I don't know if this analogy is appropriate, but they all say that the family of origin is very important, and all three are indispensable.
Whether the child has a future or not, the family is more important than the school, and it is the first school.
I have to say that today's children have too strong imitation ability, your words and deeds will be imitated directly, the eldest in the family has not been around for a long time since childhood, basically the grandmother has brought a lot, the second child has been with me since childhood, more sticky to me, from learning to walk and speak to the current kindergarten middle class, it is really important to feel the influence of the adult's personal teaching and family.
What words you usually say, what mantras, even if you say them once or twice, he will learn to say them.
If you have any habits in your life and what actions you usually take, he will imitate them.
Your temper will be directly transmitted to your child, whether his emotional stability is completely affected by adults, and whether he has a sense of security in his heart is also influenced by the family.
Children's curiosity, strong desire to explore, too many why, this is a time to test patience, between erasure and positive stimulation of a thought, too important.
So a family should do it:
Dad: As the pillar of the family, the masculine side of a man, with a calm and responsible personality, loves his mother.
Mother: The child has the most contact, shows strong maternal love, is emotionally stable, cheerful and patient.
The child grows up in a harmonious, warm, and mutual favorite family environment, so that he has a sense of security, and has a positive guide to his inner shaping, the family is the first place for the child to understand the world, and the first place for the child to enter the society, the family is not strong, and the child will not be strong when he walks out of the family.
Children have a sound, sunny, positive heart this is in the family learning, kindergarten period, the germ of family influence has taken root in the child's heart, now kindergarten is the growth stage of enlightenment education, more play, trusteeship. and the family's shaping and influence on children are two parallel lines, two categories of aspects.
Nowadays, many students are depressed and autistic, which has a lot to do with their psychological construction since childhood.
The family determines whether the child is physically and mentally healthy and promising, and the school determines whether the child is successful.
Home is the hardware, and the school is the software.