In our village, there is a 98-year-old grandfather who is usually physically tough, always smiling, and always full of energy when chatting with his neighbors. However, on the night of the first day of the Lunar New Year, he passed away quietly, much to the shock and regret of the entire village.
The grandfather's death was so sudden that it was unbelievable. His children, three sons and two daughters, reacted surprisingly calmly when they heard the news. Instead of crying, they laughed and talked, as if none of this really touched their hearts.
According to our custom here, the old man is buried the day after he dies. The day before the funeral, the grandfather's children invited the troupe and sang in the courtyard. The drama is melodious, but it is difficult to hide the doubts and incomprehension in people's hearts. Why can they face it so calmly at such a sad moment, and even invite someone to sing to celebrate?
What's even more puzzling is that that night, they also set off fireworks for more than 20 minutes. Colorful fireworks bloom in the night sky, and the beauty is breathtaking. I heard that this fireworks show cost no less than 3,000 yuan, which is not a small amount for an ordinary rural family.
I really can't understand why the children of the old grandfather can behave so coldly and ruthlessly in the face of the death of their own father. Have they really forgotten the love and dedication that their father once gave them? Or do they feel that the death of their father is a relief that will free them from the responsibility and obligation of caring for the elderly?
Perhaps, everyone has their own way of grieving, and we have no right to interfere and judge. However, in my opinion, in the face of the death of a loved one, no matter how painful and reluctant the heart is, at least some sadness and condolences should be expressed. This is the most basic respect and remembrance for the deceased.
Perhaps, the children of the old grandfather also have unspeakable grief and reluctance in their hearts. It's just that they chose to face all this in a seemingly indifferent way, perhaps because they felt that this would make them look stronger and less vulnerable to being hit by the outside world.
However, I would like to say that no matter how we choose to face the death of a loved one, we should remember the love and care that the deceased once gave us. Although they have left this world, their spirit and love will always remain in our hearts. We should remember them with a grateful heart and let them shine forever in our memories.
Finally, may the old man rest in heaven in peace, and may his children be able to come out of their sorrows and start a new life as soon as possible. I also hope that we can cherish the people in front of us and warm each other's hearts with love and care.