CCTV's hit drama "Flowers" recently came to an end, this TV series set in Shanghai tells the story of the poor boy Ah Bao who finally changed his fate in the ups and downs of the business sea and emotional entanglements. At the end of the play, Ah Bao and his noble uncle, confidante Miss Wang, Lingzi, Li Li and others each found their own belonging in life in the tide of the times. The audience sighed that "Flowers" profoundly depicts how the master of the game grasps human nature, as well as the way of life contained in it, and marks the society with a brand of sophistication. The image of the protagonist Ah Bao is particularly eye-catching, he operates with love and righteousness, and is loved by netizens. Many viewers said that falling in love with Po is as simple as breathing. Out of affection for Commander Cai, he did not hesitate to carry the black cauldron;In order to help Miss Wang be promoted, she will make every effort to expand her foreign trade business;In order to thank Reiko for her help, she helped her realize her dream of opening a store;In order to thank Li Li for the reminder, he generously extended a helping hand ......Ah Bao rises and lives for love and righteousness. Even his uncle said that he was a person who was bound by affection. He did not owe anyone else in his life, so he always had a helping hand from many noble people when he needed it. In 1988, an outbreak of hepatitis A broke out in Shanghai, making it difficult to find Banlangen for a while. Po was also admitted to the hospital, where he helped many people with a bag of banlangen.
One of the recipients is Yamamoto from Japan. When he was discharged from the hospital, Yamamoto handed Po a business card and promised to go to him in the future if he was in trouble. Sure enough, when Bao ran into trouble in foreign trade business, Yamamoto did not hesitate to lend a hand after learning about it, helping Bao get the first funds in his career, making him become the president of Bao. Through the vivid portrayal of the character of Bao, this drama profoundly interprets the subtleties of human feelings. Po touched the audience with his kindness and sincerity, and also set an intriguing example for us in society. In real life, we may also be able to learn some ways of life from Po. May we all manage with affection and righteousness, and touch others with kindness and sincerity, so that the world will be a better place. In real life, people often give up their character, affection and humanity in pursuit of success and profit, and end up in a situation of isolation and helplessness. The ancients said: "Eli fellowship, and profit is scattered;Fellowship with righteousness, the earth lasts forever. That is to say, the relationship between people is mutual. For those friends who are willing to support you in your predicament, we must maintain and manage with sincerity and righteousness.
Only a relationship based on sincerity and mutual assistance can withstand the test of time and the tempering of difficulties. When you hit the bottom line, these genuine friendships will turn into a powerful force to support you to get back on your feet. The same is true in the business world. The British writer Charles Buxton once said, "Life is a chess game, and the one who thinks well wins." "As the proprietress of Zhizhenyuan, Li Li is proficient in business wisdom, she is witty and sleek, and she is well versed in strategy. When she first arrived at Huanghe Road, she immediately set out to investigate the affairs of the place and lay the foundation for her own business. In the early days of opening, she focused on Mr. Bao, the most talked-about person, and used Mr. Bao's fame to attract customers. Later, when Mr. Bao began to launch Sanyang brand T-shirts, a number of high-quality imitations quickly emerged on the market. When Li Li learned of this, he quickly informed Mr. Bao and offered him help. With her superb management skills and strong network resources, Li Li quickly built Zhizhenyuan into a top hotel on the Yellow River Road. However, as Mr. Bao said, the tree is a big move. As Zhizhenyuan's business became more and more prosperous, the other hotel proprietors led by Lu Meilin became more and more jealous.
Together, they took the three-plank axe that they had been using in the past: power outages, stock outages, and robbing the cook, trying to use these old-fashioned methods to defeat Zhimaen. However, Li Li relied on his deep friendship with Mr. Bao and successfully invited a Hong Kong celebrity chef to solve the current crisis. It seems that Lu Meilin can't accept defeat, so she hires her mistress Du Honggen to sabotage Zhizhenyuan's business. However, Li Li once again calmly took out an envelope with Du Honggen's handle, causing Du Honggen to flee in a hurry. In the end, Lu Meilin and other bosses were defeated, but Li Li's business became more and more prosperous. It can be seen that those who achieve great things must have strategy. The above story tells us that both interpersonal relationships and business competition require strategy and wisdom. In interpersonal communication, we should cherish those friends who are willing to support us, and maintain these friendships with sincerity and righteousness. In business competition, we need to be good at using wisdom and strategy to achieve ultimate success. Finally, I would like to ask a question, which do you think is more important in real life, strategy or truth?Why?
Feel free to leave a comment to share your views and thoughts!In the chess game of life, only those who have a foresight and consider the future can be the ones who are in control. Those who only know the courage of the puppet are destined to be defeated and easily handled by others. The way in which the weak are dealt with is also very important when dealing with relationships. Whether at work or in life, we may encounter weak people. For the weak, we should not bully, but co-opt. Because of respect for the weak, we can not only shorten the distance between each other, but also gain the trust and gratitude of the weak, so as to win more opportunities for cooperation. In "Flowers", Min Min and Xiao Jiangxi are both low-level workers. They were all waitresses, and at first they were ordinary employees. However, their fate has taken a different direction because of their attitude towards the weak. Min Min made a mistake because she wanted to make more extra money, but after being known by the boss lady, she was promoted by the foreman. The proprietress Li Li not only did not dismiss her, but also reminded her: If you want to make a lot of money, you mainly rely on your brains, not unbuttons. This respect made Minmin grateful to Li Li and more attentive to her work.
And when Li Li was taken to investigate by the police station, the foreman Minmin and the manager held on until Li Li came back in order to stabilize the scene. This kind of respect and care for the weak makes Minmin do better, and also unites the employees of Zhizhenyuan. On the contrary, Xiao Jiangxi, who worked as a foreman at the Jin Meilin Hotel, had a much more miserable life. Because the proprietress Lu Meilin only recognizes business and does not recognize people, she scolds the foreman Xiao Jiangxi. In such an environment, Xiao Jiangxi's heart also began to distort, and even intervened in Lu Meilin's family in order to fight back, and her family was shattered. It can be seen that the attitude of respecting the weak has a very large impact on interpersonal relationships and personal destiny. For the weak, you can't attack them with the weakness of the weak, and you can't suppress them with your own advantages, but you must use respect to win them over. A true wisdom is not to look up to the strong, but to respect the weak. Don't humiliate people because they're weak, and don't humiliate people because they're noble. If we want to succeed in relationships, we need to learn to respect the weak and build good relationships. Because it is only on the basis of respect that we can build a relationship of mutual trust and cooperation, so that we can walk more easily and comfortably in the journey of life.
In conclusion, it is very important to respect the weak, no matter what the field. We need to learn to use respect to win over the weak, so as to build better relationships. Only when we learn to respect the weak can we walk more freely and easily in the journey of life. Finally, we might as well think about it: in our life or work, have we respected every weak person?Putting other people's self-esteem first is leaving a way back for your own life. Because when you need help one day, the respect and kindness you give to others will be redoubled back to yourself. In life, we will inevitably meet some people who are not right-minded and narrow-minded. When confronted with such people, our first instinct may be to turn the other cheek or fight back. However, such an approach will only lead you into endless fighting. If you haven't found a good way to deal with it, you might as well refer to your uncle's handling methods. In the TV series "Flowers", there is a character named Mei Ping, who likes to cause trouble behind her back and maliciously slander others. She and Miss Wang work at 27 on the Bund, and on the surface, they are also good friends.
However, when Miss Wang was about to be promoted to section chief, Mei Ping was driven by jealousy and sued Miss Wang behind her back. Her report directly caused Miss Wang's career to suffer a heavy blow, not only losing her position as section chief, but also being forced to be transferred to the factory to move goods. Mei Ping took over Miss Wang's work as a natural result, including cooperation with Mr. Bao and her uncle. However, Mr. Bao was very unkind to Mei Ping and directly refused to cooperate with her. The difference is that Uncle is as clear as a mirror in his heart, but he did not take tough measures like Mr. Bao, but gave Mei Ping enough face. He first said that his vision is never wrong, and he believes that Mei Ping will be able to become a section chief in the future. Later, he gave her some advice, telling her to dress well and show ownership in the unit. Mei Ping benefited a lot from these words, and she began to believe that she was indeed suitable to become the next section chief. As a result, she began to dress more and more noticeably, and she did things more and more out of line. Even, she also used the export indicators in her hands to get into a stalemate with old customers. However, these stupid behaviors of hers were intolerable to her superiors, which eventually led to her losing her position as section chief forever. As the ancients said, "If you want it to perish, you must first make it mad."
The most clever way to deal with the villain is not to resist, but to hold it in the palm of your hand. Through the observation of my uncle, we can draw some enlightenment. First of all, we should learn to give the villain enough face to make them feel valued. Second, we can deal with their malicious behavior through praise and encouragement. Just as my uncle suggested Mei Ping, we can use praise to deal with the villain's attack. Of course, this does not mean that we should indulge the evil deeds of villains. We can influence them with respect and kindness to make them see their mistakes and change their behavior. After all, everyone has the potential to change and grow. In short, the best way to deal with villains is not to confront them, but to resolve conflicts with kindness and respect. Through our kindness and respect, we may be able to arouse the conscience in the hearts of the villains, so that they can realize their mistakes and correct them. At the same time, we are also able to maintain our dignity and self-esteem and not be hurt by the attacks of villains. Finally, I would like to ask the question, how do you choose to deal with villains?Are you willing to influence them with kindness and respect, or do you have other ways to deal with it?Feel free to leave a comment to share your views and experiences.
In the case of extreme self-aggrandizement, people will lose the ability to clearly understand themselves and the world. If this person loses his mind, you can easily lead him to destruction without much effort. Some people think that we are in a prosperous situation, but not everyone can become a successful person like Mr. Bao. Because there is a gap between the successful and the ordinary people. However, I prefer the opening sentence of "Flowers": "God doesn't make a sound, it's all up to me." In Shanghainese, "silent" means silent. In fact, God never takes a stand, and our fate is always up to us. As long as we have insight into the laws of human nature, we can become masters, gain insight into the subtleties, grasp the overall situation, and move towards our own prosperous life. If you agree with this view, please give it a thumbs up and encourage it with your friends. Everyone has their own limitations, and once you are overly self-aggrandized, you will lose the ability to know yourself and the world, and you will embark on a path of no return. The gap between successful people and ordinary people lies in the ability to control human nature. We need to gain insight into the laws of human nature, so as to become masters, grasp the key points in life, and get out of our prosperous life. Looking back at this article, we find that God never takes a stand, and our fate is entirely up to us.
Therefore, we need to think carefully about our life choices, keep working hard, and keep growing in order to be able to stand in this bustling world. Finally, I would like to ask a question, what do you think determines a person's life choice?Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments section.