Revealing the secret of "double opening at the door": the relationship between husband and wife, one door apart.
In our lives, the degree of harmony between husband and wife is directly related to the integrity of a family. Every couple comes together, it is inextricably linked fate. However, as the marriage deepens, many people find that the relationship between husband and wife is not all smooth sailing, and there are not a few who eventually break up. Some people think that the ancients said: "When the door is opened, the husband and wife break up", is this really the main reason for the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife?
In ancient times, large families often adopted the design of "opening the door and opening the door", which is not a simple architectural structure, but also contains a profound cultural connotation. Imagine a husband and wife walking through this door together and starting a new life. However, when the gates are separated again, the husband and wife also have conflicts because of some misunderstandings. Xi'er and Wenchang in the story finally chose to divorce due to family pressure and mother-in-law's expectations. However, this is a small quarrel, and if one of the parties can take a step back, maybe the story will have a different ending.
The ancients believed that "double opening at the door" was a symbol of bad luck, forming a "crying" character. Traditional Feng Shui theories believe that this will affect the family's financial fortune and make it impossible for the family to retain its wealth stably. In order to solve this problem, people creatively use mascots such as stone lions to try to break the negative meaning of the word "cry". This suggests that perhaps the real problem is not the structure of the door, but our attitude towards the relationship between husband and wife.
A real-life case illustrates the impact of money on a couple's relationship. After marriage, the woman chose to take care of her children full-time, and the family finances were in trouble. The money dispute caused the originally loving relationship between husband and wife to collapse, and finally ended in divorce. This story reminds us that the distribution and philosophy of money in a couple's relationship can be the trigger for a relationship to break down.
Feng Shui masters believe that "double opening of the door" may cause the qi entering the house to not stay, affecting the accumulation of family wealth. However, we should look at this statement rationally, cherish the bits and pieces in the relationship between husband and wife, and do not conclude that the relationship between husband and wife is destined to break up because of the superstitious "double opening of the door". Every couple should focus on communication, work together, and avoid putting the stress of life on one party completely.
In everyday life, it is inevitable that there will be differences of opinion between husband and wife. Through the story of Xiao Li and Xiao Zhang, we see that due to the endless quarrels, the relationship finally broke down. This makes us realize that quarrels between husband and wife are not unsolvable, but need more communication, understanding and tolerance. It is only through joint efforts that the relationship between husband and wife can be maintained.
"Double opening at the door" is not the culprit that directly leads to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife, but a symbol. The key to solving the problem of husband and wife relationship lies in communication, understanding and tolerance between husband and wife. We should face up to the problem, not superstitious about some old sayings, but through real efforts to preserve the marriage. Every choice in life affects the direction of the couple's relationship, let's work together to create a harmonious and happy family.
Overall, the "double door" is not a doomed cause of the breakdown of the couple's relationship, but a symbol that reminds us to value the subtleties in the relationship between husband and wife. Communication, understanding, and joint efforts between husband and wife are the keys to maintaining a relationship. When facing problems, don't easily choose to "open the door and say goodbye", but communicate with your heart, think rationally, and create a happy family.
Finally, let's think about the question: in your opinion, what is the most important thing in the relationship between husband and wife? Feel free to leave your views and suggestions.