The Lantern Festival has passed, and this year is over. However, the topic of the Spring Festival Gala has been frequently mentioned, especially about the host of the Spring Festival Gala. Speaking of the host of the Spring Festival Gala, we have to mention the "CCTV celebrity" Li Yong. He is the memory of a generation, and it is the pain that his wife Harvin can't let go. 
Now, Li Yong has been dead for five years. And in the past five years, Harvin still regards his in-laws as his biological parents. Send gifts every three or five times, and take the children to go thousands of miles during the New Year's holidays, just to do their filial piety for their husbands in front of their in-laws. But what few people know is that the combination of Harvin and Li Yong was a proper "marriage", and the parents of both families were not optimistic about this relationship. All of this has to start with Harvin's background. 01 Love at first sight Ha Wen is a Hui who was born in Qingtongxia City, Ningxia Hui Autonomous Region in 1969. His father, Ha Jinjie, was an old revolutionary, who successively served as the secretary of the county party committee of Longde County, Ningxia, and the deputy secretary general of the General Office of the Autonomous Region. Such a family background makes Harvin's starting line much higher than others. Under the careful nurturing of his parents, Harvin has excellent grades and versatile since he was a child, and he is a popular figure in the school. At the same time, her father was also very strict with Harvin, and repeatedly forbade her to fall in love during college. However, a good girl who has always been obedient to her father's words and plans, not long after she arrived at the Communication University of China, she was captured by the versatile Li Yong. 
Li Yong, a native of Xinjiang, is one year older than Ha Wen, born into an ordinary working family, and has two older sisters, he is the only boy. His father's only request to him was to find a girlfriend as soon as he went to college. At the beginning, Li Yong dressed as an "art student" from beginning to end: he carried a sketchpad on his back every day to go alone, coupled with his long Beethoven-like hair and high-nosed and deep-eyed appearance, many girls had a good impression of him. However, before they could take action, Li Yong had already launched a passionate pursuit of Harvin. They met in a public class, and just a glimpse, Ha Wen took root in Li Yong's heart. From then on, he often secretly painted her portraits in class, and then handed them to her when the teacher turned around to write the book. Harvin blamed Li Yong for disturbing her class, and rolled his eyes impatiently at him, but couldn't help but raise the corners of his mouth. Li Yong understood that there was a play, so he launched a more fierce pursuit of Harvin. Haven is a Hui people, the first year of Christmas, everyone got together to make dumplings, in order to take care of Haven's customs, Li Yong deliberately ran a few streets and bought mutton filling. He once disguised himself as a ** and went to the girls' dormitory to celebrate Harvin's birthday. The fierce girl was afraid of being entangled, and Harvin finally accepted Li Yong, and the two became an enviable campus couple. 
In the Spring Festival of 1989, Li Yong and Ha Wen went to Yinchuan to "meet their parents". Harvin's father was worried that Li Yong wanted to climb the high branches like those poor boys with ill intentions. learned that Li Yong was a monkey, so he found a reason for "the chicken monkey is not the head", and asked Ha Wen to break up with Li Yong quickly. And Li Yong has a secret to please Harvin's family**, he can speak well, and he is very diligent, and he quickly won the favor of Haven's grandmother. After going back and forth, Ha Jinjie also slowly accepted Li Yong. But who would have thought that a wave of unsettled waves would rise again and again. Li Yong's parents also did not agree with Li Yong to find a rich lady. They felt that their own conditions were not good, and they were worried that Li Yong would suffer in the future. Ha Wen followed Li Yong to Xinjiang to meet her prospective in-laws, had a long talk with them, and said that as long as Li Yong did not leave her, she would never leave Li Yong. And Li Yong's sisters, through observation, found that Harvin was not as squeamish as they imagined, so they did their parents' work. In the end, both Ha Wen and Li Yong passed the test of both parents. 02 After Qin Se and Ming's husband and wife passed the test of their father-in-law, mother-in-law, parents-in-law, and mother-in-law, Li Yong and Ha Wen's relationship was rushed to get married. In 1991, Li Yong, who was still in his senior year, got the opportunity to intern at ** TV station and got a job as a CCTV announcer, while Ha Wen accepted the olive branch thrown by Tianjin TV station. After graduation, they faced separation, but this did not affect their relationship, but prompted them to enter into marriage as soon as possible. 
In 1992, Li Yong, who had just graduated, and Harvin got married. Because they had no money, the house they rented was only 11 square meters, and even the bed was spliced together by Li Yong with two single beds, but Ha Wen did not dislike it at all, but comforted Li Yong and said that the difficulties were temporary. In 1993, Harvin, who had worked for a year, was admitted to the graduate school of his alma mater and solved the problem of long-distance separation of husband and wife. After graduation, Ha Wen entered CCTV as he wished and became colleagues with her husband Li Yong. During the same period, Li Yong also became one of the audience's favorite hosts because of popular programs such as "Lucky 52" and "Very 6+1". 
But few people know that the producers of these shows are Harvin. It can be said that Ha Wen is not only Li Yong's wife, but also his leader, and Li Yong jokingly said that his salary was paid by Ha Wen. At work, Li Yong is a good subordinate who obeys his words, and in life, Li Yong is also a complete "rake ear." Li Yong once talked about his concept of love in the program "Super Speaker", saying that the standard for testing love is the fear of his partner. In other words, the more you are afraid, the more you love, and the more you love, the more you are afraid. It is said that Li Yong once gave Harvin the nickname "Splitter", because Harvin always scolded him with a slap in the face. However, none of this affected their feelings in the slightest. In order to live in a two-person world, they even plan to have no children and become a Dink family. You must know that Li Yongke is the only male in the family, and he undertakes the mission of passing on the ancestry. As a result, several old people started a fancy birth. Especially Li Yong's parents, if they couldn't urge Li Yong, they went to urge Ha Wen, and they burst into tears, and finally Ha Wen was moved. So after ten years of Dink, they decided to move on to another stage of their lives: having a baby. In 2002, when their daughter was born, they asked the imam (a Hui religious worker) to give her a national name, Fa Tumai. Plum. After the child was born, Li Yong became a slave to her daughter, and she happily took on the responsibility of taking care of her daughter. 
In order to save money to raise his children, he worked harder, and the audience's favorite "Very 6+1" was launched when his daughter was more than a year old. In order not to miss her daughter's growth, Li Yong left CCTV when her career was in full swing and became a professor at ** Communication University. He once said that in the past 22 years, he was CCTV host Li Yong, and in the next 22 years, he just wanted to be a good husband and father. However, fate did not always favor this happy family of three, Li Yong only did himself for five years, and everything came to an abrupt end. 03 Thousands of miles of lonely grave, nowhere to talk about bleak One day in June 2017, Li Yong fainted in the dressing room, and his colleagues rushed him to the hospital. Haven rushed to hear the news, but received a diagnosis of advanced laryngeal cancer from the doctor. This thin piece of paper, as if it weighed a thousand pounds, weighed Haven breathlessly, and it seemed to be a sharp sword piercing Haven's heart. Harvin's lips trembled but she couldn't make a sound, and finally, she hugged Li Yong and cried loudly. After crying, Harvin had to cheer up to comfort and encourage him. She said that now that medicine is so advanced, his illness will definitely be cured. After much thought, they decided to go to the United States**. The medical technology in the United States is the most advanced, and the more important reason is that their daughter Fatumai goes to school in the United States, and even if she can't make it, she can stay with her daughter for a while longer in her last days. So, both of them went through the resignation procedures and immediately left for the United States. 
They were worried that their elderly parents would not be able to bear the blow, so they hid the news of Li Yong's illness from their parents, and lied to them that they were going to the United States to accompany them and would not be able to come back for a long time. This statement not only deceived his parents, but also made some netizens who did not know the truth verbally and personally attack Li Yong's family. Some netizens ran to Havin's Weibo and went straight to the point to ask if they had immigrated. This is quite polite, some radical netizens used all kinds of unsightly comments to ridicule Li Yong's family as unfamiliar white-eyed wolves, and Li Yong was also characterized as a "bad artist" who made money in China and spent money abroad. What makes people wonder is that both Li Yong and Ha Wen turned a deaf ear to these remarks on the Internet and did not make any response. Until October 25, 2018, Harvin posted a Weibo that "After 17 months of fighting cancer**, I will never lose my love". Only then did people suddenly realize that the humorous Li Yong had left us. There are also careful netizens who found that during Li Yong**, Harvin had to post good morning Weibo every day, and now he knows that every good morning is Harvin under great pressure, and he is grateful to Li Yong for surviving another day. 
After Li Yong's death, his parents couldn't accept the bad news that the white-haired man sent the black-haired man, and due to physical reasons and visa problems, they couldn't bear the long journey and didn't come to see their son off for the last time. While Ha Wen was busy with her husband's death, she insisted on playing ** every day and comforted her parents-in-law: "Although he is gone, I will always be the daughter-in-law of the Li family." With the comfort of Haven and Fatuma, the two old men gradually came out of their grief and accepted the fact that their son was gone. According to Li Yong's will, the funeral was simple, and the ashes were not sent back to China, and his daughter was still studying in the United States, so Ha Wen stayed there. However, as soon as the holiday is over, Haven will take the children back to China to visit his parents-in-law. The habit of sending living expenses to my parents-in-law every month has also been adhered to, and I often call them ** and share with them the daily life of myself and my daughter. She used her actions to fulfill the promise of "Li Family's Daughter-in-law", and Li Yong will feel relieved when she sees it in the sky. 
04 Written at the end "Once the sea was difficult to turn into water, except for Wushan, it is not a cloud. "The love between Ha Wen and Li Yong is like two intertwined branches, even if it is death, it can't separate them. Every year, at 0:00 on Li Yong's memorial day, Ha Wen has to post a message on social platforms to remember. "Long time no see, read", a simple five words, expresses Ha Wen's thoughts about Li Yong vividly, making people feel distressed across the screen. 
Harvin is not only a good wife, but also a good mother and daughter-in-law. The people are gone, and the living always have to go on. She took Li Yong's share of responsibility on her shoulders, educated her daughter Fatumai well, and took good care of her parents-in-law. May Haven get out of his pain as soon as possible, embrace a new future and happiness, and look forward to seeing the Spring Festival Gala directed by Haven again. I also hope that Haven and his family will take care of their health, after all, health is the capital of the revolution.