Mom Circle
Does the wrong child need to apologize? Absolutely.
1.This is to convey a correct value orientation to children. Parents represent authority in the eyes of their children, and what they do directly affects their children's cognitive and behavioral habits. The child who blames the mistake must apologize and send a message: everyone makes mistakes, it is not terrible to make mistakes, and the key is to deal with mistakes correctly.
In the future, when a child makes a mistake, he will not choose to lie or turn a blind eye, but take the initiative to admit the mistake and really correct it. This cultivates children's right view of right and wrong, and forms an upright and honest outlook on life when they grow up.
2.This is to establish an equal channel of communication with the child. If a parent refuses to communicate and apologize after blaming their child, thinking that the parent can do this and the child can understand, then it is a big mistake. What you are missing is a great opportunity to communicate effectively with your child and set an example in a positive way.
When you squat down and put down your body to communicate with your child and clear up misunderstandings, you will not let your child bury this matter in his heart (negative psychological hints will follow the child's life), say his true thoughts, and the child will learn to confide.
Chances are, you'll get a windfall. In the past, the things that your child was unwilling to communicate with you will be told to you, the things you want to know but can't, and the estrangement and contradictions between you may also be relieved in your equal dialogue. The parent-child relationship becomes harmonious, and the best parent-child relationship is the relationship that becomes a friend.
So, friends, don't stand tall in front of your children and communicate on an equal footing! Sometimes, it is even possible to deliberately create such an opportunity to apologize to open the child's heart and enter the child's heart.
What is the meaning of the existence of parents? It's not how rich the living conditions are, not how superior the material conditions, but when the child thinks of his parents at any time, he feels warm and full of strength in his heart, and he will not feel scared and lonely when he encounters anything, because there is a strong support from the family behind him!
I wish you all to become buddies and sisters with your children, so that the children will be psychologically rich and confident!