The little girl stood at the door of the house, tears and cries filled the whole picture: "Mom, look at the surveillance, Mom, look at the surveillance!" She stared helplesslySecurity cameras, as if hoping to hear the mother's answer from it. However, no matter how she called, she did not get a response from her mother. The little girl felt helpless and hopeless, and she turned her hope to her good friend "Xiao Di", and kept calling "Xiao Di, Xiao Di!" "This cute little girl was carrying a heavy bag on her back and holding one tightly in her handBags。From this scene, it can be surmised that she is preparing to go to school. Maybe the mother hasn't rushed home because of something, so the child is worried about being late for school, so he can't help but face itSecurity camerasShouting "Mommy, Mommy." However, she couldn't call her mother and couldn't get a response from Xiaodi, so she could only helplessly turn to the cold monitor and cry: "Mom, Xiaodi doesn't respond to me!" "I couldn't hold back my tears and my heart was filled with love and sympathy. Seeing the situation of the little girl, I couldn't help but think of my own children.
Me and the child's dad forlifeEarning some pocket money, we set up a stall in front of the school every morning to make pancakes, so we left our son at home alone. Before we leave, we will make some food and keep it warm in the rice cooker, and when the child gets up, he will finish washing up and eat. However, I don't know if he eats well or not, because he never eats well and always has a bad appetite. After eating, he waited for me to come back with a heavy bag and take him to school. So every day after we finished making the pancakes, we would rush back and take the children to school. Many enthusiastic netizens also expressed their concern for thisLeft-behind childrenof care. Every morning, for people from ordinary families like us, we are very busy, busy raising our families, busy cooking for our families, busy sending our children to school. This also makes me more understand why young people are reluctant to have a second child, or not to have a second child, and since they choose to have a child, they want to give their children a better onelife
Left-behind childrenIt refers to a group of parents who entrust their children to others to take care of them due to heavy work or other reasons, and rarely spend time with their children at home. In China,Left-behind childrenhas become a ubiquitousSocialIssue. According to domestic reports, as of the end of 2019, my countryLeft-behind childrenThe number has exceeded 60 million. This is a huge number that suggests that countless families with children are experiencing the pain and loneliness of not being able to be close to their parents.
Left-behind childrenThere are many challenges and dilemmas. The first is psychological distress. Lack of parental companionshipLeft-behind childrenoften psychologicalLonelinessstronger, emotional development is stunted. In the process of growing up, it is difficult for them to obtain guidance and care from their parents, and they often face psychological problems such as low self-esteem, anxiety, and loneliness. The second is the educational challenge. Due to the long-term absence of parents,Left-behind childrenFrequent lack of timely and effective guidance in learning can easily affect academic performance. Again, it's a matter of physical and mental health. Due to the lack of parental supervision and care,Left-behind childrenofDietwithlifeHabits can be problematic and can easily lead to physical and mental health risks.
Parents are important supporters and guides for children's growth, and they should take responsibility for taking care of and accompanying their children. AlthoughlifeStress and financial conditions may have an impact on parents' choices, but the time and energy that parents spend close to and spend with their children should be indispensable. Parents should give their children enough care and support, whether it is during a critical period of their development, or when they are facing difficulties and problems.
In addition to parental responsibilities,SocialAll walks of life should also giveLeft-behind childrenMore attention and care. ** should be increasedLeft-behind childrenpolicy support andSocialguarantee, to provide them with more welfare and educational resources. Schools, Communities andSocialOrganizations can also actively carry out volunteer service activities for:Left-behind childrenProvide emotional support and psychological counselling. In addition, parents should also support and help each other to establishLeft-behind childrenThe family mutual support mechanism is concerned about the growth and development of children.
Left-behind childrenWhile facing difficulties, we must also learn to self-adjust and grow. There may be children who think that they are forgotten and lack a sense of belonging in the family. At this time, they can find themselves through various ways such as interacting with their peers, seeking help from outside resources, and cultivating their own interests and talentslifeMotivation and direction of development.
Whether it is the cry of the little girl or the situation of our children, it is heart-wrenching and worrying. As parents, we need to play the role of companion and guide to ensure that our children can grow up healthy. At the same time, we should also pay attentionSocialonLeft-behind childrenproblems and actively participate in actions to help them. Through individuals andSocialSo that every child can enjoy the love and companionship of their parents and live a happy and healthy childhood. May every child be able to have a family full of warmth and love.