In the current society, singleness is increasingly becoming a common state, and it seems normal for young people to be single, and even on the Internet, a bunch of people advertise that they are not married and are proud of being single. But back in the real world, in fact, many people will have such worries, they are over 30 years old, and they have not found a marriage partner, what should they do? Such pressure may come from parents and elders, or it may come from the state of peers. Many people are willing to think about this matter themselves, but because of some practical factors, they have been single. There are also people who yearn for a free life in their twenties, and when they reach a certain age, they feel that it is good to have someone to accompany them.
So for people who are still single after the age of 30, how should they deal with the matter of getting married and finding a partner?
First of all, you may still have to have a proper understanding of yourself, and in addition, you also need to have a general understanding of what kind of person you are looking for for your life. Many people look forward to love and hope that the right person will suddenly fall from the sky one day, but in the real world, such situations are not common. I think that even for something that is generally considered to be emotional, such as love, sometimes it needs to be treated more rationally. In some cases, you have to have a destination, you have to know where you are going, so that you can finally get the results you want. When we want to do something, we should also look at ourselves, of course, not because we have fatal flaws, but about how we can make ourselves better and attract the people we desire.
Secondly, the opinions of familiar people around you need to be referenced, but most of the time, you have to listen to your own heart, because no one can be responsible for you, and you are the only one who can be responsible for your own life. This is especially true when it comes to finding a marriage partner. We need to be humble enough to draw advice from the people around us, listen to their relevant opinions, and give you some kind advice. Sometimes, the authorities are confused, and the bystanders are clear, and maybe it is not impossible to think differently. After all, for ourselves, "the choice of a love object is a specific preference for one of the many people of the opposite sex who is familiar, an idealization of the value of that person." ”
Finally, don't be too anxious to find someone to make do with someone in order to have an object because of external factors such as age, in many cases, sometimes it seems to solve a temporary problem, but in fact, it falls into the trap of a lifetime. At the very least, we need to get to know each other well, especially to have a deep understanding of each other's personality, if we are hastily together, it will generally not end well. At this time, when looking for a partner to fall in love, you should consider the character of the other party. "When pursuing a love partner, you should think more specifically, because love means admiring the character of the other person. "If necessary, it is also necessary to carefully study and appreciate the way the sexes get along, because there is an essential difference between the thinking of men and women.
At every stage of life, there are things to do, at such an age, it is reasonable to consider these questions, maybe fate is destined for you to be alone, but at least you have experienced the beauty of love at that stage, to try whether there is a partner to live with will be better than living alone. In the current society, once a vicious event occurs, it will be widely spread, and many people recognize the dangers of marriage from various angles, but most people may still yearn for love. I have read a lot of books, and the love and marriage stories described in them have given me a concrete understanding of feelings and marriage, just like Shen Kuo and Yun Niang in the Six Tales of the Floating Life, and like the married life described in Pingru Begonia.
When people live, they should aspire to all that is good. The desire for love is a heartwarming thing in this world, regardless of age, and I hope that we will experience the most beautiful things in the best years.