A woman's appearance cannot be changed, she can be less glamorous, but not tacky, not ignorant. Reading and studying is a shortcut to improve one's quality. 
When it's summer, dress appropriately, instead of being like some celebrities, in order to attract attention, dress revealingly, and be extremely glamorous, which is actually not beautiful at all, but a little vulgar. A truly temperamental, well-educated woman is restrained and quiet.
What kind of family we are born in is not chosen, what we can choose is to make ourselves happy and elegant life, combined with the actual situation, choose your own outfit, the right one is the best, why envy other people's lines. We may not have the looks of others, but it is good to dress appropriately, be generous, and show a different version of ourselves. 
If you have time to keep fit, learn to dance, your beauty will eventually age over time, and your own conversation and temperament will accompany you throughout your life, cultivate good living habits, think, act, persevere, and self-discipline, so that you can become the self you want.
Learn to drive your own car and learn to cook a few good meals. Many women are afraid of gaining weight and are very harsh on their diet, but in fact, they can occasionally indulge themselves, satisfy their taste buds, and let themselves have a good mood. 
Wearing sunscreen and hand cream when you go out to protect your face and your hands are equally important.
When interacting with people, you know how to clean yourself, you can be clear about the flow of money, you should be stingy, you should be stingy, treat your friends sincerely, and learn to just stop losses from friends for hurt and betrayal, you can forgive, but you must remember it for a long time.
Some words are to rot in the heart, and some are painful, and they need to be slowly eliminated in the long river of time. Face life positively and calmly, tell yourself that everything will pass, and there will be a new sunrise tomorrow. 
If you want to go for a walk, remember to wear comfortable shoes in case you don't see the view, because the shoes will make you tired.
As mentioned earlier, learning a few specialty dishes, showing your family their skills on the weekend, and watching them feast, how can you not have a sense of happiness in your heart.
Don't torture yourself because of other people's mistakes, be sad, or even skip meals, be resentful, in fact, you don't have to, it would be stupid to do that. You should eat, drink, a little stingy is inevitable, you have to learn to be relieved, think about it carefully, it's nothing, no one hurts you when you're angry.
Proper squeezing is what it should be, refreshing, gentle and generous. Have your own favorite jewelry box, you can do without it, but you need to have it, and once you think of them your mood will be better.
According to your own **, age makeup, light makeup and heavy makeup are always appropriate, and a sincere smile is the secret to keeping you old slowly, because a woman who loves to laugh will not be old.
You can improve your life appropriately, try not to eat at night, eat, and don't go to bed immediately, so as not to grow meat and you have to bother to lose it.
The people who love you the most in this world are your parents, and no matter how good your friends are, they may betray you in front of interests, so learn to protect yourself and not put yourself in a disadvantageous situation.
Learn to love yourself and not wronged yourself for the sake of others. There is no script in life, nothing in the world is eternal, and a wise woman knows that no one is more reliable than herself.
How to be a beautiful and elegant woman, if you are in full bloom, butterflies will come.