Prof. Qu Limin Monogamy is against human nature, and 95 percent of people get sick when they get married
Professor Qu Limin said in a recent interview that monogamy is a violation of human nature, and that this system forces people to be in a state of depression for a long time, which can easily lead to physical and mental health problems. Professor Qu believes that true happiness can only be achieved without suppressing oneself.
People's expectations of marriage are beautiful and profound, but in reality, marriage is often not as perfect as people think. Girls have been instilled from an early age to find a good man and then live a happy life, but girls who really enter marriage find that marriage is not a happiness that can be taken for granted, but a relationship that needs to be managed carefully.
I am also a girl and used to be full of expectations for marriage, but in my married life, I experienced many difficulties and pains. My husband and I met in college, loved each other, and we had a good relationship, so we chose to get married after graduation. In the beginning, we had a good life, we traveled, shopped, watched movies, and always showed the best of each other.
However, over time, I found that he had changed. He doesn't care about me as much as he used to, often working late into the night and not accompanying me on weekends. I tried to communicate with him, but he always answered my questions impatiently, which made me feel very lost.
I didn't dare to negotiate with him for fear that he would leave me, so I chose to remain silent, but that didn't improve our relationship.
As time went on, I became more and more negative. I became less and less confident about my appearance and kept thinking about how bad I was. I was always worried that he would leave me, which made me very emotionally unstable. I became more and more sensitive and often lost my temper for no apparent reason. He also became more and more aloof, and our relationship grew more and more estranged.
Eventually, we came to the end. My husband and I decided to divorce, and although the process was very painful, I think it was the best decision for both of us.
My past experience has made me deeply realize that marriage is not a happiness that can be taken for granted, but a relationship that needs to be managed. True happiness can only be achieved if both parties genuinely care about each other. Professor Qu Limin's remarks that monogamy is against human nature are actually justified, because everyone has their own inner world and needs to be understood and respected. If the marriage relationship does not meet these needs, it is difficult to have true happiness.
Therefore, I believe that before choosing a marriage partner, it is necessary to learn more about the other person's personality, interests, and habits, so as to better build a good relationship.