Everyone wants their ownLoveIt can last forever, but the reality is often more complex than we think. No matter how much affection we give, no matter how much of the only commitment we make, maybe one day,LoveIt will disappear, and the person we have loved will become a passerby in life. Women are considered to beEmotionDelicate animals, in the face of a failed relationship, they are usually more unforgettable than men. Even if she disconnects and closes herself, a woman still has that love in her heart. Someone once asked: "After the disconnection, how long will a woman forget the man she once loved the most?" Different people have different answers, so let's hear what a few people think about this issue.
Ms. Zhang has experienced an unforgettable experienceLoveand breakups. Now she is a mother of two children and knows her husband on a blind dateMarried for seven years。Many friends around me unfortunately lost the seven-year itch and chose to divorce. However, Ms. Zhang felt herMarriageFortunately, her husband treats her very well, takes care of the family and shares the housework, but she feels that life is too dull. When talking about the man she once loved, Ms. Zhang admitted that even after so many years, she still remembers him, but she no longer loves him. The two have not been in touch since the breakup, she has blocked all his *** and never looks for his traces. However, she could never forget him. Regarding this question, Ms. Zhang smiled and said that she may remember the man who once made her painful and happy, but it does not mean that she still loves him. It's because of that paragraphLoveThe memories are deeply seared in her heart and become a part of her past, and even if they no longer love each other, she will still remember.
Ms. Zhao experienced a period of freedomIn loveand engaged. She once thought that she would never love anyone else again, and gave her heart and soul to the man she loved the most. However, at some point the man began to distance himself from her and no longer cared about herEmotion。Ms. Zhao decided to talk to a man once, and the man told her that he didn't love her that much anymore. When she heard this, Ms. Zhao felt cold, she was still in love with him at that time, but she bravely said to the man: "Then let's separate, we can't be a couple, we can still be friends." Although she tried to face the breakup with a dashing attitude, she cried for a long time. After all, she had loved him dearly, and although she was now engaged, she felt that this love was unique and would never be seen again. After that, Ms. Zhao and the man did not meet again and did not contact each other again. Although they had agreed to be friends, after the breakup, they both tacitly chose not to contact each other again. Ms. Zhao gradually accepted this fact. She said that she would remember the joy and pain that man brought her for the rest of her life, even if the two never crossed paths again. For the person she once loved the most, Ms. Zhao believes that no matter what, that memory will always remain in her heart, no longer two people who love each other, but a part of the memory.
Whether it is Ms. Zhang or Ms. Zhao, they clearly realize that even if they are separated, even if a long time has passed, they will still remember the person they once loved the most. Although they no longer love each other, that deep memory still remains in the bottom of their hearts. It doesn't mean they want to keep in touch or rekindle old loves, it's just that they choose to keep an important experience in their lives to the bottom of their hearts. For the person they once loved the most, everyone will have a softness of heart, which is not to start over, but to keep that good memory.