Birth, old age, sickness and death are a normal state of life, which is an understatement, but when these things really come to them, how many people can really be calm and accept them calmly? Let's take a look at **:
A father died in Yunnan, and his mother was also seriously ill, but the whole family hid from her mother, afraid that she would not be able to stand it, but her mother was in the wardA move made people feel distressed, and her daughter burst into tears behind her!
In a hospital in Yunnan, a sad scene is being staged.
My mother is seriously ill, and her body is getting worse day by day, but at this time,My father was also hospitalized and passed away.
As a daughter, she faces a difficult choice:What should I do, continue to hide it, or let Mom see Dad one last time!
As the saying goes, young couples are old companions!
If the relationship between a young couple is compared to the upper reaches of a river, a waterfall or a rapids, at that time, we always pursued that relationship with great determination and courage, and this determination and courage made our feelings burn in full swing.
And the emotions of elderly couples are like the lower reaches of a river, broad and calm, going through the ups and downs of life, from the top of the mountain, the world of vision, wide enough to swallow all the people who challenge, but their feelings have been enhanced. They don't get excited so easily, they don't give up easily, they just want each other to be happy and happy every day.
The sudden death of the father caught everyone off guard, and the simple mother asked her daughter which ward her father was in?
The daughter couldn't bear to tell her mother about this cruel result, and seeing that her daughter was silent, her mother walked out of the ward alone and searched for it in the corridor one by one, hoping to see the familiar figure!
This sincere feeling is like a silent language, quietly and powerfully conveying the deep love and longing between relatives.
With the search of one ward after another, the father was not found, and combined with the attitude of the daughter, the mother may already know something in her heart at this time!
Her daughter persuaded her to go back first, but she still didn't want to give up and still searched for them one by one!
In this paragraph**, silence and pain are vividly rendered, every change of lens makes everyone feel shocked, and every detail makes people involuntarily empathize, this feeling, whenever the mother reveals her miss for her father in **, or when she suppresses tears, it makes us heartbroken.
The most touching thing is this strong mother, she has always refused to give up the pursuit and expectation of her wife, even in the face of great difficulties, she still sticks to her faith and persistence in love, this sincerity and perseverance, people are shocked.
Some people think that a daughter should not hide it from her mother because it is too cruel for her; Others think that the mother had already guessed the truth from her expression.
Either way, we have to remember that on the road of life, there will always be someone who will take the first step, and the one who remains will face life's challenges alone. At this time, all we can do is be there for them and give them strength and support.
It is a cruel fact that the father is gone, but the family has been hiding this information, making the mother think that the father is still there.
Perhaps, for this mother, who is suffering from illness, this well-intentioned deception can be regarded as a good medicine for the soul to some extent, right?
For us, we can often see the elderly people with gray hair, but still holding hands, carefully strolling through the streets, parks and squares.
Even if one person is in a wheelchair, the other person does not hesitate to push forward. Every picture is so warm and so beautiful. Their faces were filled with happy smiles, enjoying the quiet and peaceful rhythm of life.
This may be the best explanation for "young couples and old companions", which is also the most dazzling scenery in our lives!
The daughter said to her father:Send you the last journey, there is no long day to come, there is no longer you for the rest of your life, and then no one should call your father, since then the yin and yang are separated, you sleep forever, your daughter has a long thought, you go all the way, may there be no illness in heaven, - there is no return date, see you in this dream!
Personally, I think that the old man has spent dozens of spring and autumn together, none of them are all the way, there is always one in front, you can't let your mother leave regrets, hide it for a while, one day he will know, when he is more anxious, do a good job of ideological work, let him see the last side!
In fact, it's not that the daughter doesn't want her mother to see her father for the last time, she also knows that this kind of thing can't be hidden, but now that her mother is also seriously ill, she is afraid, afraid that her mother will not be able to bear it and fall ill again, she is simply for the sake of her mother's body, and in the end, she told her mother after thinking about it again and again.
The mother seemed to have a premonition, and when she heard the news, there was not much fluctuation, but she became more silent!
What is the logic of this thinking? If you can hide it for a while, can you hide it for a lifetime? When he knew, he couldn't even see the last side, and you think about that kind of real pain and hatred!
I feel that I should tell her, because of decades of husband and wife, wait for her to see the last side, otherwise everyone will regret it!
It's better to tell your mother the truth, or he will blame you for the rest of your life, no matter who you are, you will never go together, you always have to go one first and then another, but you don't know how to walk, you don't know when to go, or ask your mother to see your father's last face, and your mother's heart will be steady.
This is a kind lie, no matter what the outcome is, you have to tell her slowly.
Facts are facts, you should let your mother know, if you don't let her see the last side, she will have a nervous breakdown when she knows it later, and it will be unforgettable! Although everyone has this result when they are old, the two old people have been with each other for a lifetime, let her meet each other for the last time, and then she will be able to talk to your father if she owes her, and the beauty will follow her path!
Life is always full of uncertainties. Whether they are young or old, they will face inevitable difficulties in life, such as the loss of family affection. Everyone comes into the world alone, but there are always some people who are your closest people in this life, and who are your most solid backing on long journeys.
They are your family and your closest people, and when you are full of enthusiasm to the front, there is always a warm lamp for you to illuminate. Just like the mother looking for her husband in the hospital corridor, her figure is so lonely, but so strong, it gives us endless touching and emotion!
Looking at this paragraph, many people were touched, some shed tears, some sighed, some laughed, and some grieved. This is the true portrayal of life, no matter how many hardships and twists and turns there are in life, we will try to overcome them.
I want to remind everyone that life is short, and there is more to get together and leave more. When your parents are alive, spend as much time with them as possible, just like that young girl, even if you lose your father, you must continue to protect your mother and not let her feel lonely and lonely.