Yang GuowithLittle Dragon GirlThe reason why their love is so touching is mainly due to their tragic encounter. First of all, they all come from extremely poor backgrounds. Both areOrphans, there are no relatives to rely on. Their lonely and helpless childhood makes them even more helpless in the vast sea of people, and the two lonely figures arouse the reader's sympathy. Not only that, but both of them have experienced extremely unfortunate experiences, which is heart-wrenching. Yang GuoSince he was a child, he has been bullied by Guo Fu and Xiaowu,Huang RongThe suspicion of him hurt him even more. Eventually, he even lost an arm. WhileLittle Dragon GirlEven more pitiful, she has no relatives since she was a child and lives alone in an ancient tomb. To make matters worse, she was also defiled by Yin Zhiping. These unfortunate encounters make their love even more bumpy and poignant, making readers unable to help but feel heartache and regret for their fate.
However, precisely becauseYang GuowithLittle Dragon GirlAs a tragic fate, their love was met with strong opposition from the world.
In ".The Condor Heroes",Guo JingwithHuang RongForYang GuoMarryLittle Dragon Girlthings are firmly opposed. On the surface, this may seem to contradict their own love experiences, but it is precisely because they themselves have experienced worldly opposition that they are all the more intolerableYang GuowithLittle Dragon Girlof love.
Recalling ".Legend of the Condor HeroesWe can see thatJin YongThe Guo and Yang families were originally like-minded. After both families were chivalrous, they could have become worldly friends. However, due to the appearance of Wanyan Honglie, the two families parted ways. 《The Condor HeroesYesJin Yonghopes that the two Guo and Yang families can be reconciled and reconciled. This is tooGuo JingwithHuang RongThe biggest pain and regret in my heart. In their hearts, they want to passYang GuowithLittle Dragon Girl's marriage to make up for the regrets of Guo Yang's two families, re-close the relationship between each other, and erase the pastYang KangThe estrangement and misunderstanding of the family. The Guo family owes the Yang family too much, so they hopeYang GuoAble to marryLittle Dragon Girland treat her as his own daughter.
However,Yang GuowithLittle Dragon GirlIn the end, it didn't come togetherLittle Dragon GirlRefusedGuo JingwillYang GuoAn offer to marry her. This scene letGuo JingwithHuang Rong's hearts are extremely painful, and their wishes cannot be realized.
WhyGuo JingwithHuang RongForYang GuoMarryLittle Dragon GirlThings would be so opposed? In addition to the above-mentioned wish for reconciliation between Guo and Yang's families, there are some other reasons.
First of all,Guo JingwithHuang RongAsYang Guo** and friends, they know wellYang GuowithLittle Dragon GirlThere is a huge generation gap and identity inequality between them. Yang GuoIt's a martial arts genius, whileLittle Dragon GirlThey are orphan girls who live deep in ancient tombs, and their experiences and values are very different. From this point of view, Guo and Huang may be worriedYang GuowithLittle Dragon GirlThere will be contradictions and conflicts for various reasons.
Secondly, it is influenced by one's own experienceGuo JingwithHuang RongForFamilyThe sense of importance and responsibility is very strong. They know itFamilyThe honor and disgrace are related to the wholeFamilyThe fate. Therefore, they cannot accept itYang GuowithLittle Dragon GirlThe two are only for personal love and happinessFamilyRegardless of the honor and disgrace. This is also an important reason for their opposition.
Finally,Guo JingwithHuang RongHe has his own views on the relationship between men and women. In their eyes, the relationship between husband and wife should be equal and balanced, whileYang GuowithLittle Dragon GirlDifferences in identity, as well as misunderstandings and ruptures between them, do not guarantee this equality and equilibrium. Maybe Guo and Huang are worriedYang GuowithLittle Dragon GirlLove can evolve into an unhealthy relationship of dependence, and may even be harmfulYang Guolife stability and growth.
In summary,Guo JingwithHuang RongResolutely opposedYang GuoMarryLittle Dragon GirlThe main reason is that they want to passYang GuowithLittle Dragon Girl's marriage to make up for the regrets of Guo Yang's two families, re-close the relationship between each other, and erase the pastYang KangThe estrangement and misunderstanding of the family. In addition, they also took into accountYang GuowithLittle Dragon GirlThe difference in identityFamilyresponsibilities and equality and health in relations between men and women. Although their wishes could not be fulfilled in the end, their persistence also reflected their dedicationFamilyand the importance of interpersonal relationships. It also allows us to think and reflect on ourselvesFamilyand the attitude of love and how to maintain balance and justice in different roles and relationships.