Introduction
As a parent, I really don't know if I can make a bowl of water even!
But in order to compete for property, brothers and sisters split their family ties and turned against each other, but there are many people who go to court!
In this money-oriented society, how should we weigh the relationship between money and family affection?
My neighbor, Uncle Ma, received 3.5 million yuan in compensation for demolition a few years agoThe two sons each shared 1.7 million, and as the second daughter who contributed the most to the family, she only received 100,000 yuanSince then, the family has been like a palace fight, which is extremely exciting!
Bang bang bang! "Open the door, open the door! If I don't open the door again, I'm going to smash it! ”
In the corridor, a middle-aged man knocked on the door vigorously, and a group of men, women and children in the corridor were watching, everyone whispered, occasionally pointing at the man, and no one came to persuade the man.
Yes, in this society, it is much safer to sit on the sidelines than to act chivalrous.
The man turned "hand knocking" into "kicking the door", and made a miracle with great force, and the door seemed to be about to be kicked down.
Kicking and shouting into the house:I know that you are at home, you have too no conscience, when my father left, I wanted to see you for the last time, you were ruthless, he died with hatred, now my mother is critically ill, not only do you not take a penny, now I just want to see you, you are so selfish, no conscience, are you still human?
The people in the stairs seemed to understand something, and someone began to whisper
No matter how much hatred there is, shouldn't you not see your parents for the last time?
Alas, it seems that raising a daughter is no longer insured.
This woman has no conscience, how can she not serve her parents?
But are things really as they hear and see?
The woman in the house paced back and forth in the room, letting the sound of knocking on the door outside sting her heart, liver, spleen and lungs, and the hand she originally wanted to open the door retracted.
Turning around and leaning her back against the door, she was not afraid of the man outside the door breaking in, but wanted to tell him: people's hearts are back, and we will never have anything to do with each other again. Just like when she was abandoned!
The sound of kicking the door outside the door is sometimes strong and sometimes weak, and the words are becoming more and more vicious.
The woman's tears were connected into a thread.
The grievances suffered over the years seem to have sprung up in front of the woman with tears.
The woman's name is Ma Lan, and she married into the city from the county seat more than 200 kilometers away.
Ma Lan has a total of three siblings, she is the second, with an older brother above and a younger brother below.
It stands to reason that such a status should be considered the happiest in any family, with a brother's love and a younger brother's distress, however, Ma Lan is almost a slave in the family for decades, but she has not gained a good reputation!
How do you say that?
Ma Lan's elder brother Ma Jian, because the family conditions at that time did not allow it, so he did not study much, and followed his parents to participate in labor very early, and when he was 16 years old, he went to work in other places with his fellow villagers in the village.
I don't know if it's bad luck, or if Ma Jian doesn't work hard enough, or if he's messing around outside, he has hardly saved money since he went outNot only did he not send a penny to his family, but he cried and asked his family for money many timesFor several years, I didn't even have the money to go home for the Chinese New Year.
Mourn its misfortune and be angry with it! Although Ma Laohan was very disappointed in this son, he was very distressed when he thought that the child would go to work with them at such a young age, not read any books, and suffered a lot.
So every time Ma Jian asks for money, he responds to his needs.
As the second eldest Ma Lan, although the conditions at home were not good at that time, after all, he had finished junior high school and was a bit of a literate person.
However, this is also inevitable from the fate of dropping out of school early to work.
I followed my relatives to work in a factory in the city more than 200 kilometers away.
Although the salary was only about 200 yuan at the beginning, she was able to send 180 yuan to her family, and she only kept ten or twenty yuan, as a parent, she was very satisfied.
When he met people, he boasted that he had raised a filial daughter.
Indeed, Ma Lan is very filial, she is reluctant to eat and wear, hardly uses cosmetics, and gives all the money to her family.
Part of the money is used for her younger brother to study, as Ma Lan only hopes that her brothers and sisters in the family will get better and better.
But unfortunately, his younger brother Ma Qiang had a serious illness when he was in high school and needed a lot of money to treat the disease.
Ma Laohan called the eldest Ma Jian**, hoping that he would raise some money for his younger brother Ma Qiang to treat the disease, but Ma Jian hung up directly and didn't pay a penny.
Ma Laohan pinned his hopes on his daughter Ma Lan, Ma Lan's mother cried every day and forced Ma Lan to get them money to treat his younger brother's illness, and in that year, a relative of the factory director fell in love with Ma Lan and launched a strong love onslaught on Ma Lan.
Although the young man is a talent, his intelligence can't keep up with ordinary people, and he is a little stupid. Don't look at Ma Lan as a rural migrant girl, but after all, she is a bit cultured, and her requirements for the other half are not low. Although the young man was very generous to Ma Lan and often bought her clothes, mobile phones, and cosmetics, Ma Lan refused.
Who knew that the news that Ma Lan's younger brother was sick and needed money urgently reached the young man's ears, so he found Ma Lan and said to herAs long as he marries him, he can take out 80,000 yuan to treat her brother!
Isn't this naked coercion and inducement?
Ma Lan decisively refused, but she immediately received the ** from the family, and there was a cry of her mother's death and life.
She blamed her, saying that she was born and raised so big, she was really a white-eyed wolf, and she might as well strangle her if she was born!
What vicious words, what vicious parents!
Ma Lan cried, crying sadly and helplessly!
She's just a weak woman, so why treat her like that?
"I didn't pick it up by you."Ma Lan angrily said the first retort to her mother in her life.
However, Ma Lan thinks about her parents who are facing the loess with their backs to the sky, thinking about her younger brother who is tormented by illness, and thinking about her brother who has achieved nothing, what else can she do?
And just like that, she made a decisionmarried this man she didn't like against her will, just for the 80,000 yuan life-saving money!
The younger brother's life was saved, but he was still too weak to do heavy physical work.
When Ma Lan got married, her mother's family did not have a banquet, and there were no relatives to send her, which she requested.
She was afraid that Zhang Luo would spend money on these things, and she was also afraid that relatives and friends would know that she was for money, so she married this man and was gossiped about.
Therefore, she was married by the man in the hotel.
Ma Lan is a kind girl in her bones, although she didn't love him at the beginning, she was wholeheartedly good to him, so she slowly had feelings, and her life was good.
And even after marriage, the money she earns from taking out work will be subsidized by the family on a regular basis, and her husband and parents-in-law are reasonable and do not support it, but they do not oppose it. Speaking of today, how many parents-in-law can accommodate such a daughter-in-law?
The change happened in 2009.
This year has been 7 years since Ma Lan got married.
Our town responds to the collective planning of post-disaster reconstruction, a road to pass through our town, the line just fell on Ma Laohan's house and a large field of land, according to the national compensation standard, he received 1.3 million yuan in compensation, they used the compensation to repair 6 3-story houses, just finished the main construction, the high-speed rail began to plan again, and occupied the house he just built, this time lost more than 350 yuan.
In those years, building highways, rebuilding after disasters, and building high-speed railways, many families' houses were demolished, built and demolished, and many people became millionaires in an instant.
Ma Laohan's family was one of the poorest in our village at the time, but this time it turned over.
3.5 million, this is not a small amount, what does Ma Laohan want so much money for? So I thought about giving the money to my children.
At this moment, the two sons started to think crookedly.
First of all, the eldest daughter-in-law took the second elder directly to the house, saying that the second elder would be supported by them in the future, and the younger son did not show weakness, but also took the second elder over, so the two brothers had a big fight, and it became a joke in the village.
But the brothers are in trouble, and there is a consensus that isThe sister who marries out of this money has no share.
As the saying goes, a married daughter spills water.
This makes Ma Laohan in a dilemma! When the eldest married his daughter-in-law, she gave 30,000 yuan to the family, and her younger brother gave 80,000 yuan for treatment, not counting the usual ones for the elderly and for the younger brother to study, so no matter what, the daughter Ma Lan cannot be excluded.
"100,000? Mom and Dad, I don't want any of the 100,000, and in the future, you should have no girl like me, and I don't have parents and brothers like you."Ma Lan didn't know how to say this rebellious sentence, but she was completely clear about her status in this family.
"100,000 is a lot, look at the daughter of the xxx family, she hasn't married yet, and when you split the family, you didn't even get a penny, are you content? ”The boss said with a smug face.
The third child also echoed: You gave me 80,000 for treatment at the beginning, and now the 100,000 yuan will be repaid to you, and the principal and interest will be returned to you.
The eldest daughter-in-law was silent, but the word greed on her face was about to fall to the ground.
"Since you say so, I am married, so now I will upgrade again, I will not be your biological child, nor will I be your sister or sister, so let's cut it in two."
After speaking, he took her husband's head and left without looking back.
Ma Laohan looked at the back of his daughter's departure, but only sighed, and did not hold back.
And today, Ma Lan still wants to use this back to show her attitude.
Since that slamming the door, Ma Lan has never returned to her parents' house again, and she is reunited with her husband and parents-in-law during the New Year's holidays.
To say that Ma Lan is not sad, it is false, but who can understand the taste of being abandoned by her family?
The year before the big up, Ma Lan's father had lung cancer, and it was found out that it was already in the advanced stage, so when he left, he asked his son to find Ma Lan back and wanted to meet her.
But Ma Lan refused to go home and refused to pick up **, Ma Laohan didn't have a chance to say sorry to his daughter when he was dying, maybe he didn't think about saying sorry to his daughter at all.
So what's the point of meeting?
A broken heart is like a crumpled white paper, even if it is restored, the creases are still there.
Last year, Ma Lan's mother was seriously ill again, and at the beginning of the eldest son's wife, she took care of her before and after bed, but after a few days, she became impatient, and went home without saying a word, and complained to Ma Jian when she went back:Didn't she raise you a son, as well as the second and third children, why should I take care of them alone?
Listen to the officials, when the money was first divided, no one admitted that Ma Lan was their sister and sister, and when they encountered difficulties today, they remembered Ma Lan, how can there be such a truth in the world?
And the second son's wife, who has to take care of her husband, and two young children, can't go to the hospital at all, and she is unwilling to go to the hospital to take care of her mother-in-law.
You can't watch the old man lying alone in a hospital bed! The eldest son went to the hospital to take care of him, but after all, he is a big man, and there are many things that remain the same.
In addition, his wife complained, and he also thought that it was time for his sister to do her filial piety, so he went to find his sister Ma Lan a hundred kilometers away.
So there is the scene at the beginning of the article.
The scenes of the past are like a movie, floating in front of Ma Lan's eyes!
Indeed, as children, they should be filial to their parents and not worry about their parents, brothers and sisters.
But Ma Lan felt that when the family was in difficulty, she worked as a cow and a horse for the family, and supported the family under pressure after becoming a family.
But in the face of the distribution of interests, why did she become an outsiderShe couldn't figure it out. I don't think netizens and friends can figure it out.
In Ma Lan's heart, even if she really divided the 3.5 million equally, she would not really ask for more than 1 million, and would leave more for her brother and brother.
However, it is her duty, not her affection; But why do parents have one big eye and one small eye?
In the end, Ma Lan did not go back before her mother's death, on the day her mother died, she bought a wreath, and when it came to the moment of burial, she did not shed a single tear.
She said that her tears were all over the moment she was abandoned!
One thing to say, no matter how virtuous a parent is, it is impossible for them to treat their children evenly.
But at the very least, you have to do what you want.
As far as this matter is concerned, isn't it proper to treat your daughter as a begging for food? I even think that some people really don't qualify to be parents!
Maybe only time can dilute the pain in Ma Lan's heart