As mentioned before, children who are grinding still make parents crazy, and today I will talk about children with "procrastination".
Procrastination is different from grinding, and it is not because of laziness, lazy and grinding children do not think about the good outcome, and they are slow to be at ease.
Children with procrastination know what they need to do, but they are reluctant to start. But he was anxious and rushed to complete the task at the last minute.
Procrastination", what's the problem?
If there is a 30-day vacation, he will play happily for the first 20 days and cry the rest of the time to write his homework.
He knew that this assignment had to be completed, but he always wanted to do it later, and he began to rush when the school start date.
There are many similar things, and the reason why children do this is not "disease", it is a psychological mechanism that people will have, and this is the case for both adults and children.
People like to do things that take a short time, don't risk the results, and make themselves happy and comfortable.
In the same way, I hate to do things that take a long time, the outcome is uncertain, and the process makes me very uncomfortable.
2 ways to let your child say goodbye to procrastination
1) Accepting procrastination will motivate you
When we see a child procrastinating, we don't deliberately emphasize that he should speed up and do it immediately, but follow his thinking, suggesting that he will do it in the end anyway, and he is not afraid of being late.
2) Everything is difficult at the beginning, and it is necessary to find a "breakthrough".
If you want to complete something, you first need to have a "beginning", but the beginning of everything is difficult, which is the main problem of procrastination children, and parents should help children find a breakthrough.
Let's take learning as an example, don't talk about the future and ideals with your child when he doesn't do his homework, just do today's things well.
Children have a lot of tasks on their bodies, and they want to complete each of them but are afraid that they can't do it well, and they don't know where to start, so they start with the most like, simplest, and shortest things.
In the same way, you can also divide a particularly difficult thing and break through from the places you are interested in and will do, and this confidence in success will lead the child to continue to do it.
The sooner parents guide their children to learn how to manage their time and adjust their own learning methods, the stronger their children's learning advantages will be.
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This set of 8 books is suitable for children in lower grades, and corresponds to key issues in children's learning, such as how to manage their time and how to complete homework easily.
Who stole my time" guides children to arrange their time reasonably and not to do "little procrastination".
This book can help children easily understand what going to school is all about.
Writing homework is no longer difficult for me" tells children that writing homework is actually very simple.
I'm not afraid of exams" tells children that by doing so, they can get good grades.
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Through humorous and imaginative stories, the book adds appropriate fairy tale colors to real life, and tells the story to the hearts of children.
While reading the story, the book also proposes many practical ways to teach children how to manage their time and how to better complete their homework ......
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