We come into the world to face life head-on, not to escape reality. Real life is a multi-flavored bottle, tasted, experienced, people will have no regrets. Everyone's life has its own trajectory. Don't envy other people's food and clothing, wealth and glory, you don't see their hard work. Don't envy others for their happiness and elegance, you don't know how much comfort they have sacrificed for this. The safety of the body is not as good as the peace of mind, and the width of the house is not as wide as the heart. Only by lowering one's desires to the lowest point can one sublimate one's realm to the highest point.
One must learn to be content, and those who are content, though coarse and vegetarian, are like being in heaven. Those who are not content, even if they are in heaven, are like hell. If life is confined to material desires, no matter how much he has, his spirit will be poor. The poverty of material life does not affect the fullness of the soul, and the contentment of the heart is the real wealth. A person has a peaceful temperament, his emotions are stable, and he has a mature bearing, so that he can tolerate all kinds of encounters in life, whether it is complex or simple, whether it is ups and downs, or human feelings, he can deal with it calmly.
Mentality is always the master of destiny. If you want to control your own destiny, you must first control your own mentality. If you can't control your mentality, your life will be unstable, and you will eventually be in the company of failure and success. If the heart is simple, the world will be simple, and happiness will always be with you. If your heart is relaxed, the world you live in will be sunny. When you are frustrated, you must look away, and when you are proud, you must look down, and only when you can put it down, can you afford it. Be more tolerant, be more generous, and all unpleasantness will turn into smoke.
Whether it is good times or bad times in life, the most important thing is to have your own affectionate and calm state of mind. Life can't be repeated, rather than for the sake of unworthy people and things, affecting the mood, and facing things sadly, it is better to accept it calmly, and take it as an opportunity and growth, which is the attitude and wisdom of life. At all times, we must be soberly aware that the act of seeking refuge and comfort from others is stupid and will only make you less and less confident, more and more dependent on others, and lose yourself.
Life is meant to be loved, so don't be sad all day long. People come to this world to suffer, so don't just want to chew the sweetness. The road of life is originally straight and curved, so don't think about being flat and flat. You must learn to be independent, to walk your own way, to abandon the influence of others on you, to face yourself, to face your life calmly, and to go your own way. Only in this way will the road of life become wider and wider, and the scenery of life will become more and more beautiful.
The world is complicated, the wind and clouds are always changeable, and it is really a rare happiness to be able to keep the clouds open and see the moon. Just because, the world is always too **, people's hearts are always too irritable, and it is a little difficult to want to follow your fate and not be arrogant or impatient. How many people, in the midst of complaining and indifference, live more and more mixed, and the more they live, the more they can't find a direction. How many people, in their desires and fame, become more and more confused and at a loss the more they live, and the more they live, the more addicted they are. In fact, you don't have to think so much about life, you can have a safe and healthy family, which is blessed.
Happiness is your own feeling, rely on yourself to create, never take others as a reference, others can't do you, he won't know whether the road you have traveled is smooth, and he won't know the bitterness and sweetness in your heart. Life is just a journey, you and I pass by each other, and then move forward separately. We all travel through the years and practice in life, and each of us has our own story. Play your part well and do what you have to do. Life can't be as good as you think, but it's not as bad as you think it is.
On the road of life, there are loud laughter and tears of grievance. There is the joy of success, and there is also the pain of failure. There are joyful gains, and there are helpless abandonments. There are life experiences, and there are lessons along the way. Only by living calmly can you walk the road under your feet, whether it is rugged or flat. Many things, endure the calm for a while, don't be more serious, don't compare, take a step back to open the sky. Give yourself a smile more, turn the old past into a glass of sake, and turn the bitter, spicy, sweet and sour into a kind of happiness.
The beauty of life comes from a normal heart. You don't have to be deliberately carved, just do things in a down-to-earth manner and be a simple person. Whether a person is happy or not only counts if he says it, and some people seem to be happy, but in fact they are very troubled. Some people seem to have a rough life, but they don't have extravagance in their hearts, and they feel quite content. Who doesn't want to live with relish, live happily and happily, and have an easy life. But the premise is that you must be able to afford it, let it go, be open-minded, and be indifferent to everything. When everything is let go and the heart is pure, it is natural to live a comfortable and peaceful life.
In this life, if the heart is calm, life will be safe. Time is fleeting, life is easy to grow old, no one can keep it, no one can stay. Whoever leaves this earth will still turn, and all these things, without anyone, are still just as vibrant. Life is short, don't practice yourself, don't miss the years. No matter how fresh and angry you have been, you will one day be dull. People live for a lifetime, it's not so complicated, it's just leaning on the building to listen to the wind and rain, and laughing at the flowers blooming and falling. Live a little more calmly, live a little more at ease, return the world to a clean place, and return a sense of peace in your heart.
Let go of your little belly, let go of your stubbornness, let go of your endless greed, be generous, do things rationally, and win the whole life. The breadth and narrowness of the mind determines the pattern of life, and the pattern of life determines the fate of one's life. If you can see and let go of everything, learn to forbear your temperament, and know how to restrain your desires, your world will be vast and far-reaching. More adaptation to fate, less comparison, life is like flowing water.