take long for my cousin and aunt to be transferred from the county to the best elementary school in the district. Later, she was seconded to *** cousin's father, who was only an elementary school teacher, and her mother had no job, and she also had twin siblings who had just entered elementary school. Because of this marriage, her mother's family still benefited a lot. With her help, her younger siblings have found good jobs after graduating from college, and it seems that they have all bought houses and settled in the main city.
I was once liked by a person with a good family background, but I stupidly didn't catch that olive branch. I didn't mind the other party's appearance, and I was afraid that Gao Pan's family would be looked down upon by their family in the future, so I politely declined. If someone told me the truth of today's ** at that time, I might not have cut off this fate as soon as I came, at least make a decision after dating and contacting first. That choice changed the course of my life forever.
People who are lucky can change their fate without much effort, but many more people can't ask for it. Some people sharpen their heads, create all the conditions to marry high or get rich, and some even use some unsightly means. Are people with good conditions all fools, so they don't pick people? Wealthy families attach great importance to interests, even if they are not rich and noble, families with slightly better conditions are also very concerned about the right family.
It is not an easy thing to marry highly, and it is not really good to marry well, and everything will be fine. Take my classmate and cousin, for example. After they got married, if they hadn't put their heart into managing their marriage and using the resources of their husband's family, they wouldn't be where they are today. Although they look very beautiful, they must have experienced a lot of times of swallowing their anger in private. My cousin and aunt talked about my cousin and aunt in front of everyone with a little contempt. If my classmate had been doing well in her husband's house, she would not have chosen to divorce.
Whether it is a good marriage by luck, or a person who has entered a higher-class family by his own strategy, he cannot lie down here, otherwise he is likely to become an accessory of others. Be sure to seize the opportunity to become strong, so that it is really possible to achieve a class jump.
No matter what kind of person a person is talking about, he must look at that person's character and character. People with bad character and character, the richer they are, the more cautious they must be, such a person is likely to become your nightmare, even if he takes you to fly, the risk is also extremely great!