There is an old Chinese saying that a loving mother loses her son.
It refers to the fact that the mother is too kind, easy to spoil her children, and often spoils her children.
Again, if in a family.
Fathers also only spoil their children when they discipline them.
It is very difficult for children to become talents.
In Zhulou Village, Guocun Town, Hezeshan County, Shandong, a coat brother came out.
Brother Dayi's original name was Zhu Zhiwen.
Originally, he was an ordinary farmer in Zhulou Village.
By chance.
He participated in the local talent show in Heze.
With the song "Rolling Yangtze River East Passing Water", it became popular all over the country.
It is said that he has hundreds of performances every year.
The performance fee ranges from tens of thousands of yuan to hundreds of thousands.
In the first year of fame, he deposited 16 million in the bank.
Dad became a grassroots singer loved by people all over the country.
The future of Zhu Xiaowei and Zhu Xuemei is immeasurable.
As long as Brother Dayi arranges it carefully for them.
For example, go to school for further study.
For example, opening a store to do business.
For example, being an assistant by your side.
You can live a much better life than other rural children.
But more than 10 years later.
All we see in these siblings is fat and ignorance.
Especially Brother Dayi's son Zhu Xiaowei.
He is only in his early 20s, but he has already been married twice.
The first marriage lasted less than a year and ended with the woman's dislike of the man.
The second marriage lasted more than a year.
Although there is no divorce scandal at present.
But the woman's belly never bulged.
Why is the woman's pregnancy emphasized?
There are two reasons for this. First, in rural areas, children are born in the first year of marriage.
Because up to now, rural people still adhere to the order of starting a family and starting a business.
It seems that with children, the marriage can be stable and the career can be developed.
Second, Brother Dayi is eager to be a grandfather sooner.
Judging from Zhu Xiaowei's comprehensive strength.
Let him surpass his father.
Apparently impossible.
He is introverted, converses with people a lot, and has a limited level of education.
Instead of wasting energy on your career.
It is better to have children early and raise the next generation.
Chen Meng, that is, Zhu Xiaowei's second wife.
Why don't you delay having children?
In fact, her thoughts are the same as Chen Yanan (Zhu Xiaowei's first wife).
I hope that my husband can grow up and be independent.
The result of having a child rashly is not that the mother is expensive for the child.
Rather, it is reduced to a tool for procreation.
From this point of view.
Today's Zhu Xiaowei has not yet become the "man" in her heart
Why can't Zhu Xiaowei grow up?
Just because of low education and introverted personality?
Apparently not! This can be seen from the strange tutoring of Brother Dayi and his wife!
First of all, Brother Coat.
After Zhu Xiaowei and Chen Yanan separated.
Brother Dayi took his son to the city to buy clothes.
A young man in his early twenties.
Economic independence is long overdue.
The reality is: from picking clothes to paying, and then to going to the barber shop to get a haircut.
It's all coat brothers.
He's like a teenager.
The second is the coat sister-in-law.
Approaching the end of the year, Zhu Xiaowei went home for the New Year.
When visiting relatives, the coat sister-in-law prepared a sack of walnuts.
As a son, Zhu Xiaowei, who is more than 180 tall and has a strong physique.
The sack should have been snatched from mom's hand.
The result? Mom was doing it the whole time, and he was like an outsider.
As can be seen from this detail:
's mother didn't treat Zhu Xiaowei as an adult either, and she didn't want him to suffer.
The children of the poor are in charge of the family at an early age.
There is truth to this statement.
Because children from poor families know how to be independent and feel more sorry for adults.
Brother Dayi is rich, and Sister-in-law Dayi is also a local Internet celebrity in Shandong.
But they don't know how to educate their children.
Go on at the current pace.
Chen Meng and Zhu Xiaowei's marriage will not last long.